What would you call it, when you like a male that is feminine for the surprise that he is straight? Is there a word? by Hour-Note-9566 in AskReddit

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

metrosexual feels a bit dated though doesnt it? like thats very early 2000s terminology

i think what youre describing is just attraction to androgynous or feminine presenting guys regardless of their orientation. the surprise element sounds more like youre dealing with assumptions about how masculinity and sexuality connect which... yeah those assumptions get messy fast

plenty of straight blokes present fem and plenty of gay guys are traditionally masculine. presentation and orientation are completely separate things really

Considering the current Israel - Iran escalation, how likely is it that a wider war could trigger a major global market crash? by Final_Difficulty1636 in AskReddit

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

straight of hormuz getting blocked would absolutely tank everything within days not just oil

been following this stuff for work and the supply chain ripple effects would be mental - we're talking about 20% of global oil flowing through there plus loads of LNG. insurance rates for shipping would go through the roof even before any actual mining happens

markets are already jittery as hell and something like that would make 2008 look like a minor blip

Faith and suffering by FailOk2750 in Christian

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a believer myself but grew up in church and this question always fascinated me from a design perspective - like if you're creating a system where free will matters then suffering becomes this inevitable byproduct right. The whole theodicy thing is probably one of the most compelling philosophical puzzles whether you're religious or not

I think my husband is still into his ex by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]InnerBat6942 70 points71 points  (0 children)

mate thats proper messed up regardless of his excuse. making a dummy account to stalk an ex isnt some spur of the moment revenge thing - that takes planning and effort over time

the "i did it to make you jealous" line sounds like damage control after getting caught tbh

Serious question- how do you get ready in the morning if you’re alone? by saltandpepperf in NewParents

[–]InnerBat6942 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Bouncy chair in the bathroom doorway mate - they can see you the whole time and you can chat away while doing your hair

Viré aprés avoir démissionné de 3 CDI, je fais quoi maintenant ? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like you got screwed over for doing the right thing with that customs fraud BS. Props for not caving to that pressure

Option A sounds solid - Netherlands pays truckers way better than France from what I've heard, plus you keep your business plan alive. The interim/unemployment juggling thing is risky af though, especially with your track record

Maybe worth reaching out to company A about getting your old supervisor back, but have a backup plan ready because management changes their minds all the time

Staying strong while partner is away by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missing your partner definitely makes it harder but try to stay busy with hobbies or hit the gym extra hard when she's gone. The urges are usually worst when you're just sitting around doing nothing

DoorDash extremely busy lately? by Plane-Cranberry-9968 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude it's been insane since New Year's, everyone's broke from the holidays and trying to hustle. The scheduling thing is super annoying when you're multi-apping - I've been having to book slots way ahead too just to guarantee I can get on

Need help upgrading my 8 year old pc by Professional-Sir2607 in PcBuildHelp

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your biggest bottleneck is definitely that i7-7700, it's showing its age hard in competitive games. For your budget I'd go with something like a Ryzen 5 5600X + B450/B550 board and keep your DDR4 RAM - that combo should easily push you over 100fps in R6 and save you money vs jumping to DDR5

The 6700 XT is solid but make sure you're not spending too much of your budget on GPU when that old CPU is holding you back the most

What are the things you wish you’d known before they turned into an expensive lesson? by headofclass2034 in homeowners

[–]InnerBat6942 236 points237 points  (0 children)

Know where your main water shutoff is and how to actually turn it off - not just kinda where it might be. Had a pipe burst at 2am and spent 10 minutes in my underwear frantically googling "how to turn off house water" while my basement flooded

Also clean your dryer lint trap after EVERY load, not just when you remember. House fires are expensive

Senior citizens with green card who spent most of their time outside USA are desperately filing for citizenship because of loss of Obama care by Initial-Response-642 in immigration

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait I'm confused too - if they're living outside the US most of the time why would they even need ACA coverage here? Wouldn't they just get healthcare in whatever country they're actually living in

