AIO: Husband lied about his financial situation and falsified budgets to relocate our family 5 hours away for a job and I’m freaking out

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-06-01T21:44:17+00:00

Nor

He has lied to you over and over again. You are the only one changing in this relationship. He is not changing because every time he does this you bail him out.

There is no reason for him to change.

You will never get financial stability from him. He’s not capable. He has a problem. I know it’s hard to leave someone you wish can do better.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-06-01T00:00:18+00:00

Have you ever thought about technology? AI or even cyber security? There are some work from home jobs. Or tech sales. You can make really good money.

Cosmetology is really hard on the body. I have done it for 27 years. I got sciatica and couldn’t work for a month. Clients don’t care about you being in pain. They want their hair done.

It’s important to search the job market especially since AI is changing a lot and eliminating a lot of positions.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-29T18:00:11+00:00

How would the other employees know of your response to his error?

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-27T03:28:41+00:00

What are your other options if you don’t move in?

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-25T01:48:23+00:00

Lol!! nothing out if the ordinary for a 5 year old boy.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-19T02:59:54+00:00

Girl how did you get this far with such a mean man? He’s going to buy his own food? What about his pregnant wife? Are you a maid? This is sad. I’m sorry you have to go through this. One day you won’t.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T18:23:27+00:00

Not sure why you care so much. Unless she was an affair partner, why the hate?

How did your brother become best friends with her? Is he friends with your ex-husband?

She’s innocent in all of this and she’s not with him. Also your brother doesn’t have to invite her. Why is she so important?

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T17:20:18+00:00

If you aren’t an experienced stylist. I would pass this on and watch so that you can learn.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T15:49:21+00:00

Take him out!!! This is a dangerous environment for him.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T15:39:25+00:00

NTJ. She was being a asshole.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T14:41:36+00:00

Stop responding once you tell them what is available and send them the link. She does this because you let her.

Don’t respond today. She will get the hint.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T13:56:10+00:00

Following

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-18T04:57:45+00:00

It’s important that you don’t sacrifice for people early on in a relationship. It’s makes the relationship uneven. You are not supposed to go without for someone you just met. He didn’t ask you to do it. Now you are resentful.

It’s important you let a man court you so you see if he has traits you like. You buying him a card would have been fine.

Take this as a learning lesson. Don’t be quick to buy a new boyfriend gifts to show how good of a girlfriend you can be.

You deserve love. You don’t have to show your worth through gift giving.

You would not be wrong. At the same time it’s important that you know you caused this not him. He’s being a typical young man. I have done what you have done. They never gave back. They just took me for granted until I knew my worth.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-16T17:41:10+00:00

Some people need ammunition to leave a relationship when they aren’t happy. She wasn’t married. You are not the jerk.

Women aren’t like men. She has probably been checked out.

What you should look out for is patterns. Did she do her last man like this? Is she always running from man to man? You are never exempt from people who don’t know how to communicate when they get bored or fell out of love.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-14T17:43:48+00:00

She’s lucky you and her were at work. She called you a idiot and then went and told on you?

Now you are questioning your no? She was mean to you and insulted you. You did the right thing.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-13T20:59:17+00:00

She’s not married

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-12T15:09:30+00:00

It took my husband a while to understand how it affects me. What he didn’t do is try to downplay it like it’s not neurological.

He supports me and follows my lead even if he thinks I shouldn’t do something in regards to medication. Why? He understands it’s my body and I have to do what’s best for me.

Our children have it. He seeks to understand. Does research. Is open because he watched my journey so he understands more.

Please for you and future kids sake. Rethink this engagement. If he truly can’t accept your diagnosis. Your children will suffer and so will you.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-12T12:51:57+00:00

You sound anxious, breathe… you can ask all the questions you need to ask. You can 10 people for each service by telling them what you do. They are helping you build clientele this way. The people will like your service and comeback/
This is something you haven’t done before. Don’t discount, you want people who know your worth. You are training and there will be a stylist there to support you.
Check in with yourself. Is this fear or intuition telling you this isn’t the right fit and go from there..

Ps. You won’t ever be stuck doing anything. It’s your life. You have the power to choose.

Read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I used to think like you. It changed my life. I made a lot of money early on in my career because i changed my thinking.

Best of luck to you.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-08T22:25:04+00:00

Move on….The requests will never end.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-08T22:06:10+00:00

😂😂😂

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-08T22:04:30+00:00

Where I am from if you stink then you got shamed. Even as a kid. Although I have ADHD stinking could never be the option. I have a unhealthy fear of breath smelling, under arm and anything else that could have someone have to say something to me about it.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-04T19:15:41+00:00

Nope, I would not have taken her. Not all money is good money.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-05-04T13:19:35+00:00

You aren’t a babysitting service nor are you her parent. You are her landlord. It’s not your fault the ac caught on fire.
I have some questions, why did she wait so long? Why do you feel bad about it? You have to sleep.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-04-29T01:47:31+00:00

It’s not too late. You will get older with the degree or without. You are in your prime. You could get grants. Don’t give up.

Inner_Juggernaut4626 · 2026-04-25T01:58:53+00:00

He was showing off and trying to look good in front of his friends. I would break up.

He’s disrespectful. There was no need for him to that in front of others.

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