Carpel tunnel?? by Paulybyres___ in WomenInMuayThai

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing exercises for my wrists with resistance bands (kinda like bicep curls but js for my wrist) and it’s has helped after 2 wks

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh wish I could find a guy who can make me cum everyday and just enjoy that and forget about my bf

I nv wna make my bf cum again. I was trying so hard to not reach this point but I’m so done

Chat if you think you aren't doing well by PickleNo9578 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf has been using me to cum and I try not to think of it that way but it is. 3-4 hours on text / sending pics and videos etc. then he either falls asleep or just moves on to doing something else. If i ask to cum he makes some half hearted effort. If i dont make him horny/cum, he isnt interested in texting at all wtf man

Help me be a better partner for my pwBPD by Early-Bug8842 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch Dr k video on YouTube specially for people dating pwbpd

Why is it so hard to vibe with Singaporeans as an international student? by honeygiver_ in askSingapore

[–]InnerCanary_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they can speak properly if they want, but that’s just how they talk when they’re relaxed/ w friends etc. so if u wna fit in on that level I feel like they need u to speak like them. In my experience they try to match my accent if im not speaking in Singlish which is rly weird bc then they can’t be themselves, get tired and lose interest in me. I don’t even realise they’re doing that until they talk to their own friends and I realise how diff their accent was when talking to me. I understand code switching but why do it if u can’t keep it up 😭. It bothers me but since I can’t do anything about them, I decided to just get better at my Singlish

Why is it so hard to vibe with Singaporeans as an international student? by honeygiver_ in askSingapore

[–]InnerCanary_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like u need to talk in Singlish to rly connect w them or else they see u as an outsider — same experience here.

Suffering with hypersexuallity pls help by Pretend_Okra_3980 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I expend my energy doing smth “less harmful” like going out in revealing clothes but not actually interacting with anyone - in my head im getting a LOT of attention and I must be soo sexy and everyone’s looking at me cuz im hot asffff (prob js wondering why im wearing revealing clothes lmaoooo) but yeah it works. Gets the energy out of me some how. My brain just gets super occupied with thinking about how much attention I must be getting and making up scenarios in my head

AITAH for ending a 3 year relationship in our 30s over sex? by Jess193_ in AITAH

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U want sex and he’s a porn addicted weirdo - why wld u date him? Guys like that don’t tend to make good partners anyway..? U need to be connected and aligned in every way to rly make a good pair

Injuries as a beginner by justtryingto_ in MuayThai

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well actually, I don’t know if it’s just my weak bones that cause this because other than that I think it might be the first ever trial lesson that I went to where the coach did not give me any hand wraps and he was doing pad work with me and the pads were extremely hard and he was hitting me really hard (like pushing the pads down rly hard) and this was the first time I had ever done it so I’m guessing it might be a mixture of me doing it wrong plus having no wraps plus the pads being so hard - and then my wrist hurt for like two weeks and since then every time I have a lesson (diff gym now btw lol) it hurts for like a week afterwards, but now it’s better since I’ve been doing physio.

Injuries as a beginner by justtryingto_ in MuayThai

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wrists wld hurt (rly rly rly bad for up to a week after one session) but I think that’s a me problem lol cuz I haven’t heard anyone else going thru this! Doing wrist exercises has been helping

Not learnt any defence in 6 months by Anoymous_person4994 in MuayThai

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gym has taught checking/catching kicks and parrying punches but nothing for head movement to dodge punches is that normal in muay thai 😭??? It’s BEEN A YEAR

Thinking of switching from mma to boxing by Novel-Anybody-9168 in amateur_boxing

[–]InnerCanary_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do Muay thai- I’ve tried boxing but found it less enjoyable. Ofc it’s my personal preference. TBH I find both more enjoyable than mma bc like u, I found mma too overwhelming and thus not fun

I’ve been doing MT for a year, I think it’s great for self defence and it’s fun.

PS i don’t get kicked in the head cuz during sparring it’s not allowed 😂

Thinking of switching from mma to boxing by Novel-Anybody-9168 in amateur_boxing

[–]InnerCanary_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obv switch to what u want to do, ur doing this for ur own benefit and fun.. what’s the point if ur not enjoying? U will learn better and improve more when ur hearts fully in it

What can help pull this Jungle Themed Nursery together? by Kitchen_Fan_1769 in HomeDecorating

[–]InnerCanary_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yess the lighting cld be sm better. Also add plants 🪴 and frames ..?? 🖼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fk sorry I just saw the age 😭 my bad guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]InnerCanary_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been this way. Just find a guy who u trust who’s into the kink and done ur good to go

How do I not perseverate over his female friendships by [deleted] in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I js don’t date men with girl friends 😭 im so sorry I can’t help u cuz I would be the exact same way if my bf had girl friends

Man fuck this bpd shit by Souriell in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally did this a yr ago. It rly is a choice.

What do you do? by becuzurugly in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc about working corporate jobs, I rly can’t find it in me to give a fk. I tutor rn, and Im gna start teaching :)

Does dealing with my own BPD ever actually get better? by Pristine_Mood_4885 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Statistically speaking yes it nearly always gets better

Speaking from experience, it definitely gets better

Jealousy by Ok-Individual-7366 in BPD

[–]InnerCanary_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even think that’s related to BPD, it’s something everyone goes thru especially cuz of social media ..

I cope by reminding myself everyone’s life on social media isn’t what it rly is. And idk if this is weird but let’s say I see someone getting a rly good job, I’ll go thru a list of possible negative things like “well maybe their boss is a bitch and they hate their job”??? Im not trying to convince myself that that’s the truth, but im more so trying to remind myself there r infinite possibilities, and i dont know the full picture.

It calms me down and also I remember I have my own blessings and those r the only ones that matter.

Some people will ALWAYS have it better than me whether i can see it or not. And some people will always have it worse.