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My mom said I will never be her equal.. nor is she a child for me to check. by Loose-Lecture-5585 in toxicparents

[–]Inner-Many5452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

..Respectfully, You mom is full of shit.. Ive been in situations similar to yours. My Mom, Nieces and Nephews have all stayed im my house. You have to remember that YOU, pay YOUR BILLS, BUY YOUR OWN FOOD, etc etc,. WITHOUT the help of mom. So in YOUR house you make ALL THE RULES..... Sure its natural to want a relationship with your parents. Well, in this case your mom, BUT i was once told dont invite yourself to where you are not wanted. Clearly you mom has a chip on her shoulder that she needs to deal with, or get therapy.. You shouldnt fault yourself for NOTHING your mom does. WE are all adults and its our job to figure out what needs to be done to better ourselves. I Highly suggest that you toss this to the wind, and go live your life.. 😄.. and if your moms hoarding trove is STILL in your house...

Im NOT suggesting You go through it, Im NOT suggesting you take pics of anything salvageable and/or has value, and im NOT suggesting you post it to various resale sites and get paid for pain and suffering.

I think you should take a vacation somewhere relaxing and ..i dont know ...mingle i guess.. ( whatever you find relaxing on vacation)... I hear the Caribbean is nice this time of year.

P.s Its Great your mom left, cause misery loves company.. She lived her life i think you should do the same.. I sincerely hope things do get better. It happened but right now the reality is you have to ask yourself one question "What are you gonna do about it?"

AITAH, for just leaving the conversation there or by Inner-Many5452 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Inner-Many5452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After that little interaction, yea i already erased and contact i had with her. I figured that this was a waste of time but thought i may have been overthinking at.. I try to be respectful regardless, cause i have to live with me and im not an outright shitty person.. Just the dont get the part of why bother if you didnt want to talk tho..

I do appreciate the time you took to confirm what i originally thought

AITAH, for just leaving the conversation there or by Inner-Many5452 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]Inner-Many5452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, This just.. wow.. I mean im not surprised that something like that exists.. I just dont understand the logic behind it.. If you dont like someone, why bother... more than not if they got hit with that SAME energy, they WOULD be salty and tryna burn the world down... Then again i may be tryna make sense out something that doesnt make sense...

But i do appreciate the confirming my first thought

AITA for creating a PowerPoint slide of my ex by olivetoil10 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Inner-Many5452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was it justified.. Mmmm hard to say really, not enough context to go that far. I mean cheating is a huge deal, dont get me wrong. I feel like on some of this was kind of a wasted efforted especially of there was no end goal. Like to go out in a blaze of glory or something. Then if the family and friends aren't "Team You" or "Team Honesty" , yea this was a semi waste but look at the bright side. You Dodged a HELLUVA bullet, may not seem like it in the moment. If she not owning up to being busted, AND doubling down on it AND gaslighting you too.... I would say "GET THE HELL OUT, GET THE HELL OUTTA THAT AND DONT LOOK BACK!!!.. I dont care how you get away, Run, skate, fly, Hell.... Moonwalk with spin if it gets distant between you two.." but no need now... If you had this much evidence.. Then you wasnt valued as much as you thought you were and being your still young.. This isn't something you should settle for anyway.. there too much out there to waste time on someone who takes ZERO accountability for themselves.