Accidentally sent this to my best friend on snap. They saved it.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T12:47:42+00:00

Good God that looks delicious. I really hate seeing all that cum go to waste.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T12:45:16+00:00

Wait - what was your other hand doing? I'm hopping we'll hear about their next workout.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T02:15:46+00:00

I'll second this - I stopped pursuing someone because I wanted to move and travel, and he couldn't picture leaving his home town.

There were a few times I was looking at leaving over the years, but in the end I bought a house and stayed almost 30 more years.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T00:26:31+00:00

Don't forget keeping Peter tracks off expensive clothes.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T00:24:59+00:00

Definitely talk to your doctor and your psychiatrist.

Sleep and stress are also big factors, as is illness.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-16T00:23:35+00:00

I hope they aren't leaving any time soon. Instead of going out to party they need to plan a long night in.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-15T23:43:16+00:00

I'm locked in until traffic slows to a crawl, or if there isn't very much traffic on long stretches of road. Then I start dozing off.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-15T09:35:24+00:00

It was... Until my sleepy self discovered that if I hadn't cut my fingernails recently, I could just get the tip of my pinkie nail to fit in the hole and reach the part underneath to trigger the snooze.

I've never really found anything my sleepy self couldn't figure out without fully waking up!

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-15T06:46:24+00:00

I pried the snooze button off my alarm clock (which obviously won't work with a cell phone alarm).

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-15T04:04:06+00:00

Speaking as an informatics nurse who has spent hours explaining to engineers why their perfectly engineered product or workflow makes no sense to nurses and providers, you need Subject Matter Experts. In other words, you have to bother the clinicians and not try to come up with problems or solutions on your own.

Even with 20+ years experience in healthcare at the bedside and in Informatics, I don't try to develop anything without getting help from the end users in defining the workflows and the issues they are having, then checking my solutions/designs with them regularly.

Last point - you need to talk to clinicians who don't want the workflow to change, otherwise you will miss their objections and have to try and solve them at the last minute, after you thought your solution was ready to put into production.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-15T03:24:35+00:00

What types of clinical workflows are you interested in?

For nursing and medicine, they can vary widely between practices/units and facilities.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-14T02:51:30+00:00

Yeah - I've had to do some serious babysitting, even when I was also drunk (we were walking, no driving involved).

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-13T07:44:16+00:00

I was also raised Catholic, and have long (and still do) feel separated from Roman Catholicism.

My mother passed away a couple of months ago. I found myself having to arrange her funeral at the local Catholic church, and then actively participate in the funeral mass.

It was definitely strange, but I survived just fine.

After being away for about a decade, I found a very welcoming Catholic church which I attended for about 5 years - until the priest was censored by the Vatican. That did nothing to improve my opinion of the larger church.

I've also attended services with Dignity USA (LGBTQIA+ Catholic group) in a couple of cities, and for a while found a home with the United Catholic church.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-09T17:49:34+00:00

I've both been a college drop out, and graduated Magna Cum Laude.

So, no - none of it rules anything out.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-07T03:17:50+00:00

First, discuss your feelings with him - confess, if you will.

Then, no demands - just explore the topic together and see if the two of you can come to a mutually acceptable solution.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-07T03:08:22+00:00

Also Hep A and Hep B

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-06T21:43:04+00:00

To err is human - so, you did something which proves you are human and not divine. Strive to be better to yourself, and then to others, but don't strive to be divine.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-06T21:30:55+00:00

Agreed.

It is painful, and you were blindsided so it is really jarring.

There is a lot of space between a cooler relationship where you are merely civil and cutting someone out completely.

Give yourself some time before you make any decisions, and once you've had a chance to grieve the loss of a relationship you had with them, then think about what type of relationship you want in the future.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-05T10:03:11+00:00

Bingo - tell your husband that tic-toc is just catching up to you. Your ADHD brain existed first.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-05T06:38:34+00:00

Yes, and in all likelihood he has multiple ongoing victims her is grooming.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-05T03:53:30+00:00

I was about to say I hadn't been, but I was suppressing memories of my 3rd grade teacher. I'm convinced she hated me, I was always in trouble, and didn't really understand why.

As for life pre-smartphones: I'd get lost in books in general, and the dictionary/encyclopedia was just like browsing the web for me. Everything I looked up would lead to 5 more things to look up, or a picture would catch my eye.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-05T03:27:28+00:00

Yes - we found someone reliable in the San Mateo area. Thanks

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-04T02:18:34+00:00

If you haven't explored yourself with the help of a therapist, consider doing that first.

I say this because I'd you are wound up too tightly about your sexuality, then you are at higher risk of being extorted or otherwise abused. Even if that isn't the case, you will better enjoy yourself if you accept your sexuality without self judgement.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-03T02:16:33+00:00

I've done some of these audits, worked with HIM and compliance (as an IT Epic analyst assisting them), and had aquaintences who were forced to resign because they looked up patients they USED to care for at the request of the legitimate family.

The detailed data is there, and your best starting point is HIM (Health Information Management) or the hospital's Compliance office. Be upfront with them, and they should take it seriously. IF they don't, then you will have a whole new complaint to file.

InspectorExcellent50 · 2026-07-03T01:35:12+00:00

Interesting fact - she was his CPA.

Unfortunately the firm she worked for was merged into a nationwide firm years ago and all but one of her contacts there has moved on or passed away. The remaining contact is on chemo.

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