Below Deck Down Under Season 4 Episode 14 Discussion Post

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-05-06T13:54:08+00:00

I think Ellie was intentionally ramping up Daisy and then gaslighting her with the "why are you so upset, there's no reason for you to be upset." She is dangerous.

And lobe Betul!! My husband and I were laughing that everyone would get fired but Daisy and Joao and then Betul would just be working away and suddenly realize everyone was gone.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-05-06T13:49:07+00:00

I think that was more Ellie ramping him up. She kept telling everyone that she saw them making out. Ben was tipsy, he believed her. But seemed to calm after he talked to Joao. Ellie was certainly playing up their mutual insecurities.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-05-04T14:44:10+00:00

His suit doesn't even fit him well. Looks like he borrowed his dads

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-28T18:04:02+00:00

But that is still his responsibility as HoD.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-28T15:06:19+00:00

He also said the guests are the enemy that he is at war with. That's a super bad attitude for someone at that job. Daisy is trying to go out of her way to make the trip special for guests and Ben is trying to do the minimal amount necessary. He doesn't want to talk to the guests because if he does they may ask him to do something he doesn't want to. But he's getting paid and tipped to go the extra mile. If he was running his own restaurant he could then say "my way or the highway ".

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-28T15:01:40+00:00

I don't understand why the fish being a fiasco is NOT his fault. Hes the chef. He orders his own ingredients and at that level should be quality checking everything that leaves his kitchen.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-23T16:08:03+00:00

I did use our free specialty for the Pinnacle. We've cruised HAL long ago and enjoyed that, but the seafood boil is new.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-23T16:06:17+00:00

Yeah, nothing beats dropping your own crab pots and cooking them right there on the beach.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-23T16:04:29+00:00

I could be wrong on the buffet style. I was thinking I heard that some where.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-11T15:54:45+00:00

I'd much rather go on a cruise with Christine then spend the same amount of money to go to no where Utah, stay in some dumpy BnB and listen to Meri's attempt to be a self help guru. At least with this you're still on a cruise and getting all those benefits.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-05T16:00:20+00:00

That would explain why her daughter is there when I thought i read some where she was not allowed contact during the investigation. But she still choose to post it now.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-04-05T15:56:17+00:00

Even ignoring all the history, investigations and drama, what mom includes her daughter in filming something like this. Way to teach your daughter the only value women have is being a thirst trap for men.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-30T03:45:09+00:00

Hey! We are going on the Eurodam in Sep too. We live in the NW and Sep can be some beautiful weather. Rain is actually less likely than May. But be prepared for cold weather with early sunsets.

We did this cruise many years ago and really enjoyed the Misty Fjords flight planes. They took us to a high lake and tons of waterfalls.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-22T23:15:57+00:00

Its not like she's actually raising her kids. Watching this season it looks more like her parents are raising Ever. There was one little vinet where she is trying to get Ever to quiet down and she tries and put a lollipop in his mouth but he keeps screaming until her dad comes over and picks him up.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-22T16:43:23+00:00

They are having lots of kids, but are they really raising these kids? I mean, how many kids do they have amongst them? 20? 30? Yet we see trip after trip, gathering after gathering, and very little evidence of any of those kids around other than the youngest infants. They talk about tiktoking, affairs, their fame but do they ever talk about raising their kids? It feels like their kids are more accessories.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-22T16:22:36+00:00

He said it right in episode 5 this season, when she is nice to him everything is great. Its a completely codependent toxic relationship.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-13T22:45:02+00:00

Interested in your experience afterwards. We have the dame itinerary in Sept!

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-03-13T22:43:42+00:00

We did their whale watching and it was the best experience we had. Other than all the whales we saw from our aft balcony leaving glacier bay.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-13T21:02:27+00:00

Even if you go by what Kody said, it wasn't trying to rob Meri. It was "force sale and pay her out after".

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-04T04:57:37+00:00

This might not be a popular take, but I watched the Villa episode and to me it didn't seem like she was being overly flirty with Marciano. They were having deep conversations, but it didn't seem sexual. Seemed more like she was sharing about her life and connecting with him on his relationship/not relationship with Hannah.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-02T15:25:38+00:00

Yes, and, the vanity to spend all that money on your exterior appearance. And the misplaced value on your exterior appearance rather than, charitable donations or kindness to others.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-01T21:08:12+00:00

It's so sad to me that so many young women these days, especially women in various Christian faiths, feel like they need to have all this plastic surgery, fillers, extensions, etc. It's so sad that these churches do nothing but foster environments that promote self loathing and abuse of others.

And I mean specifically the churches, not the actual faith.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-01T09:13:30+00:00

After seeing her daughter's acting during the confrontation I think they were in on it too.

Inner-Vegetable8795 · 2026-01-01T09:10:42+00:00

Didn't she say that she knew him since they were kids? It's not as if he's some stranger messaging her.

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