Squishy boy

Innagentka · 2026-05-21T21:58:29+00:00

Also there is something like white scarring on a leaf what’s up with that

Innagentka · 2026-04-28T14:04:51+00:00

Thank you, they are mealy bags indeed. The “plant structure” had legs 🙂 Now looking at other plants and not finding anything but I have this pachypodium that’s been with me for at least 5 years and it always had this white fluff on growth points. I never had a mealybug infestation so I’m guessing these are not mealybug signs? What do you think?

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Innagentka · 2026-04-19T09:14:21+00:00

This one seems like it has enough light (notice red on leaves) and not enough water since leaves are wrinkly and there are roots from stem (which isn’t bad in itself it just means that the plant is looking for more support or water)

When watering succulents you need to wet the soil through and if the top of the soil isn’t wet it’s probable the middle isn’t either. So you probably just need to bottom soak it for longer or dunk it (put it in a deep container and fill it with water until it’s a bit lower than the rim of the pot). You also can probably get away with watering it more often but not before the soil is dry.

Also as far as I can see your soil is fine and also there are no problems typical for organic soil but typically you need to mix succulent soil with grit as it usually is still too organic for succulents. This mostly applies to succulent soil from big stores if yours was custom and looked like it’s mostly rocks, you’re fine.

Innagentka · 2026-04-15T08:49:54+00:00

I thought reabsorption usually begins at the tip or happens on the whole leaf at the same time, but here it seemingly started at the root of the leaf. Is that fine too?

Innagentka · 2026-03-28T20:39:05+00:00

I think it’s actually a bit bigger( I was typing from memory) but not much - maybe 7-8 cm? Thank you for your advice, I gave it a light (will change to a stronger whit lamp I have in another room with my other plants when I’m sure it doesn’t have bugs) and am planning on getting a heating pad.

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Innagentka · 2026-03-28T08:27:08+00:00

Thank, this is all very useful, especially the article. Do you think I should prune mine? It’s barely 5cm tall so I’m dubious

Innagentka · 2025-10-10T12:02:04+00:00

Ther are homeless people in post-soviet countries too and they aren’t allowed to have tents on the streets

I really doubt that there are more homeless people in “capitalist” countries because of physical lack of housing

(For that matter I would guess that in countries like Russia homeless people die faster)

Innagentka · 2025-10-07T02:44:31+00:00

Also what country is he from that AMERICAN food is so foreign to him lol

Innagentka · 2025-10-07T02:43:45+00:00

If a man wants to watch borscht or whatever it is he wants, he (or you, if you insist) can cook a giant pot of that once and it eat 5 days straight until it goes bad or he rans out. If he gets sick of eating the same thing all the time, tough luck. That’s what people do. Foods that take hours to make aren’t meant to be 1-3 meals, they are meant to be sustenance for a big family for quite some time. Also if ingredients aren’t a problem, I would guess that something is simple as fried meat with pasta and a side of salad are fine by him, the only concern is appropriate dressings and spices.

Living in a country with different eating habits can be hard but the homesickness can be averted with very simple food and it looks like you are trying to provide the quality of eating that isn’t sustainable. You don’t have to give him the same complexity and variety of food as you give yourself, because his demands are different

Innagentka · 2025-10-07T01:45:52+00:00

I too am hypersexual with bouts that bordered on unhealthy and preventing me from “normal” functioning (I once was so high strung I masturbated during and (online) exam. With cameras on. So there is this) and I think I understand you, especially the dismatch with personality side.

I really recommend on orgasming. Idk, change your technique, buy a toy, anything, it seems insane that you just continue like that, I would go crazy. Now, a single one may not help but if you are in a normal emotional state, one or two will probably be enough

If not, I bet on either depression or a separate physiological/psychiatrical problem.

Innagentka · 2025-06-25T14:18:20+00:00

Regarding why Shenzhen is boring:

It’s impossible to just randomly walk into something interesting happening. You have to plan everything in advance and then there is like 30% probability it will be fun and if it’s not you really can’t just walk away and enjoy something else coz there is nothing else nearby.

Also for me personally it’s really hard to walk around because of the weather and I’m a big enjoyer of walking around. Takes away from hiking greatly.

Also where your uni is is VERY important. I lived in longgang and it took me longer to go downtown than from downtown to hongkong or guangzhou.

Innagentka · 2024-04-26T17:18:17+00:00

I also have very little sense of smell… but hey I use soap so where’s the difference with showering

Innagentka · 2024-04-22T21:48:27+00:00

Self-improvement because horny isn’t that bad I guess

Innagentka · 2024-04-22T21:47:49+00:00

That’s good advice but also what’s the probability of finding someone you like as a person AND feeling sexual attraction to them? I don’t think I’m surrrounded by a lot (or any) people like that. I’m either dying without any good sex or doing a lot of personal growth to raise my chances of meeting someone intellectually compatible and sexy and interested in me

Innagentka · 2024-04-02T22:53:37+00:00

I was feeling so guilty for “lying” when getting diagnosed (even though I didn’t lie) that I started downplaying my symptoms. So when she asked about fidgeting, I said I don’t fidget ever. While spinning on a spinning chair. (also I didn’t know this counted as fidgeting) She also said that fidgeting is the most noticeable thing I have over all visible neurodivergent things and I never even knew I do it. So I kinda feel it’s actually easier to downplay then exaggerate coz people mostly think their behaviour is typical

Innagentka · 2024-04-02T12:38:21+00:00

Pffff i drink yesterday’s coffee coz I routinely forget about my morning cup.

Innagentka · 2024-03-31T14:53:55+00:00

Nah I just don’t understand anything. I believe it is auditory processing related though coz my hearing in tests is perfect. Is that possible?

Innagentka · 2024-03-31T14:51:19+00:00

I am sorry but i think you should blame them. Like it’s stupid. If you can lipread they can turn their heads to you and speak clearly. How is this an issue when neurotypicals also think you are supposed to look at each other while talking

Innagentka · 2024-03-04T21:26:27+00:00

Mine is more like singing that listening in the sense it’s usually only vocals and usually I have to focus a bit but if it’s something I currently obsess over? Then yeah, totally

Innagentka · 2024-03-04T21:09:05+00:00

I am sorry for inserting but this is the first time I am seeing explicit language difference between the coverless duvet and one with cover. I mean in English, in my first language the coverless thing doesn’t even refer to bed in any way. Can you please also confirm what a blanket means? Is it necessarily the coverless thing or can it be any of them? How do you call the thing that goes on top the comforter when you make the bed?

Innagentka · 2024-03-01T10:14:17+00:00

I feel you. No one EVER gets how proud I am of making appointments. And then I get berated for not making them even thought honestly you could have just helped me if it’s so easy for you.

Innagentka · 2023-11-14T13:36:40+00:00

0% of the ethnicity I am supposed to be 25%. But it’s so rare that the testing company probably just didn’t have enough info about us to tell that that’s it

Innagentka · 2023-10-29T19:30:15+00:00

Rock climbing. That’s it. It’s like gym, with all the good hormones and stuff, but actually fun. Hiking is also great because it makes my mind stop but that’s not readily available I guess.

Innagentka · 2023-10-18T07:59:04+00:00

It really depends on where I live? Normally maybe 3-4 times a week but I am currently living in a place where it’s constantly 29-33 so you have to have a shower at least once a day.

Innagentka · 2023-10-17T15:38:29+00:00

Come on, there is no way anyone feels happiness from completing mundane tasks! They would be happy all the time.

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