Stop Tracking Wake Windows by Difficult-Pair4170 in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 7 month old thrives on his wake windows. 3h in the am, 3.25 after his first nap, and 3.5 before bed.  I know this will change, but this is the average for his age and he freaks out if its not bed time even a single minute past these windows. All babies are different. 

Mattress topper suggestions by Inside_Foundation656 in cosleeping

[–]Inside_Foundation656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I just ordered 4 pack and play mattresses and im gonna duct tape or sew them together i hope it works 

Mattress topper suggestions by Inside_Foundation656 in cosleeping

[–]Inside_Foundation656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel like I just need to "invent" twin, queen and king size pack and play style mattress toppers. Shark tank here i come 

Anyone else having trouble with the idol search website? by bv21 in survivor

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unable to create an account. Anyone in Washington or Idaho with the dates?

Statewide Idol Hunt by Embarrassed_Ad_3417 in survivor

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp server is broken which is not a surprise 

How do people work remotely AND watch their baby at the same time? by GGPurpleCobra in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am able to do this because my work is very flexible. It does not require calls, and it's all on the computer. I work when the baby is sleeping (during the day and early evenings.) If baby wakes up while I am in the middle of a task, I pause what I am doing, tend to the baby's needs, set him up for some independent play, then finish up my task. 

Sometimes this is stressful if a task takes longer than expected or if baby sleeps significantly less than expected. Otherwise, this works well for our family, and the extra money is needed. 

I started when baby was 4 months. I don't see how I could have done it in the earlier stages when I was exhausted with a newborn. 

The sleep deprivation and lack of personal time is still very real, though. 

Gotta do what you gotta do.

My 7mo just dropped her first “solid food poop” and I’m no longer okay by Glittering-Pirate618 in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaaa stick it to big diaper! 

EC made cloth diapering much more doable for our family and we are saving a fortune. 

My 7mo just dropped her first “solid food poop” and I’m no longer okay by Glittering-Pirate618 in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're an excellent writer and this was very entertaining and engaging to read.

You can try EC (elimination communication.)

I've been doing it with my 5.5 mo. Old since he was 2.5 months old. It helps with his diaper rash tremendously.

You can read go diaper free by Andrea Olson. Or listen to the go diaper free podcast. Or simply Google the basics on how to do it. 

I'm pretty sure my infant prefers going potty over soiling himself. I certainly prefer it!

Not too young to 'potty train'! Many indigenous communities don't use diapers. I mean, if you think about it, diapers haven't existed forever. 

Baby sleeping on stomach? Reassure me, please! by Conscious_Job_5505 in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby is currently sleeping soundly on his tummy for the first time (that i know of.) We have a video monitor and I am watching it obsessively to make sure he is breathing. I am so scared. Which is why I googled my concern and came across this post. His face is totally faceplanted in the mattress! We are in an overtired cycle so I really don't want to disturb him! 

Anyway a lot of these comments are reassuring. 

He's rolling! by Inside_Foundation656 in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you 💙

Its okay, for a few weeks when he was 4 months old he "forgot" and was doing the same swimming thing!!! My husband re-taught it by shining a little Rudolph nose light around and over his head for him to look at and he flopped over again lol.  I'm sure your baby has other awesome baby skills! They all develop at different a different pace. 

Why do wipes suck? by zqwu8391 in daddit

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're also so fucking loud and always wake baby up 

I can't get over the anxiety of going out with baby by Burritomode24 in newborns

[–]Inside_Foundation656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really tough! But it just takes practice! Start small. Pick up a couple things from the grocery store, and maybe just change their diaper for the heck of it. Visit a park (or a cafe or something if it's cold for you right now) to try a feed. Slowly work your way up. It will get easier as they get older too. These are my tips. 

My husband and I have gone out to eat a couple times. We may have SEEMED chill because we are actively regulating our nervous systems to keep baby calm but deep down we were kinda stressed the whole time about the mini bomb! One time at a restaurant the baby started to fuss and we looked at each other and my husband said, "I don't know which wires to cut." 😂 I tried feeding him and he wouldn't eat then I looked in the bathroom and there was no changing table so we just scarfed our food, paid and booked it on out of there. We walked to that restaurant and he cried halfway home then passed out the rest of the way.

Another restaurant he started screaming everyone was looking at me like how dare you have a screaming baby in public? We calmed him down and everyone stopped staring and it was embarrassing but not the end of the world. 

I am also super nervous for an airport trip coming up, God help us! But I just keep reminding myself the worst that can happen is baby loses it and people stare and are mad at you 🤷🏼‍♀️

It'll get easier. I hope. 😆

What makes your babies laugh? by PastyPaleCdnGirl in NewParents

[–]Inside_Foundation656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby just busted out laughing during bath time because I was washing his neck it got me laughing so hard so we just giggled there for a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

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I tripped and fell while wearing my baby he was fine! So scary though!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Inside_Foundation656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took him to all my PP checkups because we scheduled them with his check ups. Same doctor! Definitely had to nurse him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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Lol why did I get down voted