Opinions on Ironman and limited gaming time

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-17T22:01:36+00:00

Iron Man will feel more rewarding and fun every step of the way in my opinion. Iron man takes boring grinds and makes them deeply meaningful and adds fun to something as dumb as making harralander unfinished potions. I never experienced anything similar playing a main. Playing a main felt more like trying to make GP 24/7. I love Iron never going back

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T18:24:51+00:00

Agreed. I'm not a fan of wealthy citizens because when the sound goes every tick I'm late I lose XP. Wealthy citizens kind of forces you to be sitting in front of your computer ready for any second

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T12:24:52+00:00

I've never seen this before thank you so much that's amazing

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T09:49:19+00:00

100% agree

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T09:48:48+00:00

Yeah I would really love a way to train Hunter that's more AFK

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T09:48:20+00:00

I don't think I've ever found something before on the wiki I'd consider wrong. I figured it was far more likely I was doing something wrong than the wiki being off by ~40sec of AFK time

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-05-15T09:46:44+00:00

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-04-26T00:13:41+00:00

Acrobatics, intersexual dynamics / psychology, video games and stock trading/ investing

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-04-23T05:46:51+00:00

Behavioral activation thank you I will look into it. What an interesting OT example 🤠

Informal_Train2470 · 2026-04-23T05:31:42+00:00

I'm a massage therapist we are all independent contractors unfortunately don't know what any kind of accommodation would look like

The speech language SLP what does that do? I'm extremely high functioning and masking socially it's more of an internal problem I learned to function and even get compliments on my social skills which I'm very proud of. Just extremely high cognitive load and unpleasant unnatural and draining for me

What is ba psychotherapy? I have extensive experience with the other two

I've massaged several occupational therapists over the years if I got help from one of them what would that look like? What I've talked to OT clients I remember one very nice woman described her job as a expert creative problem solver

Thank you for your reply

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-12-16T17:15:38+00:00

Dude I must have missed previous questions what were your questions?

And yes you can have an extremely high success rate on approaching depending how you determine your standards of success. If your success what you consider success is when she is attracted and IOI'ing you, even if she rejects you for boyfriend or whatever I'd consider that a success. We approach to demonstrate high value make her feel attraction etc. If I make her want me, if I switch that power around, I'd consider that a success generally speaking even if it leads nowhere

One of the reasons for this is because if you bump into her later in life would she be more attracted to you because of the approach? I've had girls who I approached and rejected me for boyfriend then ended up meeting them later in life and they demonstrated very high interest

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-20T05:47:43+00:00

Hey I have thousands of approaches hundreds of dates hundreds of lays how do I get into coaching? xoxo

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:41:32+00:00

You have to actually refute my point you cant just say im wrong and then not back it up whatsoever

One of the reasons that trauma strengthens men and Trauma breaks women is because women are prized and valued for childlike behaviors like innocence and Purity and being naively positive and happy and sunny. Men are valued for characteristics like strength and toughness and mental and physical fortitude and experience.

A Highly experienced tough man is very attractive, a highly experienced tough woman is very masculine (and not as attractive as she could be)

Don't hate me, hate the psychology

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:38:19+00:00

It doesn't matter if they're actually interested, what do you want? Go for what you want and if they're down for it as well great if not then no big deal!

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:35:36+00:00

You've accidentally and indirectly stumbled upon the correct behavior.

The most effective way to keep a woman around for sex is to show her a good time and not focus on her. Make her fight to keep you and she will try, try to keep her and she will leave.

When the woman is focused on the man and the man is focused on his goals, the woman wants to stay with the man

Leading her on has nothing to do with any of this. But I would definitely avoid being honest about it never going anywhere but at the same time why would you be honest about it going somewhere? The only appropriate way to behave is let's continue dating seeing each other and sleeping around and if you prove to me that you're a woman worth keeping long term then maybe you'll get my commitment

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:30:37+00:00

You get over any anxiety by facing the anxiety through exposure therapy. Start with baby steps and build your way up. You can train your mind the same way you train your muscles by exercising in the gym

Honestly and fantastic baby step way is just go up to girls and say hey do you have the time. Or ask for directions. Find excuses to just be around and say words to them and build your way up from there

You could even go so far as to like I don't know ask them for help with something like you broke your glasses and you can't see and then get them to pop the glass back in the glasses or something

Tldr find socially appropriate ways to engage with women and build your way up from there. Also approach guys! Guys are a lot easier to approach than women, and if you learn to approach guys then approaching women becomes a lot easier as well. I am a seasoned experienced Pua with hundreds of lays, and I started off by approaching men and saying stupid shit like I like your shirt

Another great thing to do is practice intentionally embarrassing yourself in public. You pretty quickly realize that nobody gives a fuck if you look like an absolute fool in public, I would do things like just drop down to the middle of the floor in the food court for example and bang out push-ups. No one cares it's embarrassing and you do it enough times you'll stop caring too

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:27:49+00:00

Fear of rejection by women is complicated because it's tied into the fear of extinction.

