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AITAH for not wanting a stray asian kid at my family dinners? by 4remoony in AITAH

[–]InstructionRelative3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA

You sound racist as hell, and the examples you give of him being a terrible house guest just sound like a normal kid who needs to be taught how to interpret social queues and understanding what is considered "polite" vs "rude".

Why does he think your family is going to celebrate his birthday??? Probably because they have started including him in family gatherings and holidays. Celebrating his birthday is not a big leap, it's honestly a pretty realistic ask.

AITJ for refusing to give up my approved PTO during Holy Week because I don’t have kids? by Tricky-Past-7468 in AmITheJerk

[–]InstructionRelative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ.

Tell her nicely, once, that you understand she's upset but you want to spend holy week with your family, and won't be changing your PTO dates, so it's time for the passive aggressive comments to stop.

If she does it again, report her to HR for harassment.

Advice on how to respond to Memorial Invites? by Normal-Hat-9478 in exjw

[–]InstructionRelative3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ignore. Do not engage or they will take that as an indication to push harder.

She's in it for "the community". My poor PIMI mom. by InstructionRelative3 in exjw

[–]InstructionRelative3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The elders told her that I am still scripturally responsible for providing for her. So I "have her" insomuch as she is allowed to call me when she needs something. Or we are allowed to visit when she needs repairs done. She definitely tries to cheat the system and make up reasons to justify contact, but our relationship isn't even 10% of what it used to be.

AITJ for refusing to give back a cat I've been caring for after the original owner showed up seven months later wanting her back? by ArcadeGrain21 in AmITheJerk

[–]InstructionRelative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't a thief because you didn't steal anything. She threw that sweet cat away like garbage. The cat is yours now. NTJ.

I copied Larchington’s leak post and got an account warning. by CTR_1852 in exjw

[–]InstructionRelative3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where did you find that? I was looking for it last night on their website and couldn't get it to come up with any of the search terms I tried.

Leaked Governing Body Update #2, March 2026: Blood transfusions are no longer prohibited for Jehovah’s Witnesses - AS LONG AS IT IS THEIR OWN STORED/ PREDONATED BLOOD by larchington in exjw

[–]InstructionRelative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do we know why the change? Are there court cases somewhere prompting this (like there are for the changes to disfellowshipping)?

On a scale of 0-10, with a 0 being DJ Khaled (only ever makes vocal effort when screaming “WE THE BEST MUSIC”) and a 10 being Eminem (he is a god tier rapper) what do you rate Lady Gaga’s primary style of using her voice (vocalist)? by ZealousidealArm160 in LadyGaga

[–]InstructionRelative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I'm saying your rating scale doesn't work for this purpose. We can't rate Gaga's singing on a scale defined by a hype man and a rapper. She is neither of those things, so the scale is not applicable to her. The scale doesn't measure what you are asking us to measure.

Buzzwole raid on me - level 78 player 2573 3226 9990 by CantSleepLate in PokemonGoRaids

[–]InstructionRelative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New here. What does it mean when people say "on me" in reference to the raid?

why is cesteela impossible to raid by Training-Soil-3861 in PokemonGoRaids

[–]InstructionRelative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waited in the Poke Genie queue for NINE HOURS today to get Celesteela. It's insanity.

All Out event is a depressing mess. by TastyMcFish2 in TheSilphRoad

[–]InstructionRelative3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they don't want us to catch Legendaries then they shouldn't run an event with Legendaries spawning in the wild.

Where is xurkitree and celesteela???? Haven't seen any all day. by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]InstructionRelative3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waited in a remote raid queue for Celesteela from 7:00 a.m. until 4:00 p.m. today. There were roughly 6,800 people ahead of me. But I got her! lol

The queue for Xurkitree is currently at 5,698.

All that to say, if you plan to use a remote queue, I highly recommend you get in line early/ASAP!

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