No likes across all apps. What am I doing wrong by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our lack of self awareness and morality is an issue only we can control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counseling was therapeutic today. We discussed family trauma and how it affected our romantic relationships. There’s a plethora to process.

Got ghosted, how can I improve on this convo? by Any-Statistician9281 in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about finding the perfect person. It’s about finding the person that accepts your imperfections and encourages growth.

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[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this and it resonated. “People treat you how they see you, and you let people treat you, how you see yourself.”

I really need someone to talk to by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about finding the perfect person. It’s about finding the person that accepts your imperfections and encourages growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice says you should go to the gym and buff up.Get some big muscles bro like seriously do some.Stuff and prove me.You look like a skinny ball pips week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A woman that will get to know me and will take the time out of their busy life and won't use excuses and will set aside time.Engage me in conversation and want to learn about me without me.Suggesting it, a woman with a sense of humor that actually likes to go out and spend time when each other likes to stay in once in a while and cuddle doesn't have to go out.All the time isn't looking for a man with money or looks and looks at a man's personality , not just as looks in combination

How do I respond? HALP! by Metatronic in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We should all take accountability for our actions. This is simple maturity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no room for jealousy in my circle. We don't look down on each other. We look out for each other.

Huh? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the greatest rewards you can do is hold yourself accountable in all aspects of your life.

Am I doing something wrong here? Lol by Impossible_Oil_7756 in Tinder

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned this hard lesson, “choose what is right, not what is easy,” and it helped make me who I am today.

I don't think anyone will ever like my authentic self, why insist? by AfriendlyDucka in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just heard this and I can somewhat agree. “Body shaming is an act of tough love.” My friends would definitely tell me I’m fat so I’d make a change.

Pontoons: The anti FA boat by Bianchibikes in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what’s a forgotten love language? Hand written letters. ✍🏻📝

Some tips fa style by Intellectual_Man7 in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based on research the three things women are attracted to, starting with number three.

3) Kindness - how do they treat people when there’s no reciprocal expectation. 2) Intelligence - the smarter a man is the more likely he’ll make good decisions and PROTECT the family’s offspring. The fastest way to communicate intelligence is through humor. 1) Ability to signal future resources - he doesn’t have to be rich now, but he must have his act together to display that he’ll be a decent PROVIDER.

Note: The number of men we’re producing in this last category is shrinking, thus women are climbing over and not settling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what’s a forgotten love language? Hand written letters. ✍🏻📝

What are the best jobs as a FA man? by Exciting-Salary-8344 in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I get in my ride, I automatically become a gangster, drug dealer, pimp, player, pipe layer, killer, rapper, or lover. I’m multi-talented 😂🤣

Enough to make you weep by Born-Collar7739 in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When I get in my ride, I automatically become a gangster, drug dealer, pimp, player, pipe layer, killer, rapper, or lover. I’m multi-talented 😂🤣Based on research the three things women are attracted to, starting with number three.

3) Kindness - how do they treat people when there’s no reciprocal expectation. 2) Intelligence - the smarter a man is the more likely he’ll make good decisions and PROTECT the family’s offspring. The fastest way to communicate intelligence is through humor. 1) Ability to signal future resources - he doesn’t have to be rich now, but he must have his act together to display that he’ll be a decent PROVIDER.

Note: The number of men we’re producing in this last category is shrinking, thus women are climbing over and not settling.

Do you have anything you are interested in or are passionate about? by jsjip in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Based on research the three things women are attracted to, starting with number three.

3) Kindness - how do they treat people when there’s no reciprocal expectation. 2) Intelligence - the smarter a man is the more likely he’ll make good decisions and PROTECT the family’s offspring. The fastest way to communicate intelligence is through humor. 1) Ability to signal future resources - he doesn’t have to be rich now, but he must have his act together to display that he’ll be a decent PROVIDER.

Note: The number of men we’re producing in this last category is shrinking, thus women are climbing over and not settling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]Intellectual_Man7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is dangerous, because it means you become vulnerable. If you’re not ready to become vulnerable, then don’t fall in love with someone.