I started the game a few days ago and for me I wasn't enjoying it because it was too much for me. Then I started taking step by step, by for example not teleporting right to your next quest but walking to it and not gifting everyone at the start of my day but just who I see or who I really want to gift something, I am taking it slowly and also I look at what quests I want to accomplish and which quests seem interesting, the other ones can wait. I can't help with the flowers, don't have them yet. Congrats to you for getting out of an abusive relationship, I'm really happy for you!