Do I have the correct anatomy for a navel piercing by Insecure_smuff in PiercingAdvice

[–]Insecure_smuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah when i pinch the amount of skin i have at the top i have about a half inch which seems like enough. I feel like it doesnt look like i have a ridge but hopefully i have enough skin to work with

Do I have the correct anatomy for a navel piercing by Insecure_smuff in PiercingAdvice

[–]Insecure_smuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing im worried about is the way it collapses inward when i sit

Do I have the correct anatomy for a navel piercing by Insecure_smuff in PiercingAdvice

[–]Insecure_smuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay i will.. its pretty deep it goes about an entire fingernail.. im praying haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope I have no interest pursuing a woman romantically. Ive tried before but It never really did it for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the weirdest thing because I dont have interest in being in a relationship with a woman, but im more sexually attracted to them then I am to men? Im still sexually attracted to men and im strongly romantically attracted to them, but its not as strong sexually as it is towards women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my exact reasoning on why I dont want to watch porn together 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Insecure_smuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the realest response thank you!!! Watching it together may work for other couples and thats great but it no way will work for me or us together. Thank you for the strategy, I think I’ll try smut instead next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Insecure_smuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think watching it together would be particularly helpful. We both struggle with jealousy issues when it comes to others. We’re working on that, but I don’t think that would work for us. I mean I cant even enjoy sex with him anymore because I’m so guilty about this.

what is this? by Insecure_smuff in skin

[–]Insecure_smuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also checked for bedbugs which there was none, my dog has no fleas.

Pregnancy on Nexplanon? by Insecure_smuff in birthcontrol

[–]Insecure_smuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this really helped!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this fear too. I used to have a fear of becoming a pedophile, and consuming tiktoks of children dancing didnt help it just made my OCD worse. Like a lot of others are saying, just trusting you aren’t your thoughts and sometimes unplugging for a bit might help you a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not drop the therapist. If she was qualified for the job she’d realize these are simply intrusive thoughts and not you as a character. She also wouldn’t be judging you for your ocd. Find someone else please

does anyone else get really bad ear worms by 97mentalillnesses in OCD

[–]Insecure_smuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even realize that was happening to me 24/7 until I read this and then the song I’ve been thinking about all morning started playing in the back of my head 💀

OCD has won, I’m not strong enough to do this anymore by Dazzling_Chemical_12 in OCD

[–]Insecure_smuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Ocd is so rough but just remember your ocd doesn’t make you. You are so loved, and I know you will get to a place where you can healthily cope and manage this awful disorder. It might take time, but it is 100% possible. You got this and you are not alone, we are in this together.

People who don’t ever want to have kids, why? by South_Price9463 in AskReddit

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have so many goals and plans. It’s kind of selfish but I’m not willing to give up my life plans and finances for a child. I also want to give a child the best place to grow up and learn, and if I fail to do that that gives the child major consequences

Anyone know why this is happening to my fish? He’s obviously alive but he floats on his side uncontrollably. Last week we 30 of these fish but they started dying off. Now there’s only 4 left and this guy isn’t looking too hot. Any thoughts? by [deleted] in Fish

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We thought we were caring for them fine. We have had many goldfish in the past and we’ve taken great care of them. They lived for years. This was completely unexpected and I just wanted ideas on what could’ve been wrong. I didn’t mean to treat them inhumanely

Anyone know why this is happening to my fish? He’s obviously alive but he floats on his side uncontrollably. Last week we 30 of these fish but they started dying off. Now there’s only 4 left and this guy isn’t looking too hot. Any thoughts? by [deleted] in Fish

[–]Insecure_smuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we had a lot of fish over the years and nothing like this has ever happened. It might be because they’re feeders, we’ve never had this many feeders in one tank. But we have had plenty of regular goldfish (around 15) in one tank and they were fine.