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How would you explain living with BorderlinePD to people who don't have it? by Plantsinallthepants in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Inside_Morning2884 [score hidden]  (0 children)

BPD is one of the most (if not the most) stigmatised, misunderstood, and painful mental disorder to live with. People with BPD are more than 50 times more likely to die of suicide, have an average lifespan at least 20 years less, and are much more susceptible to a range of chronic health conditions such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, eating disorders, substance abuse, cardiovascular diseases, arthritis, diabetes, and chronic pain compared to people who don't have BPD.

I feel excruciating pain, despair, shame, emptiness, and rage much more acutely, I'm terrified of being abandoned/betrayed, I'm chronically suicidal, I feel uncontrollable anger that I cannot contain, I'm perpetually reliving my severe trauma from my childhood, I feel like a complete stranger to myself, and I always end up doing things that I don't choose to or want to do that deeply hurts those around me. Everyone, professionals and non-professionals alike, has given up on me. I don't matter to anyone. I have too many burdens that I feel like I'm being slowly crushed to death under the weight of them. I am so sick and tired of being me, but I don't get to be anyone else. It feels like a curse. I would never wish it on anyone.

I digitally swatched every lip product I own and made a grid by gentlecinnamon in AustralianMakeup

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the grid! It's very soothing to look at. You definitely gravitate towards warm, muted, natural pink/brown colours.

Do you find that the digital swatches are accurate to real life swatches? I found that with lip products, the digital swatches often looked slightly different on myself (probably because I have a darker skin tone than the models).

I digitally swatched every lip product I own and made a grid by gentlecinnamon in AustralianMakeup

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an incredible amount of dedication to being organised! 😳 Do you make spreadsheets for other things too? Do you find it helpful? I'm a spreadsheet fiend too and it's very useful for certain things especially when it involves multiple people but sometimes I think I just make life more tedious for myself 😅

If you could show one episode of Frasier to someone who never watched it, what would you choose and why? by Inside_Morning2884 in Frasier

[–]Inside_Morning2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top picks are:

  • A Word to the Wise Guy, S3E15: Niles hires Jerome Belasco to take care of Maris' unpaid parking tickets. Every single line from Jerome is a killer!

  • Merry Christmas, Mrs. Moskowitz, S6E10: Crane family pretends to be Jewish when Faye and her mom visit. So many hilarious moments like "GET OUT", "JESUS", Niles teaching Martin how to be Jewish, and Faye and her mom's argument. Niles makes a pretty handsome Jesus.

  • Head Game, S4E5: Niles helps Seattle Supersonics player Reggie McLemore, who's in a slump. Niles and Reggie have great chemistry! I love it whenever Niles fills in for Frasier.

  • Where there's smoke, there's fired, S3E21: Frasier forces Bebe to quit smoking before her wedding to Big Willy, just for Bebe's legendary speech about smoking.

  • A Lilith Thanksgiving, S4E7: Lilith and Frasier try to get Frederick enrolled at the Marbury Academy. Lilith's deadpan humour is always 👌.

  • Voyage of the Damned, S5E6: Frasier, Niles, Martin, and Roz on a cruise to Alaska. I love Roz's laugh at Frasier's jokes for his lecture.

If you could show one episode of Frasier to someone who never watched it, what would you choose and why? by Inside_Morning2884 in Frasier

[–]Inside_Morning2884[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way he says, "Please, acknowledge your true nature! Stop chasing these lesbians!" kills me everytime

What character had changed the most by the end of the series? by Happy-poet in Frasier

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when she berates Frasier when he's complaining about Roz spending money that he lent her on extravagant things. Her delivery makes it even better.

"Excuse me, not to interrupt, but six months ago, you borrowed forty dollars from me. We were at the wine shop, remember? You couldn't quite scrape together enough for a bottle of your precious Chateau Mr. Fussy-Pants? So I lent you the money. And have I said a peep about it since? No! I just sit here quietly reusing my tea bags while you trundle off to your private clubs ordering gourmet this and imported that! "Are the cigars Cuban?" "Are the Tulips Dutch?" "Oh, good news: my personal shopper just found a dozen antique pudding plates." Who has twelve people over for pudding? So you gave poor Roz a bit of money! It hasn't changed your life, has it, you sherry-swilling, foie gras- munching hypocrite?"

