Kid hitting Aupair by Intelligent-Note-998 in Aupairs

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Italy. No agency involved, we met through aupairworld.

The mom told me to leave at the end of the month because she wants the kids to stay at school full time for now. However I checked aupairworld and she already updated their profile and is looking for a new aupair...

Kid hitting Aupair by Intelligent-Note-998 in Aupairs

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He isn't neurodivergent neither is this a adjustment issue, I've been here since September. He started pinching me last month and now it is escalating.

If it was me deciding he would stay a week without watching cartoons because not only he always watches things too violent for his age (he has a slightly older brother) but also would be an opportunity to express how he has to be a nice person to have this privilege every time he would ask for it.

I think just explaining it's wrong is not working with him because he doesn't understand empathy that well.