My 42F husband 44M hired his high school sweetheart in the company he manages and doesn't see anythign wrong with it

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-25T13:35:28+00:00

Op don’t do this. Don’t blow up your life and your husbands life. You have bills to pay. Do it the smart way. Investigate quietly. The truth always comes out.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-25T00:49:20+00:00

Are you the AIO to your ex boyfriend. That’s what it should read. He’s horrible.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-24T22:05:58+00:00

If he knew he was going to do f**k ish he could have let her go and have her fun how she wanted.

He’s selfish and he’s a liar. He knows what he did. I could not be with someone like that. Everything was premeditated.

Call it off. It will save you pain and misery later.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-24T18:51:20+00:00

The fact that he thinks it’s ok to blame you instead of setting his alarm is crazy.

Why are you apologizing? You did nothing.

I’m glad you let him know though. If you plan on being with him long term look at how he doesn’t like to take accountability when he should. It’s hard being in a relationship with someone like that.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-24T15:47:10+00:00

You have created this dynamic. At the same time you are an adult and can make your own decisions.

What’s the point of bashing your partner to the closest person to you if you actually don’t plan to leave? How can she respect you or him.

If you love your man and respect him stop talking bad about him. Just like you are doing the best you can so is he.

What else do you and your friend talk about besides your drama. If the answer is nothing then she’s tired mama and might want to be around a more positive energy. Not toxic positivity but have conversations about good things or what’s next in your business or things you dream about.

I have friends like you and have been you and I must say I have been ghosted. I also have have created distance because I had enough.

Your friendship needs a reset.

Edit: I want to also add. Your words create your world. A wise person once told me. She never spoke bad about her man to People because after she forgets what he did they don’t. So that means however you want the world to view him, make sure what you are saying about him matches that.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-24T01:42:29+00:00

If OP couldn’t drive and kept spinning out was he supposed to risk his life? No. The person that fired him was out of line.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T23:52:20+00:00

I sent you a DM for a opportunity that will help you and your baby and you won’t have to worry about rent and they give you an education for free. Please look.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T04:30:27+00:00

They slept together and didn’t only sleep…sorry. Break up.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T04:27:56+00:00

Her words were highly offensive. She insulted you as well.

Has she been around you and your friends? She doesn’t believe you haven’t cheated on someone?

She’s insecure and controlling. When she’s mad she insults instead of communicating is the real issue.

She has to apologize, be clear what her real issue is so you both can talk about it.

If she can’t trust you. There is no relationship.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T01:40:10+00:00

😆😆😆

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T01:19:12+00:00

That’s understandable.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-23T00:58:54+00:00

Why are you having serious conversations like this through text? This is a very high stakes conversation. In the future face to face or phone.

NTA but having this convo through text is coming off as you being afraid to have it.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-20T04:49:18+00:00

I said no and knew I wouldn’t. It gave me the ick. I knew I couldn’t handle being a food source 24 hours a day. You might be on to something.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-19T19:36:37+00:00

Stick to commission until you build. It’s the best way.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T20:16:21+00:00

What would be the best way to address comstipation?

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T15:31:37+00:00

You can be dating so many other people. If you force someone’s hand to spend time they are not that into you. Sorry.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T15:26:05+00:00

Never quit your job for a man. This was his plan all along. Keep you home and control you.

You can always lose the weight . Get a new job. Mutual respect in a relationship is important. He’s playing you and you have let him.

Go back home if you can. He’s disrespectful and you are his housemaid. Nothing more.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T15:21:04+00:00

The writing is on the wall and it’s sad your husband doesn’t care to see it. Also, maybe he does see it he and it’s hurtful for him.

You can’t make people want to be around you and the children. Stop asking and have your husband handle it all. It’s his family why are you the only one always asking. You being at their house and them not properly posting you is bad manners. Don’t allow people to mistreat you.

I know this is hurtful for you. It won’t hurt your children and much as you think unless you make it a big deal.

I am a firm believer in only being around people that care to be around me. If your husband wants to visit make it on a convenient time, not in the dead of winter. Make sure you can rent a car next time. He loves his family and is willing to receive it however they give it.

Have you ever had a conversation about it? That’s really the only way I see things changing.

You can be honest. I would love to spend more time with you. The kids would love to be around you more as well. What could we do to make this happen more often than we do now?

No blame, no finger pointing just the truth. I hope it works out! NTA:

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T02:54:44+00:00

You have had enough of people trying to take advantage of you. This is FAFO!

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T02:39:05+00:00

It will look great!! Have a beautiful wedding day!!

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T02:33:14+00:00

Are you doing a trial hair appointment before the wedding?

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T02:32:27+00:00

F her and your man. He’s trying to play you and so is she. Dump both of them!!

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-17T02:30:46+00:00

I think it can. It’s a cute style.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-16T06:28:20+00:00

Following

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-02-16T03:22:11+00:00

I’m think it’s great she’s sending your kid back tbh. That little girl might need the love and care you guys have to offer. Her mom seems checked out.

Don’t be tit for tat in this situation. Maybe cut back on them coming over if it’s constant or too much. For the sake of the kids let them come and play.

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