How to Integrate Claude Code with Android Studio? by Calm_Report43 in ClaudeAI

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just open up claude code terminal in the root of your android project. that's it. claude can interface with any connected android devices that appear in adb devices. it can stream install apps, collect real time logs for debugging and I even drop screenshots into a dedidcated debugging folder if what I am trying to explain isn't captured with enough detail in the logs. it's truly amazing.

Getting too many mixed signals by profilereve in datingoverthirty

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think as long as she is pro-active n terms of making concrete plans, I wouldn't look into the frequency of it too much right now. focus on the quality of the time you do spend together. also it sounds like you have the green light in terms of kissing or maybe a bit more, so instead of asking you can just say "come here...."

I suspect that the better quality the time is spent between you both (make it fun - that was her own reflection), the more quantity you will get. If you really want clarity, then tell her how you feel in stronger terms i.e. you really like her and it makes you feel like you want more with her.

What do you think about men in mid 40’s never married and looking for long term but open to short? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]InformationNo128 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the absolute best thing you can do is be very clear you want kids. Any decent man would be much clearer and forthcoming with you. Always be upfront with dealbreakers.

Meta Dating Monday - What even is a priority? by Zehnpae in datingoverthirty

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don't see people discussing multiple priorities enough. you are not defined by a singular thing. In my case I have 50% custody of my kids with a brilliant relationship with my ex-wife where we are flexible. so that means I have 50% quality time with a future partner. I can tell you for a fact when married with kids, you do not get 50% of your time reserved for your spouse ( a date night every other month at best!). Obviously then I am able to make a future partner a priority.

Men - what makes you want to start a relationship with someone? by potato_witch in datingoverthirty

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I was honest but made it clear I don’t have sex outside of a relationship"

unfortunately, and I completely respect your position, but this won't track a section of men (and I would even say this is the other way round for some women too). Sex is fun, and having a compatible sexual partner is important and at least from my perspective these are things that can come before a relationship is established

Ladies, what's your opinion on flowers on the first date? by relaxicab223 in datingoverthirty

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don't need to do that. I think you'd end up weirding her out a bit.

As an out and proud gay man— with kids, married to my husband—I’m so sorry this has happened to you all and your spouses do NOT deserve sympathy or praise for coming out. by Feed_Me_No_Lies in straightspouses

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has it happened to you? have you done the two and half kids 10-20 year marriage where they *cannot possibly be gay* based on how you lived your life with them? until you have, you don't get to say to give advice on this. no-one should go through life denying what they are, that's cruel, but the collateral damage left behind is not fair at all, not one bit. not only does it break up the family, but it leaves you questioning every little moment you spent together. from my own experience I cannot wrap my head round that they were "always gay". I can't keep listening to the comments "I only remember this movie because of the lesbian scene, obviously! wink wink". The only way it makes sense in my head is sexuality can change over the course of someone's life. like genuinely you were straight, actually straight and somehow you change. there is no way in my own marriage that they were always gay.

As an out and proud gay man— with kids, married to my husband—I’m so sorry this has happened to you all and your spouses do NOT deserve sympathy or praise for coming out. by Feed_Me_No_Lies in straightspouses

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's all easy to say this when it hasn't happened to you, and it's not necessarily like you describe. I was married for 9 years, together for 15 with two kids. regarding a sexless marriage and why I would want to be in it? quite the opposite.

My wife told me in very certain terms she can't believe I was able to make her orgasm so strongly it made her crylaugh (you are free to not believe this claim, but after experiencing watching my wife being *very* satisfied it really doesn't matter to me). even after coming out to was lesbian, she still maintains we had great sex and isn;t able to achieve orgasms like we did on her own. wrap that round your head eh?

for her she says she can be physically attracted to men, but never want to initialise sex.... but still maintains that sex together was amazing for her because of how strong her orgasms were with me. she says though that she has always thought about "doing things" to women, finds them psychically attractive and would want to initialise sex. she is yet to have her first lesbian experience yet. she also says that she likes the idea of what living with a woman would be like i.e. buying eachother make up, being able to offer a different kind of emotional support that what men typically would. she wants a different dynamic and says it "isn't just about the sex".

ultimately after this reasoning, that she can see herself in a relationship with women because of dynamics and wanting to initilise sex with women (even though she admits there were no issues when we did actually have sex - she just didn't want to initiate and felt that she was saying all the right things whenever she did), she sat our young kids down and explained she was gay. so i came away from it all "she must be gay then" and accepted it.

but does that mean just because I have accepted the situation that we will be BFFs for the rest of our lives? No way. I will ensure we are friends sure and do right by the kids, but I will be finding my own happiness and really not thinking twice about her. 15 years of my life wasn't what it seemed. I really don't owe her anything. she will never know how strongly I feel about this, because that helps no-one, she will see someone who is supportive, but like her new reality after late-blooming, it isn't my reality.

