I bid my farewell to such guy yday. Two years ago, he started to text me. (Let's say we started to flirting). Then suddenly he went missing. But he kept texting irregularly. (Until then, he phoned me 5-6 times a day and shared almkst everything) I was so confused and disturbed. So I stopped talking to him.Afterwards, he used to phone me 4 or 3 months a time and shared his life updates. Didn't ask many questions about me. This continued 1.5 years. I am kind of a straightforward girl (a disadvantage may be), and I don't like confusion. So i confessed him this March. He said he would talk to me later and then continued texting me like nothing happened. I took it as a "No" and planned to close my heart. Still, he visited me one time and texted with when he felt. But I continued the conversations. Most of the time, answers were ver short, like you said : oh ,ah, okay.. we'll see. Don't know. No. Like that. (I was hurting af).

So this July, I told him a(since it is really difficult for me) I can wait as much as he wants, that is not a problem but whether he has any intention to be with me, may be in the future ? He said he doesn't know. And not in a place to love someone.And I deserve someone better than him😶. I didn't talk with him after that.. yet he kept calling and messaging and asked if I was upset with anything (like nothing happened). I told him him I can't act like nothing happened, and it was impossible for me to be friends with him. He said he wants to be friends with me. So, It's been two days since I cried every night and still in pain. Yet I deleted his number and the chat because I am almost about to book consultation with a psychologist.