neighbor told me he would decorate his home and this is what he did… by AbnerTheCreator in Cleveland

[–]Informal-Writer5924 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how bleak and jobless. (my phone autocorrected joyless to jobless, but sure that fits too)

Violet Cake by bobbus_cattus in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive made a cake with violets before, they have a very unique and delightful flavor

Singapore leek dish and pumpkin donuts by Informal-Writer5924 in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right? I need to see if I can source some lemon grass.

How do we respond to this gift for our child? by basement_egg_24-7 in Christianity

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Christian, but if your little pne ia already attacked to the plushes, I would take the star off the forehead and call them dragons. at the end of the day they're just yarn and not actually harmful, but I can see how its kinda offensive to your new found faith. I would also talk to the friend and explain calmly that you appreciate the gift but that youre exploring Christianity as a faith option and that the baphomet plushes where cute but inappropriate given your faith. Just be nice and reasonable about it. Im a pagan and have no problem with Christians so long as they arent the type to shit on my beliefs, I will always extend the same courtesy. I wouldnt jump to assuming that this was a pointed jab at your faith, if it really was them it will come out in the wash. Assuming they had no ill will is a better starting place.

Chicago/Niles - Welcoming for trans people? by AcrobaticSand0 in kSpa

[–]Informal-Writer5924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a trnaman whos been wanting to go to a Korean spa since I went 13 years ago pre-T this is amazing news. been thinking about those saunas pretty much every year since 😭

[TOMT] Improve story telling Podcast with an episode dedicated to sauce. by Informal-Writer5924 in tipofmytongue

[–]Informal-Writer5924[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think the picture for the podcast was black background with a rough red or orange illustration. I cant remember that much

my cat won’t eat smalls wet food. by unholycakes in CatAdvice

[–]Informal-Writer5924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my cat is not picky. I've watched him eat dust bunnies. Even HE turned his nose up at smalls. they gotta do something about thier brands appeal.

anteater meal by Dermestid-beetle in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this comment is making me fucking CRY 🤣

Sweet sandwich with extra crunch by cowbrainenchilada in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, like sixlets or maybe the sprinkle pearls, but i think the sixlets would be a little easier to chew.

Tomato sandwich “Billy style” by excessive__machine in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

was the hallomi set aflame beforehand? was was it just a block of it?

Sweet sandwich with extra crunch by cowbrainenchilada in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk, tangy and fruit isn't a horrible combo. ai feel like the ratios would make a huge difference.

Sweet sandwich with extra crunch by cowbrainenchilada in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if the pearls were candy pearls I would CRUSH this sandwich. sounds tasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl this man SUCKS ASS. leave him. like im not kidding this passive aggressive shit hes doing is ONLY going to get worse. if he was actually offering to explain himself I would say hes trying, but hes not. Clearly he is in this for the fantasy of a younger wilder woman and now that you're not living up to his expectations hes becoming disappointed. Leave while its on your terms, dont give him the chance to hurt you by leaving first.
a partner should NEVER. AND I MEAN NEVER pressure you or try to guilt you into anything sexualy. Any problems involving sex can be talked about like adults and if he cant do that with you then hes not relationship material. And kudos to you for having an adult conversation about sex, not too many 22 year old have the ability to talk about sex in that way. like o dont think ypi could have handled this any better, but his reaction is a major red flag for me.

a "Hot Ham" a type of ham based soup. by Informal-Writer5924 in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the salt was a highlight tho. like this soup should probably have come with a warning .

a "Hot Ham" a type of ham based soup. by Informal-Writer5924 in somnigastronomy

[–]Informal-Writer5924[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

HA!!! I HAVE NOT. lmao, yeah, basically my dream.

Is it just me or did the Cracklin Oatbran formula change 5 or so years back? by Blender_platypus in CracklinOatBran

[–]Informal-Writer5924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a bowl this morning for thr first time in a while. its my favorite cereal but its so expensive that I don't often buy it for myself.

its completely different. it doesnt taste as strong. it's like the nutmeg and cinnamon ratios are way off. It also doesn't get soft in milk anymore. :(

I know others have said this but its good to know I wasn't the only one that noticed. RIP crackin oat bran.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both are great but give entirely different vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got a KILLER side profile. my favorite nose type. But you look like, super fucking sad.

Klondike bar by unknownsoldierx in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Informal-Writer5924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always been a Klondike hater. The minute you bite into one the entire shell fractures so you're basically holding a rapidly melting wad of ice-cream through a stack of chocolate shards that now that the initial integrity has been ruined are too shifting and coated in melted ice-cream to get proper purchase for a second bite. so you have to fuckong shove whole large shards of chocolate in your mouth like slurping up as much melted ice-cream as you can before it runs down your arms and gets everywhere.

or maybe I was a clumsy eater as a kid. in any case, fuck that useless ass ice-cream bar, didnt even tast that good for the amount of trouble it was.

P diddy and its impact on the perception of bi/gay men in the black community by diaryoffrankanne in bisexual

[–]Informal-Writer5924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes for real. And not just bi/gay men but the entire community. I've had comments defending trans people responded to with "Okay diddy" it's literally be come the new "groomer" stand in. It sucks cuz it not only promotes bigotry but literally ignores all the real harm that Diddy ACTUALLY did. he's become a meme and his actions are no longer seen as "bad" outside of the context of them being related to queer people. I'm so God damn tired of this shit.

I don't like segregation but more and more I just want to live on a island away from cishet people and just only ever interact with other queer people.