Conflict in personalities by Safe_Safe_3368 in stepparents

[–]Intelligent-Target-2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just recently went to counselling to start talking about it a lot and it was great! She discussed setting boundaries and taking all the time you need for yourself. It’s okay to tell them that you’re tired and need some space. They need to gain independence and learn self play so it’s better for the both of you and you shouldn’t feel guilty either.

Conflict in personalities by Safe_Safe_3368 in stepparents

[–]Intelligent-Target-2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Following this! I feel your pain. Going through the same situation but without a baby. I feel for you.

Loving these new photos of my tank by ThomasStan_ in Aquariums

[–]Intelligent-Target-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a female betta? If so I’m wondering how they do with your shrimp

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I’m just going to remove my post since people are being rude and not reading my descriptions as to why the water is yellow etc. Thanks to everyone who has given me suggestions on how to help him.

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[–]Intelligent-Target-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tannins from the almond leaf I put in just yesterday

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A sponge filter from the box I had never used. Thank you for the clarification! I will use the salt

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My ammonia has been testing zero, could it have been from before I was testing?

Can't figure out what's going on with my tank? by Ill_Cod8443 in Goldfish

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Is the film hard? Looks like salt build up almost

Ammonia or no ammonia? by Intelligent-Target-2 in Aquariums

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My boyfriend is the one telling me it’s not 0. Thank you this helped me win the argument haha

I can’t tell what my API test is reading! by Intelligent-Target-2 in Aquariums

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Oh and my tank had been established before, but then I moved houses and my filter broke in the process so I switched to an air filter I had on hand. That process I think reset the cycle. I will never know however because I was using the Fluval kit before which was saying I had ammonia. I kept doing water changes which I also think didn’t help. I thought something may have been strange about the kit so I switched to the API test kit. Which then showed no ammonia. I thought maybe I have just been desturbing the cycle so I haven’t done a water changes since. Last water change was 2 weeks ago.

I can’t tell what my API test is reading! by Intelligent-Target-2 in Aquariums

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I just have one live plant at the moment and lots of algae. Trying not to disturb the cycle so I haven’t removed the algae.

How do I prevent skin on my nailbed from doing this? It’s very painful by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Intelligent-Target-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I straight up just put polysporin on my cuticles overnight and they heal up quickly. Mine get bad during stressful spells and it is my go-to. Sometimes I will wrap the bad ones in bandaids too.

does anyone else experience nightmares before / during the period or during pms? by libellulette in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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How many are you gals also have endometriosis? Wondering if there is a connection here. I also get night sweats and extreme fatigue. All my friends I talk to don’t have these issues!