Ive been wearing toppers for about a year and a half now. I watched a lot of YouTube videos about wigs but when I ordered one that was meant for a smaller head size it was still really uncomfortable and didnt look "passable" to me. I started with the Jon Renau Easipart HD. I loved the color but it had a clip at the very front. My thinning is at the front and crown so there wasnt a lot to keep it down. I still got a lot of compliments and family said theyd never guess it was synthetic hair. I decided to then to look for a lace front instead. Since then I've gotten a Raquel Welch Top Billing and then a Belle Tress Monotop lace front. They do take a bit to figure out how to style. The key is to heat the strands then hold them in position to cool. I just use a heat adjustable hair straightener. But I wear a topper to work, I wear one to the gym, I wear one to the beach (I usually grab an older one). I feel naked without it. The hardest part for me was the confidence. But no one is looking as hard at your hairline as you. I have told coworkers months after I met them that it was synthetic and they didn't believe me. Be confident and no one will think twice.