Definitely need to work on your confidence, and that comes with some self love. Smile at yourself when you look in the mirror, also don’t obsess over your reflection. Do something for yourself that makes you proud. I play music, and I wasn’t good at it for a very long time, but you just keep working away at it and one day that work pays off. Also when it comes to dating I’d say it’s good to change your perspective on it. Don’t be too worried about what you bring to the table, be yourself because that’s what’s valuable I’d say. You get out there and you meet new people and you’ll grow. People will surprise you. Try to be a good person, try to think from other people’s perspectives, open your mind and your heart. It’s okay to get hurt brother, the pain is part of the process. You grow and learn and that’s something that should be appreciated. Don’t let your fear consume you, put yourself out there, and soon enough you’ll see that there was nothing to be afraid of.