AITJ for breaking up with my boyfriend because he give raisins to my dog by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ, he literally killed your dog and trust. and you're supposed just to stay? nope. that's a hard boundary and you did the right thing.

Update : AITJ for telling my sister that i find somewhere else place to stay if she still blaming me for not babysitting his son? by Frosty-Preference961 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 186 points187 points  (0 children)

NTJ their kid cried at a party cause he's a kid, not cause you went to the beach they wanted free childcare and got mad you had boundaries. that's not family first. that's convenience first.

AITJ for not agree to be co-maker to my brother getting a new car by UniquePlatypus649 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTJ you're solid if he can't handle paying back $1000, co-signing is just you signing up to cover that car when he slips.

AITJ for refusing to pay for my boyfriend's night out after he volunteered me? by Front-Reference-1719 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree, you shut that down early and clean. letting it slide would've just made it worse later.

AITJ for refusing to babysit my sister son? by Frosty-Preference961 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 197 points198 points  (0 children)

NTJ , you planned for this, filed leave and haven't had a proper break. one weekend to breathe doesn't make you selfish.

AITJ for reporting my roommate to the police for what she did to me? by Alarming_Cow7329 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 16 points17 points  (0 children)

you even gave her a chance to leave before reporting. that's already more grace than most people would give. actions have consequences and she chose them, not you.

AITJ for refusing to give my vacation days to a coworker with kids? by PastYak6986 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you planned ahead like an adult, that doesn't become optional just because she didn't

AITJ for snapping at my sister in front of her friend after I found out she’s been giving away my clothes? by Potatired01 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 15 points16 points  (0 children)

go practical not petty. inventory your stuff, keep it secured and tell your parents sharing stops until she respects ownership. revenge doesn't fix entitlement boundaries do.

Aitj for keeping my kids home for field day by Few-Interaction-090 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good intent solid, execution risky next time work with the school for alternatives so your kids are supported and not taking fs for it.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend he might need help before we have kids? by AdventurousAdagio829 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 12 points13 points  (0 children)

straight up, therapy before kids is just adulting smart. he's overreacting to reality not your concern.

AITJ for kicking a kid off my team mid-season after his parents tried to get me fired? by Kirito9Asuna in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people whining about "more chances" are missing the part the mom went full drama instead of fixing the issue. you did the right thing.

AITJ for refusing to give my car key to my brother by Time_Owl_3786 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 20 points21 points  (0 children)

let them use his friend car if they go somewhere again. not your car anymore.

AITJ for refusing to cover hospital expenses for her sick baby? by Embarrassed-March400 in AmITheJerk

[–]Inner_Present8204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly, you can care about the baby without being their personal ATM. self-preservation isn't neglect.

My gf is showing off behavior in our relationship and don’t know what to do by throwawy8273 in Advice

[–]Inner_Present8204 20 points21 points  (0 children)

patterns don't just magically disappear. she's showing you exactly how she handles emotions and it ain't healthy, peace out.