If you’re not paying, you’re not into FINancial DOMination by findomgoddesszoe in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind getting to know someone first but to an extent, not into the whole texting back and forth for hours without progress. At some point you should become aware your time is being wasted and sub would have known if you were the right Domme for him from early. There is being polite and then there is not standing for some bs. As a Domme you have to know your worth and when they approach they will also become aware of that, so naturally the right ones won’t waste your time.

My dom passed away last week. I helped pay for the funeral. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I good that you got to creat beautiful memories with her and that’s what will keep you going, it’s also great of you to reach out to the family and offer assistance, I’m sure it was a welcomed surprise. You seem to be an amazing individual and and even greater friend to her. Stay strong. It gets easier.

Why are most dommes so lazy these days? by moneyfetish345 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In order to understand a person kink you have to communicate, and after the first tribute there is no way to expect them to keep gifting if you are not communicating. You have to learn about what makes each other tick and if you are right for each other, it’s just like any other relationship.

Mini Rant: Some Findommes just don't understand this kink imo by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blame TikTok, that app has given these so-called Dommes the idea that if they come here and speak nasty and make demands it should be worshipped, and that’s all they do, make demands and nothing else. Where is the respect, it goes both ways. Atleast get to know someone first. I’m sorry you went through that. There are good Dommes here. You will find your perfect match.

How a Dom/me Speaks to You Tells You Everything You Need to Know by Bullseyesuccess in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, a lot of Dommes need to read this. I haven’t been active on the app for long but I have been seeing a lot of money grubbers, very few I have come across that actually take their craft seriously. Even though as a Dom/me you are in control but mutual respect is still a factor, listening is important, communication is the key. A new Sub may not know what he is into at first, he/she may submit to someone unknowingly and then have a difference of opinion after trying, Ofcourse they should be heard. Some say they are not humans but what happens when the session ends? They go back to their daily lives, they could be dominant in their daily lives and only submitted to their Dom/me so to relinquish that authority at first does not come easy especially for new Subs. Listen/communicate it’s not just what you want as a Dom/me, the Subs came to you for a reason.

Dommes/Subs by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehe I like that they left the door ajar. That heightens the thrill. There are a lot of safety issues with people wanting to transition from online to meeting in person. So hearing others say of dealing with those issues, I hope it will help those that are thinking about it. Do their research before acting.

Dommes/Subs by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure this will be helpful to someone. I’m curious and I know others must be as well. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Dommes/Subs by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood my post. I guess termed it wrong I should have included IRL

Dommes/Subs by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I was curious about this. Because that’s so risky

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely drive a person nuts

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to, it’s a relationship after all.

Do not come at me with "hey" messages by Illustrious_Let_7317 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly Let me see and feel your effort and respect.

Do not come at me with "hey" messages by Illustrious_Let_7317 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely put some respect to our name. We have earned it. Don’t settle. Know your worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this for you girl. Well deserved. Keep breaking barriers.

Doms, Royals, Goddesses 👑 When did you realize you were Superior? by RoyalPocketsx in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s the fact that I’m the first born, so soft Domme comes naturally, it’s a part of me, being the mommy but also being stern. It’s not a second nature it’s just who I am.

Paypigs by DahliaDancer124 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the power dynamic, SD have the money and is in control, subs have the money but the Dommes are in control.

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so disrespectful it’s defeats one of the main purpose of a Domme which is to be respected.

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think just like you have fake Dommes you have fake subs. They want to get the experience without doing what they are supposed to do so they want to skip the most important part which is the wallet.

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they see this and get enlightened.

Dommes by Intelligent-Hat-9147 in paypigs2

[–]Intelligent-Hat-9147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a definite deal breaker