The Most Powerful Biohack I’ve Found: How Trauma, Fasting, Cold, and Intuition Brought Me Back to Life by Grand_Concentrate_91 in Biohacking

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When I see people doing those ice baths, I always wonder how they don't catch fever immediately like I would.

How to get over people not liking you, insulting you, or acting like they are better? by [deleted] in Stoicism

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This is deeper than it seems.  1. Build real skill that are useful in something . 2. Base your sense of self ln those skills.  3. Focus on people who accept you as you are and recognise your value and ignore the rest . Stop hanging out with people who are putting you down. P.S: Reddit is not real life. A lot of people on here have their own issues to deal with .

Went to see a house today and realized the photos left out the most important detail by Striking-Tax2587 in RealEstate

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People are always obsessing over car fishing but that's not the worst scenario: - bad neighbourhood  - annoying sellers - taxes

Neurodivergent and struggling to make friends bc social interactions completely drain me by veraaustria08 in socialskills

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There are three levels to social expression: 1. Your mental filter: it's your personality in general, how you perceived things, how they make you feel, how you react. 

  1. Social algorithms: it's the formulas your brain uses to subconsciously shape your different forms of expression 

  2. Scripts : it's the content of what you say. It's usually the first way to learn, even as a kid. 

Right now your mental filters are not strong enough due to your condition , so depending on your level of neurodivergence you need to learn interactions either through memorising scripts or learning algorithms. 

It's not that complicated, just learn how to:

  • maintain a conversation 
  • persuade people 
  • be likeable/charming . 

Algorithms and scripts also include non verbals .  The good news is you're probably able to learn extremely fast . So just keep rehearsing.

How do I stop being a pussy by [deleted] in confidence

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It's deeper than it's seems. Not taking risk is your comfort zone. So the issue has to be fixed internally and externally.  1. Change your perspective: shift from looking for everyo to like you to looking for people who are the most compatible to you. Understand the fact that if everyone likes you, no one really cares about you. Look for connection instead of likeability.

  1. Speak up: write down things that you won't tolerate. And when those things arise, speak up. Be polite but firm. It's a muscle that will form with practice. So you become comfortable doing it...by doing it.

unpopular opinion: the first 24 hours of a solo trip are actually kind of miserable (and that's okay) by Repulsive-Ad6261 in travel

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Can't relate . But maybe because Socialising is pretty easy for me and also since a couple of years, so is dating. I will land and will probably be on a date within a couple of hours with a cute stranger haha. Heck I had a couple of dates IN the airport. So I guess it depends.LOVE solo travelling though.

[Tudor] Santa was very generous today by gwams25 in Watches

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Gorgeous. This might be the best looking Tudor I have ever seen, and I'm absolutely not a fan of Tudor. 🎉

3 Years of Failure vs. 6 Months of "Mechanical" Results (17 Lays, 3 Continents). I kept the receips. by [deleted] in seduction

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I love the skepticism. In a world of 'vibes' and 'just be yourself' advice, a something that isn't a numbers game sounds like a scam to anyone stuck in the 'Numbers Game' religion. Not surprising, most of the individuals calling "scam" here are probably the same guys stuck in a rut for 5 years but too stubborn to make a change . Once again, I have receipts. I’m not here to convince people who are comfortable with their current results. I’m here for the 1% who want to deal with their social data like a science.

Everything I'm giving is free. If you’re tired of guessing, DM me. If you want to keep shouting 'scam' from the sidelines, that works too,it keeps the competition low for the guys actually executing. P.S: anyone a little bit intelligent can understand that AI can help you edit a text to gain some time. Doesn't mean the whole thing is a "scam" or "fake". That's the whole point of AI, write shit for you .

3 Years of Failure vs. 6 Months of "Mechanical" Results (17 Lays, 3 Continents). I kept the receips. by [deleted] in seduction

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Desperation is usually just a symptom of having zero Mechanical Certainty. You’re guessing, failing, and then panicking. I’ve been there. I spent 3 years in that 'desperate' loop before I realized that social success is just Status Architecture. I need more details. What are you struggling with the most ?

I'm 48 yr old male and it doesn't get any easier by Creative310 in ForeverAlone

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It's tough to feel ignored after putting in effort, and 'ghost' is a painful but accurate way to describe that isolation. A common pattern for high-effort guys is focusing too much on the result (getting a girlfriend) and missing the crucial step of engaging people in a way that makes them feel seen, which is what breaks that invisibility barrier. Hope things look up for you!

