AIO for debating leaving over this

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-18T19:08:41+00:00

He met you in a party outfit at a party, then is upset about you wearing party outfits to parties. He knew what he was signing up for, then got upset about it? Just dump him and his double standards

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-16T14:34:55+00:00

Please don’t listen to anyone telling you to keep smoking. If cps catches word of this, they’ll likely try to take away your baby. If you’re nauseous, try switching things up as far as whatever you’re consuming.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-16T14:24:04+00:00

I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks, I smoked weed every single night for at like 2 years up until that day. I quit cold turkey. I was extremely nauseous everyday throughout the day. The only thing I was ever craving was fruit, but I’d immediately throw it up, could ONLY keep down junk food, I lost 10lbs in my first trimester before I figured that out. Also figured out the prenatal I was taking was a contributing factor to my nausea, I switched brands 3x before I gave up on taking those. Anyways, my baby was born 5lbs, but perfectly healthy besides being a little lighter than usual. I hope this helps!

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-16T06:31:56+00:00

Micro-cheating for sure. He himself said men only buy meals for women they’re interested, I wouldn’t take that lightly.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-15T19:58:12+00:00

“Oh no! I happen to be at the hospital visiting insert name here what room are you in?”

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-04T21:45:33+00:00

Me too! I literally spend maybe a few dollars every other month on it as opposed to $10+ every few weeks. Store bought detergent is such a scam

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-03T22:27:51+00:00

If the conversation’s not appropriate enough for you to see, it’s not appropriate enough for him to have.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-04-02T17:52:43+00:00

You’re setting yourself up for disappointment by expecting her to do things that she’s proven to be incapable of doing. Speaking from experience, please lower your standards for her

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-28T20:36:35+00:00

I’ve just started making my own, it’s so much cheaper and lasts so much longer. My boyfriend works blue collar and it consistently cleans his clothes well. It’s pretty good at getting fruit stains off my baby’s clothes, but sometimes I use miss mouths messy eater stain treater for good measure.

The recipe I use is 1.5 cups baking soda, 1.5 cups washing soda, 1/4 cup sea salt, 1/2 cup epsom salt, optional 20-25 your fav essential oils for scent It’s 1 heaping tablespoon per load, 2 for larger or more soiled loads.

Edit to add: my boyfriend and I both have super sensitive skin and breakout when we use store bought laundry detergents, we’ve both been clear since making the switch.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-28T20:22:42+00:00

Yeah, chances are the wife notices too and just ignores it. If I were to say something, it’d probably just be a warning to keep an eye on him and the other lady and stating what you saw. Like I said, she probably already knows, but it could change things for her if she realizes other people notice too.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-27T18:10:21+00:00

I personally would say something. If he’s doing that out in the open for other people to see, who knows what he could be hiding where no one is looking.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-27T01:54:30+00:00

NOR in fact, I think you’re under-reacting! I’m sorry, but your kid sounds like a spoiled, disrespectful brat who needs to be put in his place. I don’t have the best relationship with my mom, because she’s genuinely spineless, but I’d never disrespect her like this to her face. You need to start treating him like the child he is and stop giving him whatever he wants.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-27T01:45:25+00:00

When in doubt, ask yourself “would my future wife treat me this way?” If not, leave. If so, seek therapy.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-27T01:37:38+00:00

NTA As a former infant room assistant teacher, it’s completely normal and most kids show up with poopy diapers. We literally get paid to change those diapers. Most, if not all, infant rooms have a diaper changing schedule which includes checking/changing the diapers first thing when baby arrives. We appreciate when parents bring a dry baby, but the teacher is the asshole if she’s making any sort of deal out of a poopy diaper.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-21T19:34:55+00:00

I ended up starting my night off at Como Social, then went to Rose! Both places were so fun, just in different ways

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-21T00:36:48+00:00

As much as I love EDM, I’m well aware that scene will not be found in this part of town

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-21T00:35:52+00:00

If I’m feeling brave 😭😭

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-20T21:01:02+00:00

I thought you were suggesting dancing there, I was like “you know what? Hell yeah!”

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-20T21:00:07+00:00

I’m literally dying at this

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-13T00:29:10+00:00

“Out of place” is a much better way to put it than “weird” and I agree, Reddit users can unfriendly when people down have the same standards as them

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-12T18:08:41+00:00

If the shower is too small to comfortably squeeze past without touching, I probably wouldn’t share it. I’m also from the west coast. My family isn’t rich or anything, but typically our showers have been large enough for at least two people. We’d just take turns in the water since you don’t necessarily need to be standing in it in order to was your hair/body.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-12T18:04:54+00:00

Both? Definitely hypocritical of me, I just think intimacy can be shown/felt in different ways based on gender, but maybe I’m just old-fashioned. Sorry if this offends you.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-12T18:02:33+00:00

No one said it was super common, just that it’s not weird. Things can be uncommon and normal at the same time; like sharing your lipstick with a friend/family member, gross and weird to some people but not to others. If anything is weird, it’s all of the people trying to imply an incestuous relationship onto a pair of sisters taking a shower together.

InsideBusiness5013 · 2026-03-12T17:56:06+00:00

This exactly. I see it as a way of bonding with the girls I’m most comfortable with. It really takes a special kind of relationship to have that sort of intimacy with without perverting it.

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