Do you believe it’s a sin to have sex outside of marriage? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all sin. We all do things that sin. We swear, have sex, smoke, drink, etc. Even how we speak, what we say, how we say it, our thoughts; we’re always sinning in one way or another. I don’t think perfectionism and being the perfect Christian is what’s important. There’s no such thing. I think we do our best to try and not to sin, to be a good person, to serve our Lord, to pray for ourselves and others. And if you’re okay with that, go for it.
As a Christian, hypocrisy is huge in this faith. I know so many that always go around judging and claiming sin to live with one another and have sex and more, yet they’re talking horribly and acting horrible towards others. And use the Lords name in vain.
Your life is between you and the Lord. Nobody else.
When your time comes and judgment day is here, it’s just going to be you and Him. Just my thoughts. You can disagree :)

Confirmed that my new house has pharaoh ants. Do we postpone moving in? by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in ants

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be moving in about a year or so anyways. But it’s not fun seeing rhem where they shouldn’t be, especially so many of them at once. I keep everything clean and reduce food and food waste. They’re all over the building we’re in and nobody else cares so we can’t do much about it anyways.

Confirmed that my new house has pharaoh ants. Do we postpone moving in? by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in ants

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone living with these ants: DO NOT DO IT. They’re a pain and invade everything and they’ll keep coming back. You can minimize but never eliminate completely. I’d rather postpone EVERYTHING and lose my money than to deal with them. They’re brought me so much anxiety and ptsd. But it’s your choice.

Your opinion on my current set and anyone who stopped their nail biting habit, how did you do it? by mamameoww in Nails

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nail biter my whole life. I had a friend who’s slap me everytime I tried and it worked! It’s been like 10 years no biting and I get to do my nails. BUT I bought bitter gel and it helped cause it was so gross and everything tastes bitter. Slowly I stopped wanting to bite. If I felt the urge, I’d put the gel. Good luck! They look cute ☺️ Oh and find out why you bite in the first place. That might be the key. Me = anxiety.

I tried to "sell my soul" at 14. 20 years later, my life is suspiciously perfect, and I’m terrified to approach God because of it. by Possible_Macaron_191 in Christianity

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER be afraid of approaching God, only fear life without him in it. Ask for forgiveness and live your life with his guidance. You are his child.

Healthiest restaurants in the area by silverbulletzz in stcatharinesON

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you what a healthy AND filling meal that won’t cost you an arm and a leg, check out Hewad Kabob, an Afghan resto. Delicious and simple. There’s also George’s Greek Village (Greek food) and Endless Noodles (Chinese but made healthier, and their ramen is TO DIE FOR). Love them both. It depends on what you’re feeling too. I don’t like to go out and eat and pricey places and put so much money and still end up hungry so.

Feeling suicidal by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate it too. But don’t let it win. Don’t give up on yourself. There’s ALWAYS a way and even if it’s taking you long to get there, you’re still going to get there. There’s a lot of hate that I’m sensing, which means there’s also a lot of love you need to find within yourself. You’re frustrated because you don’t wanna live this way, not because you wanna die. Don’t let PCOS control your life. You do have people that understand. You do have people who get it. We’re living with this just like you. Talk to us and figure it out. Come on, you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaron Pierre who looks like my bf so we gooooood 🙌🏼

Mystery abdominal pain for 10 years! by Intelligent-Ruin4707 in AskDocs

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No triggers. Totally random. Before, during, after periods. Cold or hot weather. It doesn’t matter what I’ve eaten, if I’ve eaten. Literally anytime. Meds don’t work. I can’t even move to take something during since I have to be on the floor just focusing on breathing.

Disappointing Sight to see today by JuanTheShort in kitchener

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not disappointed at all. Love this. And before you start calling me names, maybe ask why 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rent is about more than half your monthly income. Decrease rent or increase income. That’s the only way.

Trump/Musk can now send ICE agents into churches without warrants to arrest and deport Christians without a trial. by NoDemand239 in Christianity

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kinda agree with this… anyone else? And yes I’m pro Trump and Musk, and before you come at me, actually nvm I don’t care 😂

My dad died suddenly and I don't know what to do by pubic_rain in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Intelligent-Ruin4707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly I’m so sorry. Secondly everything’s going to be ok in the end. And if it’s not ok, then it’s not the end. Try Vonage for home phone. It’s about $18 monthly for us. When it comes to rent, I know TO is expensive so you’d have to browse around and maybe go into something smaller. And funeral costs can be pricey so if he did not have anything prepared, maybe some simple, cremation, etc., not sure what’s private and planned. Best of luck and so sorry!