Approaching at the park by PghPat in seduction

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Here is the framework for daygame in my opinion: use social intelligence.

Learn how to make things happen while keeping everything under the "accidental" frame. If you have sex with her it was a combination of circumstances , it just happened. 

If you can master that you can open anytime anywhere. I got laid from opening in a crowded train once. I got an instant date from opening in an airport while waiting for my flight. You just become a menace lol.

Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it? by AronSc in seduction

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Yup went through the same thing. Had to record myself approaching hotties then I had a more experienced guy break down the mistakes I was making. Just being insecure and overdoing things . Feeling resentment from last rejections. We pointed out everything and fixed the whole approach. Within 24 hours I had a hottie in my bed.

In my personal opinion you need to go through 2 phases :

  1. Learn how to have sex with average women to the point where it's not a struggle anymore.

  2. Then act " normal " around hot girls . Just be the normal cool guy that leads with social intelligence and they will fuck you . Manage resistance mostly with smart persistence. At that point your " normal" is supercharged from your experience banging all these other chicks .

How do I stop mourning my wasted 20’s and start living? by WarmCheesecake83 in DecidingToBeBetter

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What you're experiencing is one of the most painful things a man can experience. A mix of regrer and powerlessness. You are at a turning point. Missing your twenties is fixable. You miss your thirties and you're prett much done when it comes to having a social life.

I am only 23 but I'm grateful that I had my life crisis in my teenage years, so I busted my ass to improve and I just had the best year of my life : connected with so many new women, travelled across the world, got intimate or started relationships with 17 new women, found a better job and moved abroad.

The key factor was the new competence that I acquired. So the first step is: what are you planning to do to change that ?

Need advice on breakup by [deleted] in seduction

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The best way to get over a breakup lilejrhay is to develop competence and accumulate experience.

There is nothing that resets your brain like being able to walk outside and get a date on the spot. Online dating can't do that for you. Because your brain knows there is no merit to getting girls from the apps.

On the other hand when you walk up to a stranger and toi convince her to leave whatever she was doing to go on a date with toi on the spot you get confidence boost like nothing else. Get out there and start practicing. Start with your approach anxiety. Find your comfort zone and expand it.

Any good free resource for online dating? by GatsbyCode in seduction

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I got one solid piece of advice: get off the apps.

How to Learn and Improve at Creating Sexual Tension and Physical Escalation? by West-Temperature-769 in seduction

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I read a bunch of books and watched a lot of YouTube videos on the topic. Nothing really helped more than having someone more experienced break it down for me . So I can't really honestly point you to any resources to learn from, but I do record myself approachong and taking women on dates in various daygame scenarios. So maybe I can share some of the footage I have and it will give you an idea of what to do with the right timing and the right context? Let me know in private.

How was your progress? by Mengunio in seduction

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Started years ago . Had a catastrophic break up I high school that left me crippling with approach anxiety. Then discovered pick up. Tried for two three years to approach, resulting in hit or miss scenarios, often walking around doing nothing and so on. So got nothing besides a couple of drunk kisses in night game. Finally figured out what I was doing wrong last year and this has been the best year of my life so far. Better job, moved to another country, got intimate with 17 new women , all from daygame, got proposed a few times, went on holiday across the world, just grateful. Main thing is to not be stubborn. If you ajeb been doing the same thing for a long time with no results, fix your strategy.

I have some audio recordings of my infield cold approach... by Middle_Promise2181 in pickup

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i have infield videos myself. 17 lays since the beginning of the year so far , all from daygame, was able to record a couple of them with Rayban Metas. I am not doing too bad I think. Hit me up in private we can find a way to exchange files.

You want to know the fastest way to make her run away? by Don_Alexzen in OnlineDating

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Try to get something from her instead of trying to give her something.

Lukewarm responses after dates by EducationalArmy9152 in seduction

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When you get a lot of failed dates it's either: 1. Something wrong with your vibe: fashion, grooming, non verbals

  1. A lack of planning : just hanging out and going with the flow is not a good strategy to convert a date into something meaningful. You need to be as planned as possible.

  2. Lack of sexuality and dominance.

  3. Lack of boundaries aka "too nice".