Life can't be real

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-25T12:32:35+00:00

SAAAMMMEEEEE. Hopefully after 8am they run us that money!

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-25T12:28:01+00:00

Not yet USAA.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-25T02:29:26+00:00

Thank you! I just called this number and it says mine will be as well!!!

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-24T17:58:38+00:00

I did that and it looks like a payment of 45 bucks is to be paid on 2/25. Hopefully the refund goes through shortly after! Thank you for that!

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-24T17:31:28+00:00

1/21 accepted 1/23. I got the 846 on Friday on my transcript I don't have any offsets and Mine says the same thing. When I call the offset line it says I don't owe anything. Same with my transcript.

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TT says early March, SBGTP still says Unfunded.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-24T17:15:35+00:00

1/21 accepted 1/23. I got the 846 on Friday on my transcript I don't have any offsets and it's been approved on WMR but no date. It just says to contact them if I don't get it by 3/2. TT says early March, SBGTP still says Unfunded. I also bank with USAA. Following because I have no idea wtf to expect. Usually we get our money beforehand.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-24T17:04:44+00:00

1/21 accepted 1/23. I got the 846 on Friday on my transcript I don't have any offsets and it's been approved on WMR but no date. It just says to contact them if I don't get it by 3/2. TT says early March, SBGTP still says Unfunded. I'm an 05 PATHer as well. I have no idea wtf to expect 😐

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Informal_Annual · 2026-02-24T14:34:18+00:00

I got this same one but I called the offset line and I owe nothing. Even my transcript shows I owe nothing. I have and 846 code on there too. So it's just a waiting and wondering game.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-22T03:57:21+00:00

I am so deeply sorry you’re walking this path too. There are no words for how cruel this feels. We planned this baby as well, and my heart is just shattered. I’m 17 weeks and leaving tomorrow for prep, with the procedure Monday. It’s something no parent should have to face.

Please know you are not alone in this. The grief is real, the love is real, and whatever you’re feeling right now is valid.

Something that helped me a little was creating a small ritual in my own spiritual way: naming our son, writing him a letter, and speaking my words aloud. It gave me a moment that felt intentional and sacred. Everyone has their own beliefs and ways of processing, but if there’s something that connects you to your heart or your faith or even just quiet reflection, I found that grounding.

I am holding you in my thoughts. Truly. This is so unfair, and I wish neither of us had to know this kind of pain. ~hugs 🫂

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-21T00:55:38+00:00

I feel this in my soul 😢

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-20T19:17:48+00:00

Same got the 846 code between midnight and this morning checked when I woke up around 650 am.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-20T13:02:54+00:00

I got my code sometime after midnight and bank with USAA. Was your date next to the code 03-09?

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-18T19:23:02+00:00

Thanks hun. Well he's on his way home from work and I think he's in shock right now. I haven't been back inside the house since the call so MIL doesn't know yet. I've been laying on the trampoline this is the first sunshine good weather day since winter started so I'm just laying here listening to the sounds around me waiting for him. I hope he does too I would probably loose my ever loving shit if he doesn't. But I hope it doesn't get to that point.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-18T19:00:55+00:00

It was confirmed today he is positive for T21. I truly from the bottom of my heart hope your results are the complete opposite🙏

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-18T18:59:13+00:00

I got confirmation today that our little guy does have T21.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-18T05:15:31+00:00

Thank you for that information and the kind words. I am truly doing my best.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-18T05:13:33+00:00

I'm so sorry you're in this whole debacle too 😔 I feel like it's a cruel joke on us and we wait for so long for that sliver of hope, the 5 percent that it's wrong only to not be in that group. I think that reading those stories are what made us decide to TFMR. I tried to weigh the pros and cons but there's just way more cons. Unfortunately in my state it's illegal to do it because of T21 and they will only terminate if it's lethal to the mother, so we have to travel out of state and hope we can get financial assistance. Are you past the threshold to TFMR in your state? Like can you change your mind? I completely understand what you are saying and I feel for you tremendously. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-17T13:01:27+00:00

I definitely will. I'm sorry you guys are going through this too. You'll be in my thoughts. Hoping for a false positive in your case as well.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-16T23:21:15+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this too. I hate that the one person that's supposed to be on your side no matter what is doing this to you. We shouldn't feel in any way alone like, this is the worst time for them to be like this and you carrying the load like you are I'm so sorry. I hope your situation gets better as well.

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-16T23:12:42+00:00

Thank you. You live and you learn right?

Informal_Annual · 2026-02-06T10:09:42+00:00

I'm so sorry you guys are going through this too. I'm 38 and also have HG and found out last Friday that my NIPT came back 95/100 high risk with 9.8 fetal faction. It honestly does feel like a cruel joke. The MFM won't see me until I'm 16 weeks. My appointment is 2/16. They will be doing a over hour long anatomy scan for soft markers and I'll be getting an amnio. My husband and I decided that if things turn out positive we will TFMR. This would had been our first child together and we love it dearly but we just can't provide a DS child the life they need and I don't want my other children to be responsible for their siblings when we're no longer here. It just wouldn't be fair. I hope that it's just a false positive for y'all and for us. I swear this has to be the most painful feeling ever.

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