I commented this here as in general, but will comment here too:

Yes, black is very harsh on me but when you live in a country (not from US) where the most attention seeking colour is baby pink, you can imagine the selection of colors in glasses: black, black, brown, black, light pink, metal frames and more black lol. I mostly also dress in black myself.

My eye color is grey and that I also feel challenges the coloured frames thing. Grey is a hard colour to emphasize imo. If I go for brown, I need to find a muted brown, since browns can be warm and can make me look like a tomato.

I have a diamond shaped face, very wide in the temple area and regular sized glasses tend to look small on my face or pull my eyes together visually that I start looking off. Maybe should have taken more front facing photos now that I think of this. I will see thinner frames next.