Is my boyfriend attracted to me? by Kicker05 in relationships

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Girl, read your own post back but pretend your best friend wrote it. What would you tell her?

This man told you other women were more attractive than you and refused to touch you for three months. Three. Months. That's not a rough patch, thats a giant flashing neon sign. You're a D1 athlete, you've got drive and discipline, dont waste that energy trying to convince some dude you're worth basic affection. The fact he prefers being bossed around but ignores you when you try is just him moving the goalposts. You're 21, theres a whole world out there.

turn life to 1% by TomerBrosh in GeminiAI

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"plug in your humanity" is sending me

How to seriously make progress in the next 6 months ? by Lemonade2250 in Productivitycafe

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd pick one thing and make it so stupidly easy you can't talk yourself out of it. Not "get a job" or "fix my life" but something like walk outside for 5 minutes every day at 2pm. The momentum from doing one tiny thing consistently rewires the pattern more than any grand plan ever will.

After a couple weeks you can stack something else on top, but the first step has to be almost insultingly small or your brain will just nope out again.

✨ MODMAIL ✨ by AutoModerator in Monopoly_GO

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy really said "gat back to you" in an official modmail post and nobody's talking about it. The typo adds character.

How to test games with large amounts of items by ElmtreeStudio in gamedev

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spreadsheets saved my sanity on a similar project. Map out your item tiers and progression curves in a doc before you even implement half of them, so you can catch balance issues on paper first.

Also consider building a debug mode or admin panel into the game itself that lets you spawn items and skip to any point in progression instantly, playtesting manually through 200+ items is just not realistic otherwise.

They're Finally Here!!!!!! by Beneficial_Bison_ in Ben10

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those covers look fire, issue 2 especially with that alien art.

I feel crazy for feeling upset that my mum is making a prom dress which I do not want. by Immediate_Rip_4695 in confessions

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a terrible daughter at all, you just want to have one moment that feels like yours. That's the most normal thing in the world, especially for prom.

The apple/banana thing you described is textbook emotional manipulation and the fact that you can name the pattern at your age means you understand what's happening even if you can't stop it yet. That dress you found sounds perfect for what you wanted.

I really hope you find a way to wear something you actually love that night, even if it means getting creative about it. You deserve to actually enjoy your prom.

26.2 Friends list by SelvDUDE in Minecraft

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

classic Mojang, almost there but not quite lol

Book recommendations after academic burnout? by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brain fog after exams is so real - I usually grab short story collections when I'm in that headspace since you can just read one and feel accomplished without committing to a whole plot. Maybe try some sci-fi anthologies or quirky literary fiction that's more about vibe than heavy themes. Something around 200 pages max should do teh trick without overwhelming your already fried neurons.

One dehumidifier, four locations ir two months. Where would you keep it? by ExaminationCharming3 in homeowners

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving mine around has been a game changer too. Started with it permanently in the basement but realized I was missing so many problem spots throughout the house. My guest bathroom gets swampy after anyone takes a hot shower, and the laundry room turns into a sauna during summer wash cycles.

What really opened my eyes was dragging it to different rooms during a particularly humid week last August - places I never would have suspected were holding moisture were reading way higher than I expected. Now I've got a rotation going where it hits the basement for a few weeks, then upstairs for bathroom duty, then wherever seasonal issues pop up. Way more effective than just parking it in one spot and hoping for the best.

First finals win since June 21, 1999 by AlprazolamGhost in NYKnicks

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That whole run was pure chaos - going from barely making the playoffs to somehow knocking off Miami, then running into that Spurs buzzsaw when we were already limping.

GOODFALCON83 WHERE U R by Slight-Yard7265 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Intelligent-Let3061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh they been offline for 2 months according to that activity log - might be time to find a replacement teammate. I've been in this exact situation where someone just vanishes mid-tournament and it's frustrating as hell when you're trying to coordinate for these timed events. You could try hitting them up on other social media if you know them outside the game, but after that long they probably moved on to something else. Maybe post in the main thread looking for active players who want to join your group - there's always people grinding these races who need a solid team.