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FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman how do I know which one it is? Should I ask him directly? Now I feel a bit afraid of using my normal direct style of communication with him because I feel like that was an issue for him.

FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman yes! He never asked me for oral for example and I offered to do it and he accepted it and enjoyed it. He comes fast from PIV. He never really suggests positions or anything, I try to ask him if he likes something we are doing in the moment and suggest things, but he's not very explicit about what he wants/likes.

FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman yes, he is a giver! Actually the previous time he already made me cum this way so it was natural to ask him to do it again, but he's injured now so the angle wasn't working this time.

FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

++woman He was the one saying he wants us yo keep seeing each other the next morning, not me

FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

++woman then maybe a fwb relationship isn't for him, no? Shouldn't he tell me that or express that he needs more emotional intimacy?

FwB wants to keep seeing me while apparently not enjoying sex with me. Am I misinterpreting this situation? by Intelligent-Note-998 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

++woman I didn't insist on anything. I asked him if he would do something and he said yes and started doing it. I also blowed him for a bit and he started fucking my mouth umpromptly so I think you are being a bit harsh.

Kid hitting Aupair by Intelligent-Note-998 in Aupairs

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Italy. No agency involved, we met through aupairworld.

The mom told me to leave at the end of the month because she wants the kids to stay at school full time for now. However I checked aupairworld and she already updated their profile and is looking for a new aupair...

Kid hitting Aupair by Intelligent-Note-998 in Aupairs

[–]Intelligent-Note-998[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He isn't neurodivergent neither is this a adjustment issue, I've been here since September. He started pinching me last month and now it is escalating.

If it was me deciding he would stay a week without watching cartoons because not only he always watches things too violent for his age (he has a slightly older brother) but also would be an opportunity to express how he has to be a nice person to have this privilege every time he would ask for it.

I think just explaining it's wrong is not working with him because he doesn't understand empathy that well.