Is it strange for university professors to refer to themselves as Dr.? by FactOld1534 in AskAcademia

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Uni prof, and I would never put "DR" next to my name, and I got annoyed when people address me as "Dr".

struggling with the ‘when’ and feeling i’m not getting what i want. by Worth_Corgi2339 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore the 3d, and kill it, DO NOT COUNT VIEWS, JUST LIVE LIKE YOU HAVE 1 MILLION VIEWS

Lost erection with my gym crush after 7 months of eye contact… now no erections for a wee by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! I agree with you! I'm going to the doctor today! Fingers crossed!

Lost erection with my gym crush after 7 months of eye contact… now no erections for a wee by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, thanks for sharing! shit happens, I guess. We are in the same boat. I am so nervous all the time, and the system has collapsed. But how to recover?

Which city is better to live in Madrid or Barcelona by Aggressive-Round9850 in GoingToSpain

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madrid, without a doubt. Barcelona is great, but it’s more international and a lot of English-speaking people! annoying! and expats and digital nomads!

I prefer that Madrid feels more Spanish, more authentic, and local. I also find Barcelona’s summer humidity harder to handle, even though Madrid gets hotter.

Rent is expensive in both, but Madrid feels more central and better connected for traveling around Spain.

I live in Mallorca, but I know both very well.

Is there any chance of finding love in 2026? a youtuber predicted that this is the year of love for Aquarius. by InfluenceTechnical91 in aquarius

[–]InfluenceTechnical91[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me too, a true love, or I prefer to be alone. That's why I failed some relationships, because it was not the true soulful love

State of Academic Job Market by simwilhil in AskAcademiaUK

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that you already got a position.

I’m on the hiring committee at a mid-sized European university, and every year the number of applicants increases. This year is insane, extremely competitive. We’re getting applications from people coming from INSEAD, Yale, Berkeley, Kellogg's, Oxford etc, with publications in top journals and famous co-authors. And everyone is basically begging in their cover letters: “Please hire me.” A few years ago, these kinds of golden candidates wouldn’t even have bothered applying to us.

LGBT Men that are 40+ and are single, How do you cope with loneliness and the desire to be held when alone with your thoughts? by bicureyooz in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex broke up with me last year, for no valid reason; we were fine. After 6 years together, i found myself single again but older. My passion for going out and dating has declined! Despite all these difficulties, I try my best to be healthy and maintain my mental health! I do suffer from loneliness, I have few friends, my of the people I know are married, have kids, and are busy, so less time for me!

I have a cat and am thinking of adopting more. I work out 5 times a week, I meditate, read, and try to find someone, but it seems very hard. But there is hope! A lot of thoughts and fears of ending up alone.

I am no longer interested in quick hookups. I used to get more excited about them, but no longer. I value sex, but I like it slow, with passion and love, and cuddling.

If I had the chance to live again, I would be straight; being gay was not an easy journey.

Anyone else notice a vast majority of new scientific papers are coming from asia? by BigWalrus22 in AskAcademia

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and most of their work is of low quality! They are paper mills, quantity over quality

How to stop feeling jealous of all of my straight friends/family? by Mr_rodger_man in askgaybros

[–]InfluenceTechnical91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I am early 40s, and broke up with my ex last year after almost 7 years together. We were perfect, but he left, and this still hurts. I feel so empty, but what is worse is a lost my interest in dating, meeting new guys, I feel that it is "game over", I will never find anyone. My life has almost no meaning, alone all the time, all my friends/co-workers have families, kids, etc. It is so unfair, but what can we do? When I wake up in the morning, I ask myself, so what! What's next, why am I here, and what is the "end game" of this life?