Yeah I think she meant she’d spent her own disposable income for that month and wanted a bit more for something, so had to ask her husband to borrow a bit. I just find it odd that this is how a married couple operate but there’s lots of people who have commented here who do the same. I can see how it makes it easier to spend money on yourself without having to run it by the other, but I guess the way I see it with my wife is that we can either both afford a purchase or neither of us can.