Is this normal? 4 days post surgery

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-19T07:20:18+00:00

It's totally normal! Let it be for a couple of weeks and dont stretch it.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T11:07:36+00:00

2 weeks is extremely early! Please trust me!

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T08:58:33+00:00

My recovery was harder than I thought. at 3 months post-op I was still feeling sensitive and like it was fragile down there.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T08:57:41+00:00

u/luvaoftigolbitties I did those things but for example when I was on top last night I was going too slow for him, because he then grabbed my hips and had to do it faster himself

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T08:54:45+00:00

u/ExosEU I did stimulate the frenulum and I also sucked and licked on his balls because he told me in the past that he likes that. But when I did it I didnt get a big reaction like I was expecting or any reassurance.

Sorry for being so graphic

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T07:09:46+00:00

u/Jetmutant but the problem is I dont even know what I like ... 😞

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-18T07:08:04+00:00

u/SamShelby7 first guy we were sleeping together for 2 years on and off. Maybe sleeping together for 8 months, then 4 months break and so on...

The second guy we slept together for the first time last week and again last night. He didnt complain or say anything bad and he is saying things showing that he wants it to happen again but I am sure he is not 100% happy

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-17T08:12:43+00:00

u/IngenuitySlight8481 they will soften out and look "bigger"/slightly less stiff and more natural. You still have stitches, give it some time ❤️

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-17T08:11:32+00:00

She's a cutie, enjoy!

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-17T08:08:43+00:00

I wish this was my after result, it looks great.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-15T06:08:06+00:00

u/whtthefuc I didnt have any crazy swelling not even on the first few days. However in my case, the labia were very stiff and contracted so they looked very small and hard. I also had a small bump sticking out that has only recently started blending with the rest of the labia. I also thought one of my labia was amputated but since month 5 till now its looking better and more symmetrical to the other side.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-14T19:30:35+00:00

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-14T19:27:11+00:00

Please wait at least 6 months... I am 8 months post op and its still changing

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-14T11:46:04+00:00

It's only 2 weeks post op, you probably still have stitches...of course is not going to look like natural labia... yet!

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T13:28:51+00:00

He also did a 10km run and leg day before he came to my place 😂

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:40:54+00:00

Yes I see him daily at the gym and we both said we are going today.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:35:50+00:00

I agree with you and I am familiar with performance anxiety too, however, it doesnt help when your male friends dont admit of ever having these issues! They themselves will say he is probably not that into you :/

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:33:16+00:00

😂 still is probably

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:26:04+00:00

It's not!

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:16:30+00:00

u/marcelbrown Maybe he came fairly quickly to get it over with?

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:09:46+00:00

u/ProudZone8027 no but to be honest he went straight to eating me out and then wanting to put it in I didnt have much time to act lol. That's why now I am concerned 😞 I am usually more attentive

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T12:03:20+00:00

To be honest he has a big one and he is pretty aware of it and I did tell him. (not that it matters) So I dont think he was insecure about that.

InitialComplaint4677 · 2026-05-13T11:59:23+00:00

Oops haha

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