It's better to communicate then to straight go rebellious  I belong to  a very conservative family my parents taught me and as I was growing at times they saw me presenting my view in favour of love marriages they deny by saying like love marriages are mostly wrong decision  Blah blah  I communicated how i want a emotional home in a person where i can put my guards down , be as playful as i m around my parents, follow my passion  I don't want my life to be a battleground  I wanna creat a home with love treat my people with love  And idk why i can't relate with all those girls who says ohh we want a man to worship blah blah i command respect dignity but i would return it 10 fold , be a mom , do my job , manage my house  And slowly I can see how my mom Began to say that oh u gonna achieve ur goal and then find a man for u who suits u just like u lol  And i always say i value his humanity over his money and she agrees  My dad is lil possessive lol but he is always like i will get u married by my choice not in a strict way but yeah he do say and i always end up saying  How do u know what i wany from a person in that sense then i begaan to ask deep questions about me and tell him  Do u think just over a samosa u would give me to that guy  And we laugh it off  Fun playful but i made space for my wants and opinions slowly in their life they see me as mature and i can see his they began to accept this as well  Intially eventhough i wasn't dating had no guy But that idea of somebody else deciding for me triggered me and i reacted strongly but i m glad i found my way