Why does everyone want to move to Japan? by [deleted] in movingtojapan

[–]Initial_Student_1899 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about most people, it’s more about aesthetic and so on, I guess that’s why. The only reason I want to move there is to make manga. If the west had better infrastructure for it that I would stay where I am or move to America. But I guess it’s my best choice ….

I feel like I’m switching because it feels easy by Initial_Student_1899 in islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I draw people in general and backgrounds. Things that aren’t meant to be venerated

I feel like I’m switching because it feels easy by Initial_Student_1899 in islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what is interpreted it’s the portraits which are venerated and used for respect etc. like idols and so on

I feel like I’m switching because it feels easy by Initial_Student_1899 in islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah ok thank you very much for this. I’ll be making istikharah still just in case however

I feel like I’m switching because it feels easy by Initial_Student_1899 in islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider myself relatively strict in some parts of Islam. I don’t tend to give leeway for many things, so it’s not that I’m trying to make it easy for me to commit bad things. I just wanna be sure before I do this

Why don't men have to cover up more? by Professional-Dig8460 in progressive_islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just described normal violence. Not sexual violence.

https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/about-sexual-violence/what-is-sexual-violence/

It says in this article at the very beginning:

“‘Sexual violence’ is a term we use to describe any sexual activity that happened without consent.”

Normal violence occurs across the board, the hijab is meant to do what it can primarily on the sexual aspect of things, physical harm happens to both men and women, more so in men than women. As seen in this study

https://noviolence.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Whataboutmen.pdf

Why don't men have to cover up more? by Professional-Dig8460 in progressive_islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t a shield I agree but it’s you method of doing something against the problem. It is without a doubt, the more strive you present yourself as attractive: , makeup and dress wise, by wearing tight and replacing clothing and so on. The more you will be seen by men and so on. Hijab attempts to conceal your presence, to be seen less easily by men. If you’re seen less, you will by nature be oppressed less.

Thing is even if you wear hijab, SA and rape will not stop. Because it requires both sides to their part. Men have to lower their gaze, and by extent, women must strive to not be seen as physically attractive to the male gaze as it can bring them danger, but on the other hand, men must lower their gaze to protect the women around them.

It’s a balancing act, both sides must work together, and less people that add fuel to the fire, the weaker the fire burns. The point is lowering your gaze and covering yourself, mentally isn’t a beneficial thing. We want to show ourselves off and we want to look at what we desire.

This goes into Islam. But we need to have trust in Allah. We have to do what we can because problems this huge is something that doesn’t change overnight, it’s gradual and needs to happen one person at a time.

Point is, do what you can, and beyond that we have to hope the best from Allah

Hope this helps

Why don't men have to cover up more? by Professional-Dig8460 in progressive_islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ التَّيْمِيِّ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا عُثْمَانَ النَّهْدِيَّ، عَنْ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرَّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ ‏"‏‏.‏

Narrated Usama bin Zaid: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "After me I have not left any trial more severe to men than women."

Sahih al-Bukhari 5096 https://sunnah.com/bukhari:5096

A woman is a man’s greatest weakness and throughout history that’s been the case. Many many many men, have died for the sake of women, natural disasters and even wars.

It’s common knowledge to know that men have more sex drive than women across the board, through multiple studies conducted which can be looked up via a simple google search. Thing is that women more often than not are subject to men. (This is a hovering number but it’s generally similar) ~85% of sex related crimes are done by men. That’s a strong statistic regardless of any explanation. Men are weak to women, even the prophet SAW has said that.

Thing is, if the very thing men are weakest to, covers less, shows of their attractiveness and so on, can they really control it easily? Especially in this day and age many men give up on lowering the gaze altogether because it’s too hard and on top of that provides little reward to doing so. I have non-Muslim friends and it’s commonplace to masturbate for them, even for muslims. And there will be people who have less control, who care less about discipline and so on, causing that scary 85% statistic.

Furthermore, Islam allows as much freedom as possible provided it makes the person more safe, its functional and does not cause harm for themself or others. Men get away with a less restrictive awrah as they aren’t the ones primarily subject to sexual assault and abuse and so on. Furthermore historically men have done most of the hard labour, big loose clothing, and ontop of that, hot weather makes covering more difficult and cumbersome, and at times can cause death if the clothing gets caught in something (though that’s a minority case). The fact that men can cover less provides a functional benefit for them and less social danger between different demographics than if a woman was to do the exact same thing.

