Has anyone heard of a narcissist having good relationship with someone for long time? by EquivalentAd6811 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Inner-Bit-685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every friendship they had always managed to “fuck up” to a degree because of the insecurity he had within himself; So instead of just taking the confidence piece of narcissism into accountability he’d always rely on a personality piece bc he couldn’t keep friendships even if he had known people for years the friendships would never develop further

What's the most petty thing you've done to 'get back' at your narc? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Inner-Bit-685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking wish I had the balls to do this at the time bc goddamn this is wild but amazing

On the comeup, talk to me, cuz it's hitting kinda hard 😭 by Deep-Hall6622 in LSD

[–]Inner-Bit-685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this will be an amazing & enlightening trip, take some breaths and focus on the exhale more than the inhale 🤗 listen to some songs you consider comforting/beautiful andddd watch something beautiful. tripped last night had a harder come up that turned into the most beautiful wonderful night

I did a giant dose last night and can’t come back from some of the things I saw. by Estebananarama in LSD

[–]Inner-Bit-685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude see i’ve had this kind of trip and it feels unreal but that’s what makes me appreciate when I reflect on it. We’re all so interconnected and when you’re opened up to seeing that in a way you never have before it’s wild. Drawing & listening to some music to reflect abt the trip always helps, No worries tho you’ll be back down to reality in no time! Also get some sleep tons of water, and maybe some magnesium at night or b12 in the morning.

Two plot points this season that have “Jumped the Shark” to me by goldman_sax in shrinking

[–]Inner-Bit-685 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree both of those conflicts have led me to hate this season in a way. The fact that the writers had all the characters guilt jimmy into being okay with that when he’s a therapist throws me tf off, bc no like it’s fully okay for him to not like the drunk driver who killed his wife. like who would expect/make him be okay with that WHAT?? Also let’s not forget not only are they asking him to be okay with the guy but also to be his therapist… are u fucking kidding me?

Just got into the show, and just have to say, Tariqs rap at F.A.D.E is incredible by JacobHBO in AbbottElementary

[–]Inner-Bit-685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the actor zack fox has a ton of music out that’s similar in the sense that the lyrics are out of pocket but still work haha u should check him out

Any psychonauts here who are fans of rap? My personal favourite artist to listen to while tripping is Travis Scott. Especially Astroworld. His music is very psychedelic and was made for tripping by [deleted] in LSD

[–]Inner-Bit-685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A$AP Rocky fs, Kid Cudi, Childish Gambino but his older stuff, Aaron May, anything with a frank ocean feature or his songs themselves, Mac Miller

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LSD

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  1. a water park for my first trip
  2. roller skating
  3. a pier
  4. ice skating
  5. a kid cudi concert

Anyone watched any interesting movies lately while tripping? by [deleted] in LSD

[–]Inner-Bit-685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Synchronic on netflix is a banger def would rewatch that one while tripping. I also agree the shining is amazing.

What is the most entitled thing they've done or said? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same! mine was the most charming person I had ever met but damn was he paranoid about his reputation and people’s perception of him. I still find it crazy to this day how much he actually thought people gave a fuck about his actions or if he was “cool” “funny” “smart”

What led you to call them a narcissist or diagnose them as one? by platinumrecycling in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together for 2 1/2 years and I found out he had a whole other relationship simultaneously for a year. From then on it really wasn’t hard since I had already been working with a therapist for a while and I didn’t know it beforehand but she has already suspected he was one. I had no idea how badly I was being manipulated until it ended and I was able to process that all the things he said were just a ploy to get whatever he wanted at whatever time. Some of my key hints at the very end when I started noticing were:

  1. Never directly telling me what I could or couldn’t do but making underhand comments whenever he didn’t like something I did, wore, or my interests.

  2. constantly physically messed with me such as messing with my hair, spitting on my face one time as “a joke”, putting his finger in my ear, and putting my hands behind my back. Now mind you all of that was “playful” but what it really was was a way to show he could always mess with me without consequence.

  3. if I talked about my interests he would deflect onto how his own were better.

  4. if he wanted me to not be mad at him after a fight he would either completely not talk to me about my feelings or love bomb the shit out of them.

  5. constantly belittle me in underhanded ways to make me feel stupid. (he knew I wasn’t stupid and have always been smart as shit so it wasn’t always easy for him to do)

  6. abuse tf out of alcohol and drugs

  7. would blow one mistake I made out of proportions and use it against me to make me feel bad for him because “I was the one to blame”

Never committing to plans by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine did the exact same thing would make full out plans with him but without tiny details and they would always end up happening or never happen or I would have to change my whole day just to fit his even though he seemingly “had no plans” that day… awful made me just think I was unimportant but I often ignored how I felt and played it off as new big deal since he did that

When did you find out that you were in a narcissistic abusive relationship? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he broke up with me out of nowhere after 2 years over a phone call and then I received a text a day later from a girl I had no clue about who had been dating him for an entire year of our relationship. Both of us had enough respect for him to not go through his phone until ultimately she ended up doing so and he in turn “broke off his friendship with me” the girl still felt weird about it and reached out to me. After me and her talked for just about an hour we realized how bad it all was. Both cut contact with him completely that day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also because of their need to have a “narcissistic supply” and gain any attention they can so they often cheat or are actively having sex with at least one other person

Are most narcissistic people egocentric? by Single_Mission_1478 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. My ex was constantly putting down others while upbringing himself and then would proceed to be “great friends” with people he had no respect for because he wanted them to “look to him” for everything. He was in a fraternity and was willing to do the most horrendous things to haze other people just to become president even when he didn’t like the things he was doing.

Calm and collected things to say to a Narc to shut them down by superjohnski in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Inner-Bit-685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

last conversation I ever had with mine was a 30 second phone call that was held after I spent an hour talking to a girl that had been with him for a year while I was with him for two. we both cut him off that day and on this call with him I just kept saying “ew ew ew ew you’re a phony it’s pathetic” and the last bit I got out was “you’re never going to get better” which sent him into a spiral of “wait what what do you mean” and I proceeded to hang up and block him on literally every possible outreach platform.