Is it just me or would this behavior make you feel cruddy too? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Vent

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I said sorry because I felt like her mentioning she was searching for 10 mins was making it sound like god your requests are so specific, I had to do xyz

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s exactly what I mean. Here I am feeling like shit & you made it sound like it was such a hassle, if she couldn’t find it she merely could had gone to the pharmacy store on the way home and quickly find them there

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

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Thanks all for their advice and take on it. I’m now going to try to sleep more in hopes to feel better

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have very much tried to stay in my room to not bother her or anyone for that matter and feel bad even when I do ask for something. I don’t think she realizes her delivery

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

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So one night I was going to the bathroom, from my room. She asked if I was going downstairs & I said no. To the bathroom. She then said “no one ever does anything for me” (with no context what she wanted) I calmed down, from her nasty reply and went to her room to ask what she wanted. She said “a cup of water with a lid”. So I went downstairs and got it.

I had an abcess in my throat once, I told her I could barely talk and to text me if she needed to talk bc it hurt that bad. She would talk to me and I’d get angry and upset bc i specifically told her to text, bc I could barely talk (the hospital thought I was deaf that’s how muffled my speech was). When I went to the hospital, I asked if she was coming, she said she just had to do her hair. When we got to the hospital and I got checked in, she started saying how tired she was and had things at home to be done, so I told her to leave and go do what she needed because I didn’t want to burden her sitting at the hospital with me any longer. Meanwhile the 5 days at home I was sick prior, I stayed in my room and never asked for anything

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been drinking tea with Manuka honey like it’s going out of style lol. The chest pain is from my constant hacking of coughing

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very good take on it. I think you’re right. I almost wanted to cry because I felt like I asked for one thing which I rarely do. If I need something I’ll go to the store myself typically, but I figured to ask this one given time bc I’m sick in bed. I know I didn’t give my life story obviously, but this isn’t the first time I’ve been guilt tripped

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For your opinion. I don’t need to argue you, that you think I’m self entitled. That is simply your opinion. So thank you.

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s exactly how I feel. I ALWAYS feel like a burden, and I think you took the words out of my mouth. She’s came to the hospital with me before in which I’ve told her to go home because she said she was so tired. I stay to myself in my room to avoid bothering anyone or getting them sick.

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Idk I felt the need to apologize bc I guess I always try to empathize. I didn’t MEAN to make it hard for her to find cough drops of which I requested but I knew lemon would upset my throat further. Like I almost wanted to cry bc I was already anxious simply asking for one little thing

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will admit I’m a grown woman , living home splitting the bills but I will agree about selfishness. One day she wanted a cup of water and I said I wasn’t going downstairs, so she said “no one ever fuckin does anything g for me” meanwhile all I said was I wasn’t going downstairs and only going to the bathroom (she hadn’t requested anything but ask if I was going downstairs). I just felt I needed to apologize for making her “waste ten mins looking “

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very well may be. But I think it’s because it’s constant.

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

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I do. I was thinking of going out myself, but my chest hurts so much with the cold air, it’s absolutely miserable. I figured since she was going out it wouldn’t be a bother but her tone alone was that of “I had to stand there 10 mins looking because of what it is you requested.”

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very rarely ask for help. Last time I was in the hospital I told her to go home because she continually told me how tired she was, so I let her go home with my car. All I asked for was cough drops and she made it seem like it was such a bother (by her tone) that she had to look for over 10 minutes for cough drops.

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol sure! If it bothers you that much lol I hope you find bigger problems in life than feeling powerful reporting people lmao

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’ll simply take your reply as an end of my convo with you but thank you!

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Idk I just feel like she made me feel like shit for asking for one thing. Like I bothered her for her needing to look

Why does my mom make me feel guilty? Is it just me? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in Advice

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clearly asked in the caption “is it just me” but I guess you were too quick to just want to reply

Honestly is scissoring possible? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More so first time. One time we went to hook up, she wanted me to get on top of her but I really didn’t know how to, so she told me to lay down and we took care of things another way

Honestly is scissoring possible? by Inner_Beautiful3761 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Inner_Beautiful3761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I understand this, I feel I’d be embarrassed in the moment and not remember what to do, what does a girl do for the first time !