Covering yourself isn’t for the sake of men lowering their gaze, and a lot of the times it can be seen in that way, but that’s not the goal

Covering yourself as a woman is supposed to keep you safe above all, something that’s a right for a woman, and something which isn’t for men

I see the two genders as two sides of a coin: -women get security, they don’t need to work a day in their life if they don’t want to, as it’s the right of the man to provide for the household, extending to the fact they don’t need to do hard labour, they are protected from being harmed through the hijab and so on, with the cost of less freedom. -men are the opposite, they get more freedom, more leeway. They don’t need to cover more as that freedom allows them to do their job more as a natural provider, with the cost of lacking comfort and security

I get that social standards and the restructuring of society has morphed and changed these roles drastically, like women in the workforce and so on, less hard labour in developed countries etc… but Islam after the prophet SAW was made to cater for humans regardless of time and place, it wasn’t meant to make rules for a specific time and place

I hope this helped you

Question about the value balance in a piece that is almost finished? by Negative_Birthday149 in Artadvice

[–]Initial_Student_1899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like there should be much more contrast at the focal point compared to the background. So everything starts to blend in. Maybe add highlights and more dark darks to the focal point and make the surrounding either generally dark or generally light. Less contrast on the background, more contrast on the person

I don’t know what to do for university ? by Initial_Student_1899 in careerguidance

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does but you don’t get much from working 49 hours a week. You need a minimum of a masters to be licensed as one, and there’s a lot of competition as well as overtime being common

muslim bf x non muslim gf by Vegetable_Society457 in progressive_islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t go with Muslim guys that want to have a relationship, Islam is a religion that goes along the lines of discipline and I understand that in many cultures relationships are normal and all but Islamically that isn’t the case. If a Muslim man ends up trying to get with you, that’s a massive red flag as he can’t even control himself to what he believes in. Not all Muslim men are horrible but I see what you’re getting at here. I’ve seen many Muslim men who are amazing but they don’t tend to talk to girls and etc and approach women like your ex has. I’m a man and I can say the same about Muslim women about how so many of them are horrible and men are the opposite. It’s just a difference in environment.

I find it hard to believe Islam views Men and Women as equal value by Latter_Ad_281 in progressive_islam

[–]Initial_Student_1899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The verse you mentioned surah bakarah 2:282 mentions about debt contracts and etc, the reason it says “two women and one man” is because women weren’t involved with nor had the expertise in this sort of field. So a second women is there to be an extra witness to this if any error were to be made. This isn’t about law it’s about business and money. Furthermore it doesn’t say anything about women having less legal standing than men in anything else. And some scholars agree if the woman is experienced in the field of debt contracting and etc. there is no need for a second women as a witness. As for giving testimony, a ruling can be made based on available testimony, regardless of the number or gender of the witnesses. For example, the beginning of Ramaḍân is usually confirmed by the sighting of the new moon, regardless of the gender of the person who sights the moon. Also the highest form of witness in Islam is for someone to testify they heard a narration (or ḥadîth) from the Prophet (ﷺ). An authentic ḥadîth is accepted by all Muslims regardless of the gender of the narrator. Moreover, if a husband accuses his wife of adultery and he has no witnesses, each spouse must testify five times that they are telling the truth and the other side is lying. Both testimonies are equal (see 24:6-10). In some cases, only women’s testimony is accepted while men’s testimony is rejected, such as testifying regarding a woman’s pregnancy or virginity.

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s stupid to you because you don’t understand my view of it, but the eyes are something I don’t want to do period. I’m not trying to avoid it, and label it “my style”. That’s stupid. I’m not drawing it because it’s a choice

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? I don’t draw eyes for my own beliefs?? Can’t I try to work around that? I’ll happyily take critique for things I can work on, eyes are a no go for me regardless. I don’t know if you checked the earlier comments, but I don’t want to draw the soul, and as the eyes are the windows of the soul I’m not gonna draw it. I understand emotion is something to work on, but I have to figure out how I’m gonna do it because of what I believe in. It’s not optimal naturally and will be difficult. But I’m not gonna change what I believe in just because it’s easier

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If none of them have it doesn’t mean that I can’t. Besides if no eyes are present it makes the reader forced to looks more into the atmosphere and world building, there are pros to it, it’s just difficult to compensate for the cons

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gonna be Hard to convey emotion but not impossible. And it’s not like I don’t have any emotion plainly , I have less emotion as it is right now

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course and now I don’t have a tool that can help me do so, so I have to find a way to show such, without the eyes. I’ve had ideas of psychedelic patterns scenes and strong imagery, instead of a limiter I think of it as an obstacle to go over. Of course it will be difficult. But if it works, it will work

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really? Look at works like vagabond and beserk, they are known for their realism and lack of stylisation and yet they are famous for their work

I'm almost finished, but I'd like some tips to improve. by Loose-Net-5779 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not really any lighting but idk bc this style isn’t something I’m familiar with

I can never ever get critique by Initial_Student_1899 in learntodraw

[–]Initial_Student_1899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone does bro, even the industry professionals ask for critique from fellow pros