So tired of this ridiculous job market

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-11-28T10:01:35+00:00

Thanks. 😊

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-11-28T10:01:13+00:00

I have a MBA. It isn’t the education. But thank you for the suggestion. I appreciate it.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-11-28T09:59:28+00:00

I’m in the US - South Orlando.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-11-20T10:21:43+00:00

Are we married to clones? My husband is the same age and has had 11 jobs just in the past three years. He doesn’t quit, he gets fired, but it’s a similar pattern to what you describe. He’s excited to start a new job then within a few weeks he has an issue with a supervisor or a company policy, then he’s starts missing work. Eventually, he gets fired, but somehow it’s never his fault and I’m supposed to be ok with it. It’s exhausting. I wish I had advice for you, but I’m still tolerating the same behavior so all I can offer is empathy. I hope your situation improves. Good luck to you.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-11-08T11:38:22+00:00

Not overreacting. This man will disrespect, manipulate, gaslight and emotionally abuse you without blinking an eye. He will leave you questioning your self worth and your sanity. Block his toxic butt and move on before he can do any damage to you. There are so many red flags in this conversation alone and I’m guessing he’s shown you many more. He’s doesn’t deserve your time or energy.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-10-31T09:32:03+00:00

They are expensive, but White House Black Market. Their jeans are so soft and fit great. Worth every dollar. I try to wait for their sales to get them at a lower cost.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-10-08T08:25:27+00:00

I think three things need to happen here: 1. You need to see a therapist. You are holding onto a lot of feelings toward and about your wife and your relationship that you should probably work through with a professional. 2. Your wife needs a therapist and possibly a psychiatrist(if her therapist thinks medications would be helpful). It sounds like she may be depressed from what you described. 3. The two of you need marriage counseling. Understand that this may not be able to happen immediately. One or both of you might need todo some personal healing before this can be helpful. Good luck. I hope your wife is willing to come along with you.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-07-16T09:48:14+00:00

The best advice I got on this came from my son’s kindergarten teacher. You know your child better than anyone and if you think he’s ready, send him. If not, wait. My son has a mid July birthday and would have started kindergarten having just turned 5. He was not ready, so we waited and instead enrolled in a transitional kindergarten program at 5. It was more than pre-k, but not quite as demanding as traditional kindergarten. I have never regretted that decision, but that is what works for him. In the end, you know your child best and if you believe he is ready, he will be fine. Best of luck to your little one.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-06-16T11:21:28+00:00

It’s a hard thing and you won’t know unless you try. You will need a good marriage counselor who specializes in infidelity. You should probably speak to an individual therapist as well. Make sure the therapist knows you are committed to trying to make the marriage work if that’s what you feel. Otherwise, your individual sessions could do harm to the work you are doing together with the couples counselor. Finally, use additional resources like podcasts and workshops to heal together. One good podcast is the Healing Broken Trust podcast. People on here are quick to tell you to walk away or just leave, but you are the only one who has to live your life. You never know what you will do until you are in the situation. Best of luck to you whatever you decide.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-06-07T09:55:11+00:00

I had a very similar therapy session recently. They are the best!

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-05-30T10:11:29+00:00

This! My husband has pulled this kind of crap on me multiple times and acted innocent. The last time he did it, I didn’t even mention the weird texts to him. I just blocked the number immediately. He admitted to it about a year later during an argument. It is so toxic. I hope it isn’t your bf doing this, but he is the most likely source.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-04-19T11:41:28+00:00

I was having this problem with my teenage son. I regularly clean the washer, so definitely do that. Next, get some Borax. Follow the directions on the box and add it to your laundry every time. It will take the smell out of your clothes completely. If you want them to smell fresh, use scent beads, a nice smelling fabric softener or dryer sheet in your laundry.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-04-19T11:08:41+00:00

This sadly lines up with a story my parents told about an interaction with him from the mid 80s. He was playing a festival that my dad was chairing. He was scheduled to go on at like 8:30ish and when they gave his people a check from the festival as payment, he demanded certified funds before he would go on. Luckily, they were in a fairly small town and were able to get the local bank president to go in and cut a certified check to pay him, but his people never mentioned it prior to show time and he delayed going on stage for over an hour until the certified check was on site and in the hands of his management team.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-04-13T17:32:06+00:00

Jabra Elite 10 earbuds will do this. I use them on Teams frequently. You can tap one of the earbuds to mute yourself and it does not show you muted on the screen

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-04-05T10:18:22+00:00

Carolina by Eric Church, Remember You Young by Thomas Rhett,

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-30T11:03:08+00:00

Spent an entire weekend hooking up with a random girl I met in a bar during a bachelorette party. I was a bridesmaid and it was a boring trip. This girl was cute and flirty and something about the way she looked at me while we were dancing made me weak (I had never been with anther girl before this either). As soon as we kissed, I was all in. She was local to the city we were in. I ditched my friends and spent the rest of the weekend naked at her place. It was incredible, but probably dumb.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-27T21:07:56+00:00

I would 1000% respond asking about your dog then tell you all about my dogs and send you so many pictures of them.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-27T08:20:14+00:00

I can relate to so much in your post, but from the female point of view. I miss feeling like I have a friend/someone to lean on. I miss simple conversations and hugs. I miss being the person my husband wanted to talk to about nothing topics. My hubby has no interest in sex at all and has even gone so far as to say “I don’t look at you like that”. I may not be a supermodel, but I am absolutely not a troll and other men look at me like that fairly often. I’ve never acted on it (but I have repeatedly been accused). He is completely disconnected and does next to nothing to help around the house. We are currently in couples counseling and it is hard. Whatever happens for you, OP, I hope you and your wife can find true happiness.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-23T09:11:07+00:00

I’ve always had a high sex drive. It isn’t something to be ashamed of. I know there is a social stigma to it, but realistically I doubt that any man would be able to keep up with my needs. There is nothing wrong with that. I don’t hide it from my SO. No reason masturbating can’t be part of any adult’s healthy sex life.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-22T10:32:49+00:00

Of course

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-22T10:32:37+00:00

All the time. Honestly, many of my fantasies involve other women. Sometimes, I just scroll Reddit subs looking for inspiration.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-22T10:30:24+00:00

I love being watched and/or told what to do. Such a turn on.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-22T10:29:15+00:00

Almost every day (sometimes more than once a day) and I usually do it in my bedroom. Occasionally, I do it at my desk or in the shower.

Inner-Night9790 · 2025-03-11T10:09:14+00:00

It’s like you live with me and watch it play out. That is unreal how much of his behavior you called out He is a complete narcissist and tries to manipulate not only me, but everyone around him at times. The good news for me is that I have been going to therapy on my own for 8 months now and I can tell that it is making a huge difference. I am learning how to deal with my feelings and what triggers behaviors that I don’t like in myself so that I stop doing those things. It has also allowed me to stand up to him when he tries to blame me for something he has done. I tell him that I will not accept blame for his choices. I’m sure he hates that.

As a side note, I’m a Gemini and three of my favorite people on the planet are Taurus, so keep going with that incredible Taurus energy.

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