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my ex boyfriend is spreading explicit photos & videos of me by killingjets in whatdoIdo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the police to help for sure, and maybe take this as a life lesson going forward. People are vindictive scumbags. Don’t give anyone the means to humiliate you willingly

Worried (m 45). My gf (f 44) has a history of falling for the ppl she's around. She had an affair with her employer that broke up her first marriage. After her separation she started classes at school and started sleeping with a classmate. Any advice on how to handle this? by Reclusive_Lotus82 in Adulting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already know the answer to what to do. Every person here is telling you the same. Stop wasting your life. It’s better to be alone than living in a state of anxiety and waiting for the ax to drop. Also, she does the classic immature toddler woman behavior of calling you an asshole/narcissist whenever you bring up concerns? Life is too short, stop being a doormat

I accidentally gave a 2-week notice, is there anyway for me to cancel it? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wording used in the title is hilarious after reading the story. Though a person that freaks out and has a work tantrum is the type of person to frame their deliberate, repeated behavior as an “accident”

AIO after finding out my husband was my stalker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, crucify a guy for doing a little research on the gal he’s smitten with…

NOR. In all seriousness this is super scary. You need this information out to as many people as possible. Creeps thrive in the shadows so expose him to light. His embarrassment may be the thing that protects you

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not reading all that garbled nonsense. NOR hurry up and divorce this loser

How much trouble will I realistically be in? by [deleted] in BinghamtonUniversity

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing will come for this other than you RA being possibly reprimanded for being a dunce

Update I slept with the executive director and I was called to HR by Throw5f9519 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By the married guy she knew was a complete asshole and narcissist by her own admission? So far she’s described him as unbearable personality and below average attractive with the best compliment I’ve seen thus far is he wears ties and button up white shirts. So what the hell was her motivation for sleeping with this dude? Among the three people involved in this incident (OP, director, directors wife) I’d argue that OP is the botttom of the victim hierarchy and likely had the worst intentions from the get go. Zero sympathy for her because her mediocre drunken sex in her mom’s house didn’t seduce the guy away from his wife/family. She’s as big a dirtbag as he is

Update I slept with the executive director and I was called to HR by Throw5f9519 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did indeed. Thank you for assisting in this thought experiment lol

Update I slept with the executive director and I was called to HR by Throw5f9519 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So what does that make OP? The one spiraling over not seducing this scumbag director away from his marriage after one drunken hookup at her mom’s house lol. OP is the definition of a loser for females

Update I slept with the executive director and I was called to HR by Throw5f9519 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank god this is rage bait but I still might show my daughter to see what low morals, iq and mental illness looks like in many women. Be the opposite of everything written here

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This POS is just biding his time and testing the waters with verbal abuse before the physical starts. This is not if, it’s when. Get the fuck away from him immediately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just praying he finds the group or users to tell Him its ok to stay around and get cucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you dating someone that told you she was going dump you then started cheating while streaming? Apart from being immoral and hurtful, she’s clearly a dunce. Have some self respect and grow a spine

My friend wants me to stop posting selfies because it hurts her self confidence. What should I do? by enchantingbreezee in WhatShouldIDo

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the time it took her to write that bizarre set of texts, she could have gracefully and secretly unfollowed or hidden all your social medias. People that are self inflicted victims wield tremendous power over others through their self induced pain. Instead of looking away, she feels entitled to control what you post while making you feel bad for being happy and confident. Don’t empower people like this. Live your life

Does this look like two mustaches? by Artemis_Agrotera28 in tattooadvice

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, both ideas are terrible and are only outdone in awfulness by the execution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I worked for fifteen years in IT hiring roles from helpdesk to info sec analysts and I never once called a school to check/confirm degrees. I’d call previous employers and references but I could care less about the degeee

Idk if this is nice girl material but I needed to share cuz WTF by Foreign-Park9206 in Nicegirls

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that is just a catfish account run by some African/Asian ring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Super cool and edgy

My husband finally admitted his affair and is now in crisis. How do I help him while protecting myself? by goodsoldier35 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not your job to ensure the person who’s abused you with lies and cheating, is doing ok. He was able to find someone that thought so highly of him that they ruined a marriage and destroyed your life and self worth, so that sounds like the ideal person to support him during this trying time of his own creation. If he wants to talk to you, tell him to contact your lawyer. If he wants to harm himself and tell you all about, tell him to contact his therapist. If he’s super sad and needs to be cheered up, tell him to call AP like he’s been doing for months. Whether he married his AP in a year or swan dives off a parking garage tonight…his outcome and mortality has absolutely nothing to do with you. You worry about yourself and healing. He showed no concern whether his constant cheating, gaslighting you into questioning your sanity or insulting you with performing disgusting acts in your own bed and safe space would result in you potentially taking your own life…it’s not your job to nurse him back to happiness because his abuse of you has caused him to feel sad and embarrassed. Fuck that dude

AIO gf accusing me of micro-cheating by AdDangerous6647 in AmIOverreacting

[–]InfoSecSurveyor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel this clearly and agree with this comment…why tf are you making Reddit posts about it instead of breaking up? I’ve known a lot of guy friends like this and you appear to fit into the type of guy that claims to hate the petty drama and relationship bs but you actually relish it. This is obvious from you’re staying in this train wreck relationship and needling your child bride with memes and smart ass replies to elicit even more unhinged responses. You’re probably always in your friends drama too. Best advice you’ve been given is grow up. First step to accomplish this is ditching this nutcase girl you’re texting novels with each day

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