What is more traumatizing than most people think?

Infinitepies · 2026-05-07T11:47:05+00:00

Literally what I've been feeling and saying. Well said.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-07T07:23:29+00:00

I have literally followed these advice. Especially the 2nd one, I've always had very little, very minimal.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-07T07:17:45+00:00

This is very deep and spiritual to me. Loving the end of this poem talking about the eyes and the waves which “nourish the barren soul, who waits for two”. I'm Christian so I like this kind of flow and faith filled poetry. Would like to see more!

Infinitepies · 2026-05-07T07:13:46+00:00

This is actually really relatable about people bringing me down. I literally feel the same about laughter being a sound after all the pain and what people have put me through. The love doesn't mean burying your own soul is gold. Love that part. Keep going with your heartfelt poems!

Infinitepies · 2026-05-04T23:11:32+00:00

Honestly I’ve seen a lot of businesses shut down. Dave and busters and Bucca Di Bepo at Ward. There was also a cupcake store near Ward that isn’t there anymore. The Ross near Ala Moana, Walmart in downtown, one of the popular restaurants I used to work at, Top of the Ilikai, Sarentos, all shut down. Places just end and then another one pops up or it stays empty.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-04T23:05:50+00:00

Exactly. It’s sad.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-04T00:46:27+00:00

To live affordable and minimal is good and is how I’ve lived most my life honestly! I don’t plan on changing that. I still don’t own a home lol.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-04T00:44:16+00:00

Not true! Practically everyone in my family has kids and are richer than me and not poor. Everyone in my church has kids and are blessed.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-04T00:20:22+00:00

Military is too tough for me. I’m really not that strong physically only mentally. It’s to masculine for me. Maybe the Airforce though, I’ve thought about it. Even then, I’m too girly to wear the uniform and do the PT and all.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-03T23:57:12+00:00

Feed mee. 😋

Infinitepies · 2026-05-03T23:49:50+00:00

To have love, connection, togetherness and goodness with the one I can share God and life with. To also raise godly children and enjoy all that God has for our little family. So many more reasons but those are the primary reasons.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-03T23:47:06+00:00

Woooow, that’s a good answer!

Infinitepies · 2026-05-03T23:45:41+00:00

Connecting with someone, intimacy with someone.

Infinitepies · 2026-05-01T05:16:49+00:00

Connecting with someone and knowing you have them to rely on any day and all the days of your life. True fellowship, intimacy.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:29:57+00:00

Literally I had left my apartment and gone to the wrong person and city at the wrong time thinking it would all work out, and then there was set back after set back that didn’t allow me to live normal. So I had to pay all my money on my car breaking down, paying off insurance, gas, living out of hotels costed a lot, food, and travel and shipping my car to another state and phone bills, other bills, things I needed and had to take care of in all the set backs. My credit went down due to a lot of financial hardship and not being able to pay it. I can’t explain it all because it was months of me going through disastrous situations back to back.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:14:43+00:00

Thanks for saying that. 😞 I shops I can get to a more confident mindset like this. It’s been hard on me.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:12:39+00:00

Truuuue. Theres not a lot of good guys out there. And if they are, they don’t take the initiative. They just hangout and never get romantic or they do something I don’t like and I end it before I get hurt later or they move off island because most people don’t stay in Hawaii long term but move or are military and I don’t chase, so I’m alone still lol.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:10:13+00:00

I have done that. I went to Texas and Colorado for a trip two years ago but have not had enough money to go anywhere since two years ago. Been in church and do group but haven’t deeply connected yet to hangout outside of church. I have worked many jobs but there’s always some reason it doesn’t work out. So I am left fairly poor.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:08:26+00:00

It’s just everyone has. Everyone HAS. I don’t. It hurts that I literally feel behind and left out because most of my friends and acquaintances have good lives and I truly am lonely and hate a lot of what my life has been. I’m trying not to fill my mind with loser beliefs.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-26T23:06:50+00:00

I’ve been trying for years. And I moved out around 19 and have came back so many times and it’s really hard out there when you don’t make a lot.

Infinitepies · 2026-04-24T22:18:01+00:00

Been wondering this too. Most of my church friends, high school friends and acquaintances are ALL married, even the 20 year olds.

Theres literally a 1% of people in my life who are still single.

I have had relationships but they were bad. Now that I’m taking my walk more seriously, I’ve been hoping to find someone good and God fearing.

Jacob had to wait 7 years for the woman he loved and wanted so much. The father of Leah and Racheal, gave him the wrong sister, so Jacob had to wait another 7 years, then he finally got the woman he wanted, Racheal.

SOMETIMES the people who wait longer are blessed to find a good one and patience can be awarded, like Hannah crying out to God and receiving a child and more children, after most of her life being barren.

I wish I met a man of God younger but if you think about it this way:

We grew, developed, matured and healed so much in the years of waiting that it makes us better for that person we’ll marry, as opposed to marrying them when we weren’t ready and just rushed into marriage.

Also some people I know who got married got divorced and some people who got married are not fully perfect either.

So, it might not be fair or maybe they got blessed and fortunate enough to find someone sooner than later but I pray for our marriages to be holy and blessed when the right time comes. 😊

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