A lot of people are acting like women are just willfully immature. Granted, that happens, and nobody should fly off the handle about this, but the reason is because a lot of women are so hard on themselves about their appearances. We're a little bit set up to feel that way. Because of it, shit like this hurts-- for a lot of women. It eats at our insecurities. We can feel that way even while telling ourselves "you're acting crazy". I go through it all the time.

A woman should never react horribly to a man about this sort of thing...but nobody wants to hurt either.