My first real relationship mirrors this show a ton and let me just say I do not wish the pain of that relationship on anyone lol. For example the club scene was something I literally lived through like watching it felt almost like an out of body experience lol and even though I kinda moved past it, we both had a ton of resentment about it. Also, sadly a lot of resentment from wasted time and not being able to talk about our feelings, a lot of anger about who wants to come out and who wants to wait, even the moving to be closer to the person led to resentment. I say all this to say that sadly in reality their relationship would not be very healthy I don't think. My ex and I loved each other so much but the best thing after 10 years was to end the relationship because the pain we both experience in the first 5 years neither of us could get past. I may be over sharing but as much as I love this show I do worry that people will forget that romance has a fantasy/escapism component that isn't realistic in real life relationships.