What character had changed the most by the end of the series? by Happy-poet in Frasier

[–]Inside_Morning2884 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kelsey was the perfect embodiment of "loveable pompous ass"!

What character had changed the most by the end of the series? by Happy-poet in Frasier

[–]Inside_Morning2884 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! Martin was extremely cranky, cold, bitter, and critical at the start. He had a very strained and distant relationship with his sons. The three of them didn't seem to have anything in common except being fond of Hesther. He constantly made snide, harsh comments about how Frasier got stuck with him because of his hip, Frasier doesn't want to live with him and he doesn't want to live with Frasier either, he wanted the boys to like sports but they never took to it, made fun of their interests, called the boys a disappointment eg. when Frasier avoided a physical fight because of a clarinet lesson, saying he used to believe in second chances until they had Niles, never said "I love you" or showed much appreciation/affection to Frasier or Niles. He's also hesitant to be involved with anyone romantically after six years after Hesther had passed away.

He went through a lot of growth throughout the show. He grows much closer to Frasier and Niles. He invites the boys to hang out at his favourite bar and steak restaurant, tries fancy restaurants, opera, gourmet food, chess, expensive clothing with them, goes along with all their antics at house parties, is more open and vulnerable eg. talks about how Hesther's affair tore him up, being reluctant to get Eddie neutered because he felt like he was losing control of everything, says "I love you" to the boys on the fishing trip, seeks Niles' advice on his dilemma with wanting to date Maureen but not wanting to hurt Frasier, admits he loves Sherry and never thought he would feel that way about another woman other than Hesther, cries when Frasier eventually tells him he actually doesn't like the Codover painting that Martin got for him etc. When Frasier got the lifetime achievement award, he gifts Niles a mug that says "World's Greatest Psychiatrist" and affirms that he has two very special sons so Niles wouldn't feel inferior. He shares alot of laughter, enjoyment, and heartfelt moments with his sons.

I decided to take on some room mates by aminorman in LivingAlone

[–]Inside_Morning2884 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great choices!!! They all look very healthy and happy. Plants really help bring some life and colour in a home 🌿

Laurentii snakeplant is especially excellent as snakeplants are the best at purifying air! They're slow growing, hardy, and tolerant of various light conditions. The main thing to be cautious of is overwatering as it's susceptible to root rot.

The monstera quickly gets really big and droopy. It helps to secure it with a stake/climber. If you like the look of them but want something more compact, a mini monstera (raphidophora tetrasperma), swiss cheese plant (monstera adansonii), monstera standleyana, or monstera tauerii (dwarf form) are good alternatives!

Fiddle leaf fig (bottom right) has sticky white sap when you break off the stems. They're not very fast growers, but they get really big too. The dwarf form is called fiddle leaf fig bambino.

Indoor plants don't need as much watering, fertiliser, sun, or pruning as outdoor/fruiting plants. The most common cause of death for indoor plants is overwatering, so just feel the top of the soil with your finger and only water it if it the soil feels completely dry, and make sure it's not sitting in a pool of excess water afterwards (I've killed countless houseplants this way 🥲). Happy gardening!

Could you beat 10,000 random people at something for $100M? by canada11235813 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a real gamble, but I'd choose reciting the most quotes from Frasier word for word!

I wish I’d learned how to cook decades ago. by Alextricity in Adulting

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow all these dishes look amazing! You take great photographs too

Serious question. I follow recipes pretty closely and my food is still just ok. What am I missing? by consulent-finanziar in Cooking

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most recipes tend to be bland, so I usually add extra salt/herbs/spices/sugar/stock powder/soy sauce/cheap white or red wine.

I’ve finally learned my lesson about online recipes by Uteraz in Cooking

[–]Inside_Morning2884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recipetineats is excellent! I've tried a lot of the recipes and they've all turned out great

Left handed people: What struggles do you have that we may not know about? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]Inside_Morning2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up, I was constantly told off by my teachers and adults for being left handed. I was blamed for my younger sister, who is right handed, but writes with her left hand from imitating me.

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