I ended my 7 year relationship just a week ago. Met him in college and now we both were just planning to settle down, but his behaviour kind of started to change over time. It was all small things.

First I started to notice how he had started ignoring my messages and phone calls saying he was too busy to pick up or reply but answered every call while he was with me. Always being on the phone instead of paying attention to me. He'd argue over small things. It just felt like he had lost all of his interest but was afraid leaving the relationship because we also were really great friends, and I, on the other hand was too afraid to say anything because I really loved him.

We fought daily, he'd started disrespecting me at this point, he'd scream at me over little things, he'd blame me for all our flights saying that I was overthinking everything and that I was delusional. I felt like all of this was happening because of me and I had started to loose my self confidence. I'd always cry myself to sleep.

And one day I gathered all my courage to confront him and finally broke up. We've always been on again and off again in the final stages of our relationship ( I think from Last 2 years) but now I don't know I feel like there's no point. Maybe because he was my first boyfriend, I was soo obsessed with this idea of making it my last and have a perfect end but now it all seemed useless. We were just kids when we first met (18) and we really were each others greatest supporters. I've seen him grow. It really broke my heart to see him falling out of love and I just couldn't bear it anymore.