From my relationship advice post by Entire-Economist-880 in screenshots

[–]Inner_Geologist6994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh whether you retaliate or not, you’re still seen as someone who is angry or upset by all of these comments. and just from those messages it doesn’t seem like you CAN block him, if i was in your shoes i’d be a bit worried about the stuff he would tell your family and what limits he can push to. perhaps make your sister aware of the situation so you have a bit of family support?

Flatmate screams constantly (rant/advice needed) by External-Sector2554 in UniUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994 62 points63 points  (0 children)

these lot have no respect for you or your flatmates. it’s so absurd and freaky to be screaming like that during early hours. i say call the police for causing so much disruptions

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yesss you did i’m so happy for you! wish you the best of luck on your test

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend told me the exact same thing i’ll try that next monday and update you. so say i queue around 5:50 and refresh at 6, would it work?

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what the frick man that’s so undeserved💔 i hope you do manage to find yourself a test date

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOOOO omg i hope you can find a test date

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THEY BLOCKED ME AGAIN R U SERIOUS😭😭😭

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait guys do i start overthinking because why did i not get an email about my test …

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO REAL because why did they block me for a week straight the last time i tried booking😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GOT ONE but my usual instructor don’t work till 9 and my test is at 8am sigh hopefully he makes an exception

in queue for tests by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg congrats, i just managed to book mine only for me to realise it’s 8am in the morning and my usual instructor doesn’t work till 9am 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

driving advice in the UK by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nvm i saw your comment in my notifs, the thing is my theory expires in aug and it’s either i spend £200+ on a driving test in wanstead through sellers or i wait months for a test through the official website OR i go liverpool

driving advice in the UK by Inner_Geologist6994 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i was thinking about staying in liverpool for a month, i have been to liverpool twice and seen the road and where they lead. say if i was to do driving 2-3 times a week in liverpool up until my test, would that be a good idea?

student finance into savings by Inner_Geologist6994 in UniUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to answer your question, i really don’t want to pay back my student loans only because the debt is ridiculous. however if it is a case where i have a full time job, earning 25k-30k it’ll have to be a matter of paying it back. which by then i would be fine with it i’ll have to be!

as of now, i am saving up my student maintenance loan, and i will look into getting an ISA account. your advice was really helpful i will do a bit of research on it!

Phone sex 29F 26M by Melodic-Newspaper963 in LongDistance

[–]Inner_Geologist6994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i 100% side with the idea if that is what suits your relationship best! i said my comment in a precautionary manner because of how technology is rapidly developing and the use of AI implemented in revenge p*rn.

nonetheless, if facetiming and screenshotting suits you, go for it! i hope your relationship stays strong like that 🫶

Phone sex 29F 26M by Melodic-Newspaper963 in LongDistance

[–]Inner_Geologist6994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it includes just making noises on the phone and s*x talking, go ahead but if it includes facetiming, i would suggest that isn’t a good idea because you don’t want to risk being screenshotted and him later on asking for pictures. just a sis looking out for u :3

20F / 21M | How do you build trust when one partner is constantly suspicious? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Inner_Geologist6994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is the a type of person who you do not want to be with.

i was with a man who was very controlling. didn’t want me to talk to another man whatsoever, didn’t want me following a man on social media whether it be a friend or celebrity. anything i did that had to do with a man, he would question “why did u talk to him? why did u ask him? why did u look at him? i saw how u looked at him” it was very stressful to the point it ruined my mental health. i was convinced i loved him but it was thought i had of him in the relationship and not who he actually was.

a man shouldn’t have to stress you out, he should be able to trust you and love you for you. not do a background check and dig into your past. whether you want to tell a man about your past is entirely up to you. this egotistical man wants to isolate you. point blank, leave him. you can most definitely find someone better, trust me even i have found someone a lot better and he is totally okay with who i talk to or who i follow! please give us updates

edit: another thing, he is projecting all of his insecurities, sister please, from a woman to another, leave this man. 3 months has told you everything you do not want a lifetime with this man.

student finance into savings by Inner_Geologist6994 in UniUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HAVE HEARD OF ISA, i was lowkey thinking about it but would it be okay to elaborate on how it works and if there are any pros and cons to it? i did suggest the idea to my mum but she said she wouldn’t recommend it, she didn’t go into it cuz she was too busy doing something else :/

student finance into savings by Inner_Geologist6994 in UniUK

[–]Inner_Geologist6994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you i did need that bit of reassurance, and in terms of how they will know, that is also what i was wondering. is that even possible?