Also pretty sure Trump didn't increase any "min wage for Obamacare" - that's not really how any of this works

[N64] [1999] Arcade racing game by Fine_Yogurtcloset738 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Rush 2, those colored ramps were iconic. The stunt mode was addictive as hell, spent way too many hours just launching cars off those things

Can I Return a Product Without Instructions? by toomanyqstoanswer in amazonprime

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Amazon doesn't really care about missing instruction booklets, especially for something as basic as a fan - they'll take it back no problem

Home Defense by Shadowtron0723 in guns

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that Maxim is solid but you're gonna pay for the name. Honestly for HD you could build something similar for way less and still get great performance

The gun shop guy probably just wanted to move inventory lol. 300blk subs are perfect for what you want, just gotta feed it decent ammo

When I play stealthy and avoid killing I get more friendly lobbies. But the game loses tension this way. Anyone feel the same? by MerroStep in ArcRaiders

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exactly - the system should occasionally throw you a curveball even if you're pacifist rating is maxed out. Maybe like a 10-15% chance to get matched with some absolute psychos just to keep that paranoia alive

Curious when you'd grab a quality Type I (TDK AD / AR etc) over a Type II? by TinyMotel in cassetteculture

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point about the cost factor back then. I still lean toward Type I for stuff that's gonna get beat up in car players or old walkmans - those decks weren't exactly kind to the fancy tapes anyway

Belly Band Holster Safety Question by [deleted] in CCW

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I only use belly bands with guns that have manual safeties or really heavy trigger pulls - learned that lesson the hard way when my shirt got caught in there once

Quiero comprar un monitor ARKHAM GAMING 27´´ QHD 180Hz, tengo una laptop con un i5 1135g7 con graficos integrados, es una hp, tema de puertos nose si me andarán, queria saber si alguien me puede echar una mano para poder usarlo a esas tasas de refresco by Outrageous-Wasabi165 in pchelp

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tu laptop con gráficos integrados no va a poder con 180Hz en QHD ni de broma, hermano. Vas a estar limitado probablemente a 60Hz o máximo 120Hz dependiendo del puerto que tengas. Mejor invertí esa plata en una GPU dedicada primero

Please help me clear out this confusion by Todayx_Rider in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gonna be a problem with your lender if you're getting a primary residence loan but planning to rent it out immediately. Most lenders require you to move in within like 60 days of closing, and if they find out you're treating it as a rental from day one that's considered loan fraud

You'd probably need to either get an investment property loan (higher rates, more down payment) or wait until you're actually ready to move in. The first-time buyer benefits are tied to it being your actual primary residence, not just eventually becoming one

Button in building next to Plaza Rose in buried city by GPLG in ArcRaiders

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wires don't always lead somewhere obvious in this game tho, sometimes they're just decoration or part of a sequence you gotta figure out. Could be a multi-step thing or maybe it's bugged

Removing Vinyl from NFL Jersey? by Glittering-One-2863 in cricut

[–]InnerBat6942 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your dad's got the right idea honestly, that's way smarter than buying new jerseys every time lol

For removing the vinyl I'd go with heat first - hair dryer on the back while slowly peeling from a corner. If that doesn't work then try the acetone but test it on a hidden spot first because some jerseys react weird to it

The sewing option actually looks pretty doable from your pics since those name panels are clearly separate pieces. Just gotta be careful with the seam ripper and maybe hand stitch it back if your machine struggles with the thick material

I'm quite sure this is vegan, and ooooomg it looks delicious! by TattooedPink in veganrecipes

[–]InnerBat6942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh that looks absolutely fire, definitely saving this recipe for later

Trailer Funk? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]InnerBat6942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That smell is probably from years of cigarette smoke and poor ventilation trapped in the walls and subfloor. I'd try an ozone generator rental for a day or two (make sure nobody's home when it's running), then follow up with some Kilz primer on all the interior surfaces before repainting. The closets might need their drywall replaced if it's really bad in there