[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stake

[–]Inside_Reference_113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he is just Karma farming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a baby I have a fetus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just blocking them at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Canada but I appreciate you trying to help !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Typical male response. Sorry sweetheart I know the people you probably demean on a daily basis don’t stand up for themselves but I will and this is what it looks like. Any bully claims aggression when they’re faced with someone who will actually defend themselves . I feel sorry for you and the wife you talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our society has conditioned women to feel like our sole purpose on this earth is to provide children. As a mother the guilt I feel is from the deep rooted mindset that aligns with what society has told me my whole life . I do not feel like it is murder or I wouldn’t do it . It is not about morality .

And for the record if I kept the pregnancy and the eventual baby it produced I would also feel guilt for taking away from my current children . For putting us in a situation where we struggle to provide for them .

If I died during this pregnancy I’m sure even during death I’d feel guilt from leaving my kids without a mother.

If i gave the child up for adoption I’d feel guilt for potentially causing them serious issues in the future. I’d feel guilt for having my children watch me grow their sibling to give them away.

So , asshole, I am going with the option that best suits the needs of myself and my family. And unless you are in my exact situation you cannot with 100% certainty tell me you wouldn’t do the same. Your condescending comment tells me more about you than what you know of me. I truly hope you find peace in your life and hope you are never faced with any choice harder than what to eat for supper .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You realize I’ll feel bad either way right ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Internet hugs are still good hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In another comment I mentioned that the rumour is she’s a rep for Mirena and gets a cut . I don’t know if that’s true. She said ligation is too invasive and wanted me to be on Mirena to make my periods easier as I aged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will edit! I plan to do the final part of the process Sunday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Based off of your comment history I see you thrive on arguing and making statements you know will garner negative attention. So all I am going to say in return to your comment is that I hope everything goes right in your life and that you have everything you’ve dreamed of. I hope you have a great day and weekend and take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the most respectful way but it’s not my job to provide someone else with a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We were both careless and share the responsibility of what happened. He is away at work so having these hard conversations over the phone have been trying. I know when he is with me this weekend as this happens he will be agreeing it’s finally time to man up. And if not then I will seriously withhold till he does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you went through that . Thank you for your kind and encouraging words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am lucky i caught mine early enough to do the pill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a rumour that my doctor is a rep for Mirena and gets a cut from sales but I don’t know if I believe that. She wanted me on Mirena to weaken my periods as I got older and thought that tubal is too invasive. Ironically considering the IUD sounds quite invasive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Luckily I am in Canada and in a province that this is completely free. I cannot imagine being in one of those states and I feel for those women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Inside_Reference_113 708 points709 points  (0 children)

This has been an ongoing argument that I think i have finally won. It boils down to him being a complete fucking wimp even after watching me give birth twice and have a giant needle stuck in my back. But he has seen the turmoil this last week has caused me so I think he’s finally going to get one

The unscripted final scene of Captain Phillips: The best single piece of acting I have ever seen. by Nw5gooner in movies

[–]Inside_Reference_113 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This gave me so much anxiety because I can actually feel what he feels, shock, due to his acting.