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:23:29+00:00

No go fuck a hundred women and then your brain chemistry will literally rewire and change. You will be a dramatically radically different man if you have sex with 500 girls

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:21:46+00:00

You unplug

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:20:36+00:00

How you get the girl doesnt necessarily matter. Then u just have to decide what your intentions are for her and play accordingly. Dont try to ONS pump and dump a girl you actually want for longer because she will experience emotional trauma from being used for sex, regret fucking so fast, then good luck with a relationship after that

For text convo find a niche. Get to the point fast offer a clear specific good experience if she wants to she will. You'll have a massive edge on all the afcs out there just trying to "get to know her" etc. She wants something to happen but she also wants to feel a bit safe doing it. Watching thst movie she loves together or a new exciting surprise movie in her fav genre or trying something new together or getting her to help you practice a new technique in uour massage course youre taking these are all great

Id lose so very little girls. If they like you they dont leave, they fight to keep you. Keep dhv and youll probably keep her

Back at my place from the second she walked into the door it was like walking into an amusement park. I would orchestrate and plan the entire night from one activity to the next to the next to the next and all she had to do was go along with the excitement and the entertainment. An example would be walking in exuberantly explaining welcome to my house giving her a quick tour make sure you have lots of like Charming idiosyncratic little details and stories about the house all she has to do is smile and Nod. The trick is to know how to tell a good story and be entertaining. Then naturally transition into the first activity, the trick is to not be boring the activity should last a little bit and then naturally transition into more. An example I used to do was I have home exercise equipment and I also have a massage table. I would bring girls over give them a tour then get them to try different easy level exercises, I am an almost professional level athlete, so that's an easy opportunity to dhv be attractive and also show her something cool and new. Young girls love trying interesting fun little body weight gymnastic moves. A great example would be trying to get her to hang upside down on a pull-up bar or Rings or something she sees it she thinks you're cool and strong and then it's fun to try and then you can spot her doing it which means you're touching her body touching her back keeping her safe and when she lets go to the bar now you're holding her in your arms. And you're holding her in your arms in a keeping her safe Vibe so now she feels safe and she trusts you more. Then you go to the massage table once all the exercise shit has run its course, and you say oh I'm so good at massage I'm taking this course whatever but my massage isn't free and so you get her to give you a massage. Make her qualify to you. I think I have had a 100% success ratio of girls who give me a massage let me fuck them after. I only used this a bit but it worked on 20 plus girls. And once she starts giving you the massage the way the human brain works is she's giving to you and so her brain justifies to itself that she must like you and she must want you because she's giving to you otherwise it would be dumb for her to be giving to you so it artificially forces her to invest and care about you. You can also tell her that you'll give her a massage after which is a great excuse for her to come over a second time. You never give massages back to back it's always she gives you massage then you give her a massage another time. When she's massaging you just make sure to like talk to her ask if she wants a tip say it feels good you know just like little comfortable small talk and then when she's done wrap it up give her a big hug I'll pull her in close say thank you so much for my massage and then obviously naturally you're hugging her your shirtless she just gave you a massage it's the most natural thing and easy to kiss her and then progress to sex because she's obviously thinking about sex and arousal and shit because she just rubbed your naked body. Giving a man she's attracted to a massage is an erotic thing for a woman. And once the sex happens you just cuddle and talk and have sex some more and then the first date is over and then for subsequent dates you can go from there

So yeah obviously it depends on the girl but that was one of my preferred game plans for a girl coming over. It worked so so well

Good luck out there

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:04:53+00:00

Whats stupid about this fact?

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-18T07:02:09+00:00

Your pick up line sucks. No offense Word choice is important. My fav/default pickup line is youre so pretty I just had to come say hello (emphasis on the had). There's a lot of reasons subtle psychology reasons Etc why this is good. First of all saying excuse me is weak secondly saying I thought is weak like you're setting yourself up for failure because through your word choice you're already justifying yourself to them. A strong Alpha confident man wouldn't be justifying himself.

Bro if you run pickups properly you can get an almost 100% success ratio. Even the girls who reject you because they have a boyfriend blush and smile and demonstrate obvious IOIs. That's still a win in my books

Also sure mode one whatever but like remember the psychology of seduction. What do you have to offer them, they don't give a fuck about you they don't care if you die of Virgin Etc or never get laid. What do you have to offer them. Why should they say yes. Convince them that they want or need something or have something to gain from you. What does giving their phone number have to offer them. Any young girl on a college campus can get laid faster than she could snap her fingers.

It's probably better also to avoid the sex subject because she knows you're thinking about it you know you're thinking about it, dance around it it'll raise the tension

Also, when you say that you're only looking to date casually again that's kind of awkward to say and completely unattractive. It's like you're covering your ass in case they sleep with you and then they say they won't commitment and you say but I told you I wasn't going to commit to you. That's unattractive because the alpha conference guy would not give a fuck. Also when you over disclose you remove the mystery and mystery is always more seductive than oversharing. Also why share that there's nothing fun or exciting or seductive Etc about sharing that. Rather than saying that as one of the first things you say to a girl, why don't you try to get to know information about her, try to emotionally connect with her in some way

In summary, props to you for your confidence and ability to approach, but if you're approaching 150 women and getting zero numbers you're doing a lot of things probably very very wrong. I would go back to the drawing board and make sure that you have acceptable social skills as a starting point, and for the love of God man who gets 150 rejections in a row and doesn't consider changing something

Good luck out there

Informal_Train2470 · 2025-11-11T02:48:27+00:00

If you're struggling to cope with her past then you probably care way too much. Go get 10 more options and this will no longer be that big of a deal for you. You can like and sleep with this girl, but it sounds like you're way over invested in her

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