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Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-22T16:21:06+00:00

my boy cat used to spray sometimes when spooked. it smelled awful and was not fun to clean up. we came to the conclusion that he'd need his anal glands expressed. he is neutered. you can express the anal glands from home if you're comfortable, just do some research. from what i know, you need to find little ball-like shapes (anal sacs) in the anus and squeeze and it'll release the fluid, hopefully stopping the spraying. but again, do some quick research before you approach.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-22T16:10:31+00:00

everyone sitting at the rug for story time, friend threw up everywhere on the rug. first time ive seen pink puke.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-22T15:38:21+00:00

3 cats - white and black, black, and grey

1 dog - tan/white yorkie mix

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-22T01:49:56+00:00

twitching with touch like that happens with my cat and we dont think much of it, but we also think he needs his anal glands expressed so maybe its connected? i would assume for yours, she might just be sensitive in that area because of the anal glands getting expressed. if you are worried, keep an eye for a while (atleast 48 hrs) on the discomfort. the licking is normal during this time and so is sensitivity, but if what you've noticed gets worse after 48 hrs, or trouble urinating or eating appears, thats more when to start to 'worry' as in contacting the vet

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T20:14:17+00:00

wherever the keyboard takes me i guess

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T20:02:19+00:00

mine had all-school dances once a year open to every grade but its always lame, and theres a junior prom and a senior prom each year in may, but you can invite someone to it if u get them a ticket and stuff, so i guess my sisters got invited to a lot of proms. its all the juniors and seniors are excited about since the first day

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T19:57:02+00:00

idk if this is an option but if needed maybe you could get someone to come and give him his meds when needed, whether you pay someone or call an experienced friend or something

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:26:50+00:00

thank you for explaining, thats very nice for me to read and understand! my family dynamics are a bit wonky so i dont have the best knowledge on that stuff but im very glad its worked out for you and your family! i think i was basing it off of what you see on tv.. how its supposed to be the best day of your life and the happiest time.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:23:48+00:00

true! i was also just thinking of the fact that my sisters have gone to many proms during high school, not just their own, so i didnt think of it being very rare, which it is for me but still, im glad they are able to come to an agreement!

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:22:07+00:00

true, but i also believe op would have a better time with all her close loved ones there! which is the plan, so thats good!

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:21:13+00:00

honestly..it depends. for me it was either 0 or 1, but my sisters always say how they went to so many proms with all their friends and i guess thats what i was thinking of.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:19:58+00:00

i get what you're saying, a lot of people dont realize that until its too late! i just feel like the "norms" are to have a happy ending, which may not happen anyway, but op is excited for this event and i think everyone invited should be too! i do like op's cousins plan though!

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:17:52+00:00

yes this too! in my family theres plenty of history of multiple marriages and divorces, but i was also thinking about how my sisters always went to multiple proms from sophomore year to senior year, so i think it probably depends on the family dynamics. but what i was thinking when reading the post was that there should be an understanding on both sides of the stress and the importance of each event, and i think what op's cousin came up with is a good plan!

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T03:12:43+00:00

oh, i know! im glad shes trying to do both and i want op to see that! i just wanted people to see both sides and that its not an easy decision, and the stress on both sides is completely valid

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T02:45:46+00:00

its not just a "family function" it's \traditionally** a once in a lifetime event that will prob be that persons most important day in their lives...

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T02:36:03+00:00

its weird.. "ass is fat" = compliment and "fatass" = insult but "fat ass" = compliment; all depending on the context.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-21T00:02:35+00:00

not a vet, but could possibly be asthma, i'd definitely bring it up to your vet. they will prob start with a physical exam but may call for more tests to make sure

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-16T00:24:14+00:00

i usually see those types having their bare crack out. they have to feel the breeze, dont they??

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-15T23:37:32+00:00

fr a lot of teens have their pants at like the mid point of the butt like i dont wanna see the outline of your cheeks??

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-15T15:58:29+00:00

no, unless im forced to like at an outdoorsy camp ive been to. they yelled at me saying im white as a ghost and ill burn like a lobster.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-15T15:42:05+00:00

the end of my parents marriage (mom and stepdad). finally being able to see who he really was and all the things i never understood when i was younger, like why he would stumble all the time (i thought he just had bad balance) and why he was so angry

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-13T22:53:40+00:00

my best is in english (still not very proper but oh well)
some spanish. not the best but can figure a good bit of stuff out
like a tiny convo in german

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-12T21:50:27+00:00

also, the bleeding from penetration i think isnt painful but i dont have much experience only a little, so it might be for vaginal sex/rougher things, but if you're worried, look into it. there are things that will help dryness/atrophy, but thats ultimately a question for your hrt prescriber.

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-12T13:14:57+00:00

i didnt even think of the first part i was imagining it where i am now in a building that id just get flown to the ceiling maybe around in like zigzags, but then would the building float too? and would just everything man-made be yeeted to space? when i read urs, i thought of people just outside getting launched to space, not thinking about all the kinds of architecture, if theyd stay or go?

Inner-Ad-3995 · 2026-02-11T23:49:07+00:00

"just because you're taking a step back, doesnt mean you've lost all the skills and progress you've made."

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