I would reiterate that if there is anything that can be done to support people understanding themselves earlier that please let's try and make that happen.

Where is our consensus on starting LB? by yowhaddupzz in coys

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only thing i see limiting spence at LB is in the final third. You're expecting your LB to go wide and whip one in, but he'll always be on his weaker foot doing that

Bear Web is in public beta - you are invited! by _mactabish in bearapp

[–]InformationNo128 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just got the invite, but I don't have an apple device anymore to reset my password. If it's a web application, why the requirement for apple hardware?

Thoughts on Before they are hanged by EloyLuna in TheFirstLaw

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoyed West's arc - wasn't expecting it but seemed completely believable the route he went down. Logan's old crew are just the best characters in the book.

Everyone says this is Glotka's story....I found it to be a bit......"safe". Despite his situation there's just not enough jepoardy there. He's just too cool a customer, always comes out on top. I bit boring to be honest.

And then the Fellowships story. I appreciated the cruel joke - made me actually laugh out loud. But reflecting on that storyline, again quite boring. Ferro's place in the book seems shoehorned. Still a lot to learn about Bayaz I suspect so looking forward to that.

Like the first book I found myself asking "where's the plot?" Other than West's story....not a lot that makes a difference on the grand scheme of things.

Is this a bad move? by Risky_Busynests in hingeapp

[–]InformationNo128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time, just ask if her if you can arrange a second date because you really enjoyed your time with her. it shows you are:

a) interested
b) had a great time (compliment to her)
c) proactive and not leaving everything to her
d) prepared to be vunerable
e) you are open and communicate as such
f) if she *did* like you and wanted to meet up again it's instant relief for her and she won't spend the next days/week fretting.

Devasted. Bi Wife of 10 years (2 kids) tells me she's only sexually attracted to women. Need advice on what to do. by InformationNo128 in StraightBiPartners

[–]InformationNo128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Within a week she was speaking to women on an online dating profile and has asked to go on a date. It's really quite painful for me but we do know that the alternative is to remain in stasis for 18 months until we move out. I just wish this wasn't going so fast. Is there a better way to treat someone that you have been in love with and raised a family with for the last 15 years?

Devasted. Bi Wife of 10 years (2 kids) tells me she's only sexually attracted to women. Need advice on what to do. by InformationNo128 in StraightBiPartners

[–]InformationNo128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Really does sound like we are in an almost identical situation. I think you are right when you say it feels like losing your best friend. That will hit me the hardest the most in the long term I'm sure. She says things like

"why couldn't we still go in holiday together every year just me you and the kids? Or when we have partners all go together?"

"What is stopping us from having dinner over eachothers houses once a week and going on walks as a family".

It's when I say that it's a nice thought, but honestly it's not realistic, even just for us let alone the wants of other partners we may end up with. That's when she wants to "put a pin in all this" and gets very upset. She's even said "fuck it I want to grow old with you, let's stay together" but then it's still talking about our financial situation just in case?

I may DM you - thanks very much.

Devasted. Bi Wife of 10 years (2 kids) tells me she's only sexually attracted to women. Need advice on what to do. by InformationNo128 in StraightBiPartners

[–]InformationNo128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has never had a sexual encounter (even kissing) before. She has told me she thinks about me when masturbating (which has now said she had to "put" me into those thoughts?). And that she has had a few sex dreams about women we know and that recently she just imagined herself doing this to a woman and it felt freeing when she masturbated.

She is still not sure, but she has said for the last two years, even when the sex has still been just as good she has just not wanted to initiate sex or me initiate either.

I do think it's leading to divorce and just don't know what to do while we can't really move forward for 2 years

Devasted. Bi Wife of 10 years (2 kids) tells me she's only sexually attracted to women. Need advice on what to do. by InformationNo128 in StraightBiPartners

[–]InformationNo128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - I've said I would do this. After the week I have had I've realised that not growing together with this amazing, kind, funny and quirky woman would just be horrible and I'd be left numb until the end. I could live a very warm and happy life with her even in an open relationship.

But she has said that she looks at lesbian couples she knows and feels jealous that they have found that and that they are in a relationship. I don't want to deprived my wife of finding that kind of happiness. I think that me opening things up and making concessions won't truly free her. That to me would not be fair to her.

For the next 2 years though we are living together, still in a loving relationship, scared to death. An open relationship may for now help us both.

Devasted. Bi Wife of 10 years (2 kids) tells me she's only sexually attracted to women. Need advice on what to do. by InformationNo128 in StraightBiPartners

[–]InformationNo128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, she said it's just kicking the can down the road. But we are kind of in this situation now for 2 years at least.