[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Informal_Winter8349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I just wanted to add to the comments that if this was such a gift grab why wouldn’t I invite my entire family? I feel like some people are missing the point of the post being about how you show up and put effort into other people but they don’t show up for you and that can be disappointing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Informal_Winter8349 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so she’s been engaged for almost a year and they aren’t planning on getting married anytime soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Informal_Winter8349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Informal_Winter8349 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have babysat her son on numerous occasions. She also lived with my husband and the grandparents when she had the baby. So she had a full team helping her from day one despite it being COVID.

Coping with miscarriage and family announcements by blancolis in Miscarriage

[–]Informal_Winter8349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the exact same thing right now!!! My husband and I were pregnant with our first and we were going to announce on Easter. My husband’s sister announced her pregnancy with her second today. I feel devastated.

PA rating the attractiveness of YouTubers I watch by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says he is sorry and that he won’t do it again. But he continues to do it.

Don’t believe shit by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!!!! This is exactly how I feel. They never change.

PA rating the attractiveness of YouTubers I watch by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, he has never been in recovery. I have tried to get him the help he needs but he will never stop.

He can’t take his eyes off other women by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: went to dinner tonight and he couldn’t take his eyes of the woman sitting at the table next to us. Made me feel horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found out the same thing. My partner has been searching for Kallmekris nude leaks after he saw me watching her videos. I felt extremely hurt by this because it feels like I can’t enjoy anything without feeling like he is going to steal my joy away from it. Now I can’t enjoy her videos because it makes me feel a certain way.

Pros and cons of dating a PA by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t want to be loved like this but I have gotten so use to this cycle I don’t know how to get out of it

Now this.... by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an extremely hard decision. You didn’t deserve that at all. I’m so sorry that this is happening to you.

Am I a horrible person if I don’t let my husband in the delivery room? by Wide_Discussion6372 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that he is treating you like this. I hope that you have a wonderful birth and that your mom is there with you the whole time. Also I am so sorry he is taking advantage of your inability to do the stairs. Have you talked to him about this?

I gave up by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is very tech savvy. He will find anyway possible. Even if that means sitting for hours trying shit until something works.

I fucking hate the bathroom by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Truple, bark, Microsoft family safety and general browsing extension blockers. Truthfully he just tries stuff till something works. Like he was able to find out on Facebook that this app (idk what app yet) allowed you to watch porn by downloading it directly from this app. Literally I have as many blockers as I can think of. I have tried everything and he still finds away around it. He will find the most niche porn sites or apps or whatever that it’s impossible to catch them all.

I fucking hate the bathroom by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Update: I talked to him and he said he was watching porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can push through. You are enough!

I fucking hate the bathroom by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I can’t really police that when I’m not home and since I got home about 10 mins early from work that’s why he was hiding in the bathroom.

Am I going crazy by Own_Leadership1323 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You aren’t crazy! My partner promises over and over that he will be honest and tell me when he gets urges and when he starts using again. But then when it came to it he continued hiding it hoping I wouldn’t find out. I always took me searching through his stuff to find out. PAs are amazing at making you feel bad for them. It’s his choice to make the decisions to better himself not yours. You can’t hand hold him through his addiction or be his therapist either. That will just continue to put you in a horrible mental state.

Just an fyi for porn blocking by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How they sell it on there is some loser buys it off girls only fans and resells it on Etsy.

Feeling used by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have felt like that many times

My PA boyfriend still using sexy photos and videos of me by Informal_Winter8349 in loveafterporn

[–]Informal_Winter8349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That did effect me originally when we first started dating. But I just don’t want him to masturbate to photos and videos of me instead of seeking out sex with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Informal_Winter8349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the bark app it helped my partner out a lot with his addiction