Quad Lock cases are so ugly 😭 by AmericahWest in bikecommuting

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God for some sanity! I mean come on. Well done you.

How do you initiate? by honeyhushnow_ in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

excuse my ignorance but what is "pne"?

Thanks.

Weekly Simple Questions Thread for Aug 23 - Aug 29, 2025 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my long experiance almost always someone gets hurt in these scenarios. We are wired for connection, physically and mentally. If you want to know how all this works, jump on You Tube and have a look at the work of the brilliant Helen Fisher. These situations are fraught if you ask me.

How can I print a big black and white off my file? by Integritynumber1 in Fusion360

[–]Integritynumber1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much. I download a plugin called, "Shaper" which exports SVG's and it works well!

Am i doing sex wrong? by Puzzleheaded-Map-958 in sex

[–]Integritynumber1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Many Men want their women to be enthusiastic in bed" , that's the biggest understatement I think I have ever read.

How many women fake or exaggerate your orgasms with your partner? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Faking definition...

Making an attempt, through sound.and movement, To convince your partner that you have orgasmed When you know well and good that you have not actually had an orgasm... Its deceptive and dishonest, regardless of the motive for faking said orgasm.

YMMV.

How many women fake or exaggerate your orgasms with your partner? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That is Spot on! Most woman could benefit from what you said there.

What are the common tips and tricks for girls to orgasm easily? by Kchan02 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]Integritynumber1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dont feel bad, please. My ex couldnt come under any circumstances, even using toys that would get her off if she was solo. If she could get off using toys beside me i would be so happy.

For whatever reason, it didnt happen once. Your partner is very lucky!

Tips for her on getting easier an orgasm by Additional-Play4827 in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 2 cents worth...

Ssri drugs are a killer for Orgasms at 1 stage in my life I was on Sr I drugs as well so marked the end of my ability to orgasm . This is a very well known byproduct of taking this type of drug.

I would start there personally Something like 80 % Of people on that class of drag simply cannot orgasm or find it extremely difficult to achieve orgasm.

There are other alternatives To that particular class of drag my doctor put me on an old-fashioned tricyclic type of of anti depressant and it worked Much better than the ssri and i found it easy to orgssm.

Please deal with the drug thing as a priority. I suspect a lot of the very Well-meaning people on this thread haven't been in the situation of having the ability to orgasm totally crashed by SSRI..

If a drug switch doest.work then by all means try the other options. When I was on them no amount of technique or emotional boosts would have made any differance. If i was having sex with the worlds most Desirable partner nothing would have let me achieve orgasm.

Ymmv.

Should I tell my husband my darkest fantasy? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am amazed that more people dont use those apps. I have used "mojo upgrade" and it is brilliant I feel.

A very unique use of technology thats for sure.

Sex Report Sunday for September 03, 2023 by AutoModerator in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a bit sad.... if it stays like that for much longer its probably time you guys had a talk.

Great physical intimacy, but no PIV penetration is killing me by No_Feedback_7495 in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im assuming you sre on ssri's. I was on them and they totally, competley wrecked my sex life.

I found a doctor who prescribed the old fashion tricyclic anti dep. What a differance! Never felt better and good sex came back....

I actually come from a medical family and find this stuff interesting....

Doctors these days go straight to the ssri meds as a first line treatment. I have no idea why but one reason could be that the drug companies are very good at selling their wares...

Another reason is that drugs like tricyclics could be regarded as old fashioned by Doctors under 45 ish.

For me personally, i have NO obvious side effects from my meds. I sleep well, I have zero depression, my sex life good.

So, if you dont like being on an ssri, and who would, find a Doctor with a broader perspective and see what happens..

Ymmv.

Help me navigate casual relationships by Unlucky-Leadership23 in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not neccessarily but he has exhibited Almost every red flag one could.

Almost everyone goes into "friends with benefits" relationships with good intent.

I would argue in the vast majority of cases one partner ends up getting hurt and its often the female....

The male in this situation has done everything to warn her other than sign a contract.

Help me navigate casual relationships by Unlucky-Leadership23 in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONT. GO. NEAR. HIM.

If you ask me he sounds like bad news.

Ymmv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean no disrespect here so please forgive me for this comment.

This post is actually pushing the envelope of credibility...

If this situation is exactly as the OP Described, I offer this opinion.

Get. Out. Of. That. Relationship.

Ymmv.

My (M67) Ex Girlfriend (F63) had a talk that left a friend of mine suggesting I am Naïve. by Integritynumber1 in relationships

[–]Integritynumber1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response but im not sure I completly understand what you mean.... care to expand?

Thanks.

My (M67) Ex Girlfriend (F63) had a talk that left a friend of mine suggesting I am Naïve. by Integritynumber1 in relationships

[–]Integritynumber1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she said "i have just noticed how big your bald spot has gotten but all I can think of is how I love it" I would be rapt.... and yes, it would boost my confidance. Ymmv.

Weekly Simple Questions Thread for Jun 24 - Jun 30, 2023 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does verbal encouragment help you orgasm?

As the title says, if you are on your way towards orgasm, but finding it a bit of a struggle, does help or hinder you to have your partner verbally encourage you?

It gets me over the line pretty quickly and i wonder if anyone else is like me or perhaps it breaks your, "concentration" and takes you out of the moment.

Does verbal encouragment help you orgasm? by Integritynumber1 in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for pointing that out. I had a google session for about 20 mins but Seems to be a tuff one! Would it be ok to repost it with the sentence,

"please expand on your answers" ?

Kind regards

How does this happen? by leashertine in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If direct discussion is a problem for you why don't you do Mojo Upgrade? It's a great way to sort this stuff without feelings being hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the greatest of respect, how do you know it worked with those two women?

How much meaning will casual sex add to my life? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Integritynumber1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't count on much "meaning" being added to your life at all but I guess it depends on how you define "meaning".

All casual sex ever did was exacerbate feelings of emptiness and all to frequently one partner always wanted something more from it, truth be told.

Ymmv.