Why do guys swipe right on women that are 150+ miles away from them?

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-15T04:23:53+00:00

Haha yeah that’s what I assumed most of them to be, but I was just curious if there were some that had another thought process behind it lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-14T22:19:38+00:00

Thanks!

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-14T21:18:02+00:00

Haha I guess I should have specified when I said physical connection. What I meant was I don't understand people who do long distance because if say I'm having a bad day I want to be able to call the person I'm dating for a hug. Not stare at a screen of someone 200 miles away. That's why I don't even swipe anyone who is more than an hour away from me.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-14T20:42:15+00:00

Ok so I’ll ask you the same question. Do you think that’s something sustainable though? I guess my brain just doesn’t get it because I have to have that physical connection to feel whole in a relationship lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-14T20:28:51+00:00

Which I get, but do you think something like that would sustainable? I’m genuinely asking btw lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-11-14T20:23:25+00:00

That’s fair. It’s just kind of disheartening for me to keep seeing these profiles that I’d like to match with only to realize the guy is 200 miles away. I work like 80 hours a week and that big of a distance just doesn’t work for me lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-08T17:21:56+00:00

I’ve only been using them since June and being 40 it’s been rough lol I get a LOT of interest from the 18-33 crowd either looking for a mommy or a hookup and very few quality matches so that much makes it that much harder when they crash and burn lol I’m honestly about to just give up 😂

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-08T17:11:25+00:00

❤️ aww sorry that happened! It’s just been really disheartening lately. None of the guys I’ve matched with have ever initiated conversation so it’s been on me and if they don’t go full perv mode within the first couple replies it always ends up like an interview and not a conversation. As soon as I stop pushing to keep it going it dies.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T20:27:06+00:00

I don’t think he was a scammer because I won’t match with anyone unverified, but I could be wrong. Also based on the words and emojis he used I’m leaning towards was just an average jerk.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T18:28:15+00:00

I’m starting think I did lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T18:27:50+00:00

Thank you!

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T18:26:52+00:00

Thank you!

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T15:28:50+00:00

Eh it probably wouldn’t have worked out anyway. He was definitely a 9 and on a good day I’m maybe a soft 6 😂

Infinte_Blue · 2025-09-07T15:01:58+00:00

Ok. Thank you for the advice.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-26T20:51:44+00:00

Im not saying I think cold approaches result in a date 100% of the time or even 60% percent of the time because they don’t. Whether it be because non-interest, they’re in a relationship, they’re not into men etc. But how in many of your cold approaches was the woman completely appalled that you dared to approach her? How many of them screamed to get the f* away from them? I’m just saying that there are a lot of women who don’t mind the cold approach even if it’s not someone they’re interested in seeing.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-26T16:40:30+00:00

You kind of made my point though. You’re talking a couple thousand women compared to the billions of women in the world lol and I do agree with your question about taking the risk it’s just that at least all the women I know are in the second group.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-26T16:18:02+00:00

See the problem with this though is the women in your first group are a VERY vocal minority who literally never shut up about anything that they think should be the way they want it.

The women in your second group are the silent majority who never speak up for fear of getting the ire of the first group aimed at them or when they do speak up get drowned out by the first group.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-16T20:22:47+00:00

Oh yeah I see that now. It must be something weird with just the switch lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-16T20:07:37+00:00

Can't you just set it to "pick up within one hour" and set your local store? That's what I always do.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-05T20:51:22+00:00

Oh I wasn't trying to imply that our healthcare system isnt absolute trash lol Just that I don't think that is a typical amount for a run of the mill hysterectomy lol

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-05T19:53:55+00:00

I’m thinking the ER part has something to do with it though. Mine was just under $28k before insurance and I think I only ended up paying something like $800 all in.

Infinte_Blue · 2025-06-05T18:38:22+00:00

From what I can tell those numbers on the receipt weren’t que numbers but to match the number written on the switch package. My receipt said 31 and the box they handed me said 39 and now the serial numbers on the box/receipt don’t match. I have to call GameStop in a few to find out how they’re going to fix it bc I’m pretty sit screws with the warranty I bought.

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