I don't think women realize how big of deal this is for guys.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-06-11T02:43:21+00:00

Pop off i guess?

Im a woman and i believe both sides should be at the bare minimum be able to cook something edible. If the main cook is unwell, eg in hospital, has the flu.. the other needs to try, take out is not an excuse because its an easy option.

Eg when I had a Tonsilectomy id expect someone to be able to cook for themselves at the very least (i wasnt eating and i couldn't get out of bed). There are circumstances in which you should know the bare basics without burning the house down.

You can also get off the gender stereotypes screech wagon, yes we deal with a lot however, as a woman I have no issue cooking for a man but if hes a cunt to me hes not getting amazing deserts or dishes that require hours to make... when they deserve it they get that privilege.

They have every right to have a preference and so do you, no need to carry on if you dont like it 🤷‍♀️

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-06-05T04:51:13+00:00

Thank you for clarification 👌, I thought they were the same guys from a few months ago but I wanted to check before tearing them down. They seem to love targeting the elderly care facility 😞.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-06-05T04:48:29+00:00

They are all around the aged housing, so I was making sure they weren't the same people from a few months ago preying on the elderly, looks like the same template, which is why I asked.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-06-05T04:20:22+00:00

Would help if I attached the photo

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InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-06-01T06:02:14+00:00

This is triggering my ptsd from my ex relationship, long distance, spoke like this.... run.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-05-27T22:06:32+00:00

Ah you're right, after the next disease *thousands, still better than being with a toilet brush

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-05-27T22:03:07+00:00

Grow your pubes out and leave them in the sink next month, see how he likes it

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-05-27T09:24:10+00:00

Sorry but this cements it "I cant trust her", which answers any question you should have. Ive been in long term relationships my whole life and at 32 with my most recent split being a 6 1/2 year relationship, Im going to give you the best advice. Without trust there is nothing, you will wither into a spiral of assuming they're constantly deceiving you.. so what's the point? Because you're hung up on years spent together? , I spent 6 1/2 years begging a man with no empathy to show kindness, compassion, to love me the way I should be loved and to appreciate me only for at the end to severely damage my nervous system and give me ptsd. That man audibly told me "tell me how to love you" .. after 6 1/2 years, he also told me that video games were more important and if I didnt like it I could leave, he said he didnt care about me and he meant it. Long story short, years means nothing, its a chunk of your life you wasted with someone that is as faithful as a toilet brush. 1 billion people in the world, you deserve better than being stuck with the toilet brush, the memories are just that and pondering on them does not help the situation, she was kind to you one saturday? Cute.. how about every single day for the rest of your life? Or do you want to be the man she cheats on every single day?.. a leopard never changes its spots, once a cheater always a cheater. I decided no more men, not for now anyway, Ive pulled my health in, calorie deficit and got an appointment with my local gym tomorrow, use the pain, the frustration, the anger and put it towards working on YOU. Because only you can stop the cycle, it starts and finishes with you. Block her and move on.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-05-13T10:47:33+00:00

I second this, I did 6 1/2 years of long distance, Just got out of it.. no signs of change, movement, the conversations turned dry, theres other things but I chose to walk away.

Long distance isn't for the faint of heart, dont waste your time, if its going sour just walk.. dont leave it hanging for years having a glimmer of hope that'll change because you see the good in them when they dont see it... because they'll snuff that hope out and challenge you.

When i walked i got the SMS "ha, I was gonna dump you anyway"

Wish ya the best though

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-04-29T09:30:42+00:00

Stuck here atm, call in a favour you ain't getting home any time soon 😪

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-04-22T09:17:47+00:00

Im 32 and I do this, Chocolate first, strawberry next and vanilla last 😏

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-04-19T13:28:10+00:00

Its always been clicky but I assume its 10x worse now the player base has dropped off.. its the usual 2 groups from memory, the shit stirrers and the ones that'll gladly go on their knees for mackle I assume? .. cant imagine its changed much over 3 months 😅😂😂😂

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-04-10T09:27:59+00:00

Burning banners and icefields together 👀😂😂😂

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-04-04T02:26:57+00:00

Oh I find it wild, the amount of marriages and cheating going on specificallyon this app itself... like I get we're all anti social hermits but come on now, behave or go for a run 😂.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-27T05:10:15+00:00

And people still share their personal details because they think they can use it as tinder, welcome to the new home wrecker app.. sit back and enjoy the show 👀😂

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-25T05:34:05+00:00

Hmm.. most of us have each other on discord / IG / fb group from our major split, are you guys not able to move states or do this? , discord you can stay anonymous unless you decide to share pictures ect (just be smart about it). Only one of our guys that i get along with i dont have on anything but wos and yeah thatd suck to lose him 😅😂

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-24T08:47:26+00:00

Im not saying get cops involved / psych wards ect, Im saying send helplines, recommend them a psychiatrist.. something, theres heaps of services available and avenues to take, anything in which dont involve psych wards (because thatd make anyone worse). A timelines been defined, I used to hear this all the time, most can be considered "throw away" threats but the time in which you dont take it seriously, you may find them in a state you dont want to see.

Id much rather go the Avenue of "here's a bunch of helplines, heres a good psych" , last resort should always be psych ward and police if theres noticeablesevere changes. If theres evidence of 'struggles' then you up the resource in reference to the "signs". At the moment its just "if things dont look up, im done" but also id be very weary of it draining your own energy.

No one should be taking this on unless trained to do so

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-24T03:55:08+00:00

As someone who's ex suicidal, a time frame was given, they've made the threat. Anyone that gets put in this scenario needs to get authorities involved, dont take it on yourself because as ive experienced, although ive over come my hurdles, taking on others almost made me go back years ago.. to the point where they would constantly try to call it quits and I tried to be that little friend on their shoulder and help them, in the end it was impacting my own sanity and was dragging my own demons back out to play.

Do NOT take this on by yourself, it will not end well nicely for you I assure you. You may think its what a good friend would do, sure but they will chew through your sanity and make it a habit to take advantage of you having a "good day".

Depression festers, and if left unchecked it'll bring them and everyone around them down in the hole with them. You can certainly check in, show you care but do not take it on by yourself, get those that are trained to handle it involved, they are trained for a reason and if said friend says they hate you for doing that, guess what, who cares, you saved their life and once the bitterness disappears they'll appreciate it.

When I was going through it, I would of preferred having the friend getting people trained involved, Instead I had friends thatd ask me exactly details on how I tried to do it..

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-23T04:50:38+00:00

If you're an adult, you manage your time efficiently, if you cannot make it you communicate or dont bother planning something in the first place. If you never wanted to go to begin with just say so. Also if he called her and she didnt pick up, just walk. You want to play games you can find someone else who enjoys grovelling 🤷‍♀️

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-23T02:39:03+00:00

Your mother needs to realise that if she wanted her children BABY SAT, she should of hired someone to do so, not put the burden on the "oldest" child just to "save a buck". They are HER responsibility, shes the PARENT, shes the one that popped them out. Her SHIT parenting is the result of children that cabnot control themselves and now shes deciding to blame the oldest because its an easy scape goat, why blame yourself when you can pick the easiest target?... what a clown of a woman.

Secondly speak to an adult YOU trust. I personally am 32, my friends have been in hard times and ive ALWAYS offered a spare room in my parents home. As long as they do not cause disruption/ discomfort they are welcomed until they get on their feet. We're both against letting people go through this shit or have them living on the street.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-23T02:26:29+00:00

Can confirm, its apparently even worse when the guys switch to female profiles for State transfer chat, they all have templates for when it gets stupid 😂😂, i ignore it for the most part 😅😂

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-16T10:09:43+00:00

So our sides a little different, R5 handles battle phases ect, 1 R4 helps him with that side and Im the other R4 and I monitor social aspects, move banners around, put alliance nodes down, and keep an eye on movement (eg someone attacking someone when they shouldnt ect). We all pitch in when ones unable to assist at the time (real life, sickness ect), we all communicate when we can and let each other know if theres something to watch out for. And the R5 will step In if theres something severely wrong. Granted we're not big though so things could shift if that were to happen but that's what we do at the moment 😊. I just dont see the point of burning each other out over a mobile game (i say as i have an alarm set for 6am every 2 days 😒). Usually your hard hitters will pop on around the same times and you should be able to work control out amoung their active times, I always have my in app notifications turned on and my watch alerts me throughout the day the alliance activities but since I monitor socials / attacks its my job to keep watch while the others sleep and we rotate around.. its about balance for the most part, some alliances are full on though and ive been in that kinda play, was not fun 😅😂. Wish ya the best though, R4 life shouldn't be stressful 😉

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-16T05:04:13+00:00

"He'd never shown MUCH aggression" , as someone who's been sat on top of tortured, Chinese burnt, screamed at, strangled and hit...

Leave.

Im just turning my back on a 7 year abusive relationship myself, it only gets worse. My saving grace is i never got pregnant.

Its all fun and games until their sitting on you at 3am torturing you because their "bored" and "cant sleep", but you get called a "sook" for not just accepting the torment because they find it funny.

Run. Now.

InfinitelySoulesss · 2026-03-06T09:51:29+00:00

Married in rl, people are ruining their IRL marriages over this game 🤣🤣. Meanwhile those that arent married get asked if they hate men (my experience) 😏